Jeffrey Scott Cavil, also known as "Big Poppa"

Jeffrey Scott Cavil, also known as "Big Poppa," passed away on July 12, 2024, in Des Moines, IA, at the age of 61. Jeffrey was born in Des Moines, IA on February 11, 1963, to Ella Mae McQuerry-Cavil. Jeffrey spent his entire life in the area he loved.

Jeffrey was a dedicated employee at Firestone, where he worked for 27 years, demonstrating a strong work ethic and commitment to his role. He received his early education at Logan Elementary and graduated from East High School in 1981, where he was a standout All-State football player, later attending Ellsworth Community College on a football scholarship, which contributed to his professional development and personal growth.

Beyond his professional life, Jeffrey was deeply involved in his community and was a regular attendee at Elim. His hobbies and interests painted the picture of a man deeply engaged with life and his passions. He was an avid Facebook sports analyst, a lover of westerns, and a fan of playing dominoes. "Sanford and Sons" and his beloved Oakland Raiders held special places in his heart. Additionally, he cherished the time spent at his nephew’s sporting events, supporting and cheering with enthusiasm.

Jeffrey is survived by his sisters, Jennifer Carr (Milton) and Tanya Frazier; his brother, Robert Hawthorne; his uncle, Donald McQuerry (Beverly); his stepchildren, Leanna, Dannielle, and Andrew; his nephews, Jahmal, David (Alexis), Dion (Sarah), and Jentay; his lifelong best friend Michael “Moe” Carter; along with 10 grandchildren and 5 great-grandchildren. He also leaves behind a fleet of great-nieces and great-nephews who will miss his larger-than-life presence.

He was preceded in death by his mother, Ella Mae Cavil; his brother, Joseph Cavil; his wife, Carol Cavil; his grandparents, Thomas and Virginia McQuerry; his uncles, Clarence and Charles McQuerry; and his aunt, Janet Eden.

Visitation will be held from 11:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m., Friday, July 26, 2024, at Lutheran Church of Hope+Elim, 2500 University Avenue, Des Moines. Funeral service will begin at 1:00 p.m. also at the church, with burial to follow at Glendale Cemetery.

Jeffrey "Big Poppa" Cavil will be remembered as a pillar in his community, a loving family man, and a passionate individual who lived life to its fullest. His legacy will continue to inspire those who knew him and loved him.

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