Bud Pontious
May 20, 1938 — July 09, 2024
Eli “Bud” Pontious, age 86, passed away Tuesday, July 9, 2024.
Bud was born May 20, 1938, in Des Moines, Iowa to Howard and Clara (Conley) Pontious. He was a lifelong resident of the Des Moines area. Bud married the love of his life, Jean Pontious on April 20, 1956. They met because Bud went to school with Jean’s brother. After that fateful meeting, they enjoyed 68 wonderful years together.
Bud worked hard for his family. He was always there for anyone in need, so much so that it was regularly heard, “If you need something, call Bud.” Bud was an outdoorsman, who enjoyed camping, barbeques, and fishing. He was very handy and was always fixing things in the garage. He could take apart cars or anything mechanical and put it back together again and have it work even better. Bud was very close to his step-father, Clayton, who taught him everything he knew.
Bud cared for his family deeply. He was one-of-a-kind. As his family grew and he came to know his beloved grandchildren and great-grandchildren, he became a changed man throughout the years, becoming even softer and more loving.
He is survived by his wife, Jean; furbaby, Nala; children, Earmel (Shirley) Pontious, Cindy Pontious, and Deb (John) Grenko; six grandchildren, Lisa (Gustavo), Joey (Sara), Ashley (Kirk), Maggie Jo (Cody), Katie, and Olivia; eight great-grandchildren, Alexa, Bianca, Gionna, Diamonique, Drue, Sean, Natalie, and Kaleah; and one great-great-granddaughter, AvaLynn.
Bud was preceded in death by his mother, Clara (Lyle) Douglas; father, Howard (Elsie) Pontious; step-father, Clayton Butler; grandson, Jonathan Grenko; and furbaby, Suzi.
There will be a private family graveside service held at a later date.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be directed to Children’s Cancer Connection or to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.
Condolences may be expressed at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
Deb
08/15/2024
Dad, you have been gone now a month and 6 days. I miss you so much. Nothing is the same without you here. I know you wouldn't want me to have a broken heart, but I do. I miss your phone calls, I miss seeing you every day, I miss giving you a kiss and a hug when I left your house and mostly, I miss the I love You's. I hope you know that I am trying my best to full fill your wishes that we talked about. Like you said not everyone is going to agree with what you wanted me to do. But I am doing it for you dad. I miss you so much it hurts. Mom is ok as I am taking care of her like I promised. I love and miss you so much every minute of every day. Love, Your daughter Deb
Ashley
07/22/2024
I miss you, Grandpa. ❤️ I love you bunches and bunches!
Ashley
07/13/2024
Grandpa,
You were a strong man. I’m sure you and Jonathan are out fishing up in Heaven 🎣 I miss you deeply, but I know we’ll be back together soon. ❤️ I love you, Grandpa.
Jean
07/12/2024
Honey,
I miss you so very much. We will be together again. I have enjoyed sharing my life with you. God brought us together and we had our ups and downs. We had 3 beautiful children and 67 years of marriage. Not everybody can say that. You are in my heart always. I love you so much and look forward to being together again someday. Your wife forever. Jean
Maggie Rolow
07/11/2024
Oh, Grandpa. Some of my earliest and best memories are of holidays spent with you and grandma, of times camping together, you baiting my hook for me when we fished, time spent on your pontoon in the sun. I’m so glad I have these memories to hold close to my heart, and I’m so blessed that you got to be a part of Natalie’s life. I’m going to miss you so so much, and I love you.
Tonia C.
07/11/2024
So very sorry to hear of the loss of Mr. Pontious. He had such a great personality and always looked forward to his visits with Nala. He definitely made it enjoyable to banter back and forth with. He will be missed.
Deb
07/10/2024
Dad,
I know we talked about death and that you were not afraid to pass away. It warms my heart to know that you were not scared. I'm sure Jonathan was right there waiting for you and so excited to see you. These past couple of years taking care of you and mom has been both a privilege and an honor. I'm glad that you are at peace and able to do all the things you once loved doing. I'm going to miss you Dad, but when God calls me home, I know you will be waiting for me. Forever and always Dad, I love you.