Phyllis Irene Maxwell
November 21, 1928 — March 29, 2024
Phyllis Irene Maxwell, 95, passed away peacefully on March 29, 2024 after a long battle with Alzheimer’s and Dementia. She was born in Des Moines, Iowa on November 21, 1928 to Forest Gray and Mary Betty (Lajko) Gray. She graduated from East High School and worked for The Bankers Life Company as a Secretary. She later worked as a Receptionist and Secretary at her son’s company, Maxwell-Needham Collision Center.
Phyllis married her high school sweetheart, Robert R. Maxwell, Jr. and two children were born to them, Stephanie and Mark.
Phyllis enjoyed playing bridge and solitaire, bowling, golf, snow skiing, planting her flower garden, and traveling all over the world.
She is survived by her daughter, Stephanie McAdam; her son, Mark Maxwell; granddaughter, Tiffany (Tim) Hostetter; great-granddaughter, Kayleah; and many nieces and nephews.
Phyllis was preceded in death by her parents, her husband, and grandson Jeremy Harden.
A Celebration of her Life will be held at 12:30 p.m. on Wednesday, April 3, 2024 at Hamilton’s on Westown Parkway, 3601 Westown Parkway, West Des Moines, Iowa with visitation prior from 11:00 a.m. to 12:30 pm.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be directed to ABATE District 4 Toy Run or American Foundation for Suicide Prevention Iowa Chapter. Condolences may be expressed at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
Sam Overton
04/03/2024
I'm so sorry Mark that your mom had to go through this, and you as well, not being able to do anything about it. Love you Mark, and may God comfort your heart.
Matt Davis and Family
04/03/2024
Our deepest condolences to you and your family during this time of mourning.
She is now free of that horrible disease and is in heaven enjoying her time spent with all of her family and friends that were awaiting her arrival.
Our prayers are with you and we hope that you and your family are able to find peace knowing her soul is now at peace.
All our love
Matt, Mindy, Grace and Abby Davis
Scott Sengbusch
04/03/2024
Mark, all my sympathies to you. I rowed the same boat, heartbreaking. Take comfort with your mother now in paradise.
Scott Sengbusch
Becky
04/02/2024
Mark, I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your mother. I know how hard it is to lose a parent. I'm so sorry she had to go through the pain & suffering & your not being able to stop it. My thoughts & prayers are with you 🙏🏻
Mark Maxwell
04/01/2024
Mom, I am sorry!
I am sorry that I had to uproot you from the home you loved and move you someplace that you didn’t want to go.
I am sorry that I had to ignore your cries to go home, and leave you locked behind the door to the memory care unit.
I am sorry that I couldn’t help you when you struggled to get simple words out unsuccessfully.
I am sorry that I couldn’t be there to feed you, when you lost your ability to feed yourself.
I am sorry that I couldn’t be there to carry you, when you lost your ability to walk.
But more than anything else mom, I am sorry that I couldn’t stop you from going through hell you went through in the last years of your life!
RIP in the kingdom of the lord, mom, because you went through hell here on earth!
Steve
04/01/2024
Mark, my heart goes out to you and the entire family. Having recently traveled this road, I know it winds through rough terrain; on the one hand relieved that our loved one suffers no more, and yet struggling to fill the big hole in the heart. Your in my prayers, and my Lord is faithful to answer.
D4 Chaplain Brenda "Ma" Bolen
04/01/2024
My Dearest Mark, There are no words. Just tears to cry with you. Arms to hold you. Prayers to comfort you. Allow your ABATE District 4 family to be there for you. Lean on us as we have leaned on you throughout the past 3 decades.
Gegner Norlene
03/31/2024
Prayers to you. It has been such a battle. Hugs, Norlene.