Martin "Marty" Paul Zylstra
March 27, 1944 — November 19, 2023
Martin “Marty” Paul Zylstra, 79, passed away November 19, 2023, at MercyOne Des Moines Medical Center surrounded by his loving family.
Marty was born at Mercy Hospital in Des Moines, Iowa on March 27, 1944, to Harvey and Mary (Reese) Zylstra, and was raised by his father and stepmother, Nellie Bird. On June 7, 1964, he married the love of his life Sara Sue Downing at the Eldon Christian Church in Eldon, Iowa.
He graduated from Abraham Lincoln High School in Des Moines in 1962. He received his Graduate degree in Accounting from the American Institute of Business. Marty enjoyed a successful career, serving as Audit Manager of the Area Community Colleges for the State of Iowa Auditor’s Office for many years. Following his employment with the State of Iowa, he had a successful accounting and tax business until his retirement in 2011.
Marty was initiated into the Independent Order of Odd Fellows on November 10, 1990, and was a faithful member of Fort Des Moines Lodge #25 in Des Moines. He served as Grand Master of the Grand Lodge of Iowa from 2000-2001 and was elected Grand Treasurer of the Grand Lodge of Iowa in 2010, where he served until the time of his death. During his tenure with the Grand Lodge of Iowa, he was instrumental in major projects of the Order including major contributions to the Mercy College of Health Sciences scholarship fund for healthcare students, a dedicated room at the Ronald McDonald House at MercyOne Des Moines Medical Center, emergency equipment for the Urbandale Fire Department, and body cameras for the Urbandale Police Department along with numerous other community service projects throughout the state of Iowa. He received the Meritorious Service Award from the Grand Lodge of Iowa in October 2014 for outstanding service to the Grand Lodge of Iowa. He and his wife, Sue, served as the Planning Committee Chairs for the Grand Lodge of Iowa Annual Sessions for many years. He and Sue also served as Co-Chairs for the Testimonial Weekend honoring Michelle Heckart, Sovereign Grand Master, in November 2022 and the Sovereign Grand Lodge Annual Communication in August 2023.
Marty was initiated into the Rebekah Assembly of Iowa Independent Order of Odd Fellows on February 4, 1993, and was a member of Golden Star Rebekah Lodge #352 in Des Moines, having served in most elected offices including Noble Grand and most recently as Treasurer until the time of his death.
He was a member of Bloomfield United Methodist Church in Des Moines. His hobbies included square dancing, home improvement projects, cooking, hunting, fishing, and hosting holiday celebrations for his family.
Marty is survived by his loving wife of 59 years, Sue; siblings Elizabeth Mulvihill of Washington, Christine Aschan of California, and Susan Aschan of California and many nieces and nephews. He was loved by all his family.
He was preceded in death by his parents; his stepmother; and his brothers Carl Aschan, Gary Sekin, and Bernard Zylstra.
The family will greet friends on Friday, December 1, 2023, from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at Hamilton’s Southtown Funeral Home, 5400 SW 9th Street in Des Moines. A funeral service will be held on Saturday, December 2, 2023, at 11:00 a.m. at Fort Des Moines United Methodist Church, 6205 SW 9th Street in Des Moines. Marty will be laid to rest at Sunset Memorial Gardens Cemetery.
Memorial contributions may be directed to the Ronald McDonald House at MercyOne Des Moines Medical Center in loving memory of Marty.
Condolences may be expressed at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
Shirley Beaver
12/01/2023
Sue,
Marty was a wonderful man and was so in love with you. I saw the love between you and Marty when I visited your house and especially at your 50th wedding anniversary celebration.
May the wonderful memories of your time together nourish your soul as you mourn his death.
Shirley
Nigel C
11/28/2023
Sue
I haven't known you and Marty very long, but you both made a huge difference in my life. You are the most selfless people I have ever met and have inspired me to do more for others. I can't imagine how you are feeling right now, but knowing Marty is in a better place, without pain, and laughing with everyone who went before us is heartwarming. Big hugs for you Sue.
Jenny McCoy
11/27/2023
Dear Sue,
I was so saddened to hear of Marty's passing. Although it's been many years since I have seen you, I have fond memories of spending time with both of you. Marty was always so kind to me, and I know he will be missed by many. I am wishing you peace at this very difficult time. Sincerely, Jenny McCoy
Linda Knowles
11/27/2023
Sue,
I am so sorry for your loss. Sending thoughts and prayers to you and your family during this difficult time.
Linda Knowles
Karen Norris
11/26/2023
Sue-
I was so sorry to hear of Marty's passing. I only got to meet him once, but I feel like I knew him through you! I know the two of you enjoyed all of your events you got to attend for his Odd Fellows.
Thinking of you-Karen Norris
Mike McCoy
11/26/2023
Sue,
I am very sorry about Martys passing. You have both been like part of the family and we are all are sad for you. Marty was a giver and always there to help whether it was wiring the garage or helping us with our taxes. Marty was special and I know he will be missed by many. You have our prayers.
Mike
Kim Oswald
11/26/2023
Sue,
My deepest sympathies are with you and your family during this difficult time. You and Marty have given selflessly to make a difference in so many lives of others. May the blessing of memories fill your hearts with peace and comfort as you mourn his loss. Hugs and prayers are being sent your way.
Cherie Cole
11/26/2023
Sue, Im so sorry for the loss of your husband. Please know youre in my prayers.
Jean Reed
11/24/2023
Sue,
So sorry to learn about Marty. I always enjoyed visiting with him at Grand Lodge and seeing
all the work that he did for the lodge. Sending love and prayers to you and your family.
rosemary mullin
11/23/2023
Want to extend my sincere sympathy and thoughts to Sue and family members on the loss of Marty. I did not personally know him but heard many good things about his contributions to the Des Moines community and know that you will find peace in knowing he touched many lives.
Nonie & Ted Spaulding
11/22/2023
Dear Sue,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Joe & Kathi Picanco
11/22/2023
Sue,
We are so sorry for your loss. Marty was a special person who touched so many lives. He will be missed by everyone who knew him. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.