Paul Edward Bebensee
October 21, 1932 — March 18, 2025
Paul E. Bebensee
Des Moines, Iowa
Paul Edward Bebensee, age 92, passed away Tuesday, March 18, 2025 at Iowa Methodist Medical Center in Des Moines, IA. Paul was born October 21,1932 to Harry and Christina Bebensee in Wiota, IA. He served in the U.S. Army for 2 years during the Korean War and was honorably discharged receiving the National Defense Service Medal and Good Conduct Medal. Paul worked with his dad on the family farm and was a barber for multiple years. He then worked for the United States Postal Service for 30 years retiring in 1992. After retiring, Paul worked at the main branch of the Des Moines Public Library for 14 years finding tremendous joy working in the children’s section.
Paul belonged to the Danish Brotherhood Lodge 15 and was a member of the American Postal Workers Union and NARFE. He performed volunteer work for the Lodge as well as his church. Paul enjoyed gardening, bowling, fishing, playing cribbage, following the Iowa Hawkeyes and spending time with his family.
Paul is survived by his wife, Donna (Overby), to whom he was married for 63 years. In addition, his children Diane (Barry) Bennett of Des Moines, IA and Paula (Roderick) DeAngelo of Altoona, IA and grandchildren Tyler (Savannah) Bennett, Nicholas (Emily) DeAngelo and Elaina DeAngelo as well as many nieces and nephews.
Paul was preceded in death by his parents, brother Harry LeRoy Bebensee and sister Elaine Tawzer.
Family will greet guests on Saturday, March 29, 2025, from 9:00 – 10:30 a.m., at Hamilton’s near Highland Memory Gardens, 121 NW 60th Ave., Des Moines, Iowa. A light reception will take place during the time of visitation. A funeral service will take place following visitation at 10:30 a.m., at the funeral home. Paul will be laid to rest at Highland Memory Gardens Cemetery, 1 NE 60th Ave., Des Moines.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be directed to the Des Moines Public Library Foundation to support the children’s section of the main branch or to the Danish Brotherhood Lodge 15 Scholarship Fund.
Online condolences may be expressed at www.hamiltonsfuneralhome.com
Tina Brooks
03/27/2025
I'm so sorry to hear of the Paul's passing. I had the pleasure of working with Paul for many years at the old Central Library. I have fond memories of his kind and gentle nature; he was always so positive. He would share stories of his family, and you could easily see how proud he was. Paul had a great smile, and he was easy to share a chuckle with. Sending my deepest sympathy to all those he loved.
Luann Rowat
03/26/2025
Paul was a valued staff member at Des Moines Public Library for many years. His love and passion for the Children's Department in particular was so endearing. He was a good man.
Patty Glenn
03/24/2025
So sorry to hear of Paul's passing worked with him at the Post Office, he was a hard worker and a kind soul. RIP
Shirley Prall
03/24/2025
Paul, Donna and I attended the same church at one time. Paul was such a very nice man. I extend my condolences to Donna and the family.
Barry Bennett
03/23/2025
Paul was a kind and caring soul who was my father-law for over 42 years. He was a great example through his love of family, willingness to help others, and courage and fighting Danish spirit when tough times came. His spirit, curiosity about learning new things, and optimism about the Hawkeyes will carry on!
Mary Tisl-Endres
03/23/2025
Donna, Diane, Paula & families,
So sorry to hear of Paul's passing. Thoughts and prayers for you as you walk through the mystery of death. May your memories bring you comfort and make you smile.
A former schoolmate of Diane's in Stuart,
Mary Tisl
Nora Davenport
03/20/2025
Adam and I were absolutely shocked to learn of Paul's death today-I myself just got out of rehab after taking a very bad fall-we have known both Paul and Donna for over 40 years, and in earlier years went out to eat and would sit in the booths and gab for hours--we enjoyed each other so much--Donna, I have gotten you a Willow Tree Angel and am writing a poem in P aul's memory--will give them to Adam to give to you--you are in our prayers.