Barbara J. Bettis
January 14, 1942 — February 10, 2025
Barbara J. Bettis, age 83, passed away Monday, February 10, 2025, at Valley View Village in Des Moines.
Barbara was born January 14, 1942, to Benton and Pauline Oglevie.
She was a devoted member of her church, where she found joy and fulfillment in attending services and participating in church activities. Her love for community extended beyond the church, as she was a dedicated volunteer who eagerly contributed her time and energy to various causes. She cherished working at the youth camps, where she inspired and nurtured young minds, and she always looked forward to the fellowship and spiritual growth she found at ladies' retreats.
In her home, Barbara was known for her hospitality and warmth. She found great pleasure in cooking, entertaining family and friends, and creating a welcoming environment. Whether it was through the simple joy of ironing or preparing a delicious meal, her attention to detail and love for those around her were evident in everything she did.
Barbara is survived by her husband of 66 years, Raymond; daughters, Debra (David) Bettis and Carol (Dennis) Sample; sons, David (Katherine) Bettis and Kevin (Chris) Bettis; sister, Pam (Jack) Vance; and brother-in-law, Bob Griffith.
She was preceded in death by her parents; and sister, Paula Griffith.
Visitation will be held on Friday, February 14, 2025 from 5:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. with a time of sharing at 7:30 p.m. at Hamilton’s Funeral Home, 605 Lyon Street, Des Moines. Funeral service will begin at 11:00 a.m. on Saturday, February 15, 2025 at Experience Church, 2559 E. Euclid Avenue, Des Moines followed by burial at Berwick Cemetery, Berwick, Iowa.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be directed to Hospice of the Midwest- Des Moines in loving memory of Barbara.
Condolences may be expressed at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
Carla Pitts Castle
02/21/2025
I am so sorry for your loss. My mom Linda and I were just talking about your family and wondering how and what everyone was doing. I have great memories of your family and especially how cheery Barb always was when I was a young girl.
Carla Steenblock
02/15/2025
My prayers are with you and the family. I will miss her very much. She blessed me in many ways. May God be with you and the family. God Bless
David Hunsley
02/15/2025
My Prayers are with the Family in this time. I am unable to attend today and I wanted to leave a message for the Family and Friends! She is an Angel both on Earth and in Heaven! May God Bless Everyone who knew her over the years because we met her for a Reason!
KaraJane Curl
02/14/2025
Ray and Family
My heart goes out to all of you as you walk in grief. I love and miss Barb and her smile. Every time I see a red sucker, I will think of Sweet Barb and how her face lit up when she was handed one.
I already miss seeing the two of you wheeling past my desk making your rounds at Valley View. Ray, you are a true testament to what it means to honor your marriage vows, "in sickness and in health". What an honor it has been to see your love and care for your beautiful bride!
My "Buddy" , as Ray called the two of us, is dancing on the Streets of Gold with Jesus. I can't wait to dance with her in eternity and see her smile once again!
Diane A Falkoski
02/13/2025
Ray and family I'm so sorry for your loss she was such a wonderful wonderful person. Always waving me over to sit by her in church with her big smile. Ray and Barb are perhaps the most wonderful people I've ever met. God bless you Ray and family. This is very difficult, but with your faith in the Lord you know that she is with her savior and she'll be there waiting for all of you. May God bless and keep you.
Sharon Vance
02/13/2025
Our condolences to the family! Barb you were one in a million person! Blessed to have known you.
Mindy Shrum
02/13/2025
Barb was one in a million and it was my absolute honor to care for her at Valley View Village.
Barb will be remembered and talked about for years to come.
Rest in peace, Barb. We are going to miss you. ❤️
Joy Giudicessi
02/12/2025
To the Bettis Family, I am so sorry for your loss. Barb brought so much joy to my work at Veterans Auditorium. Such a fun sense of humor and such a dear friend. When she walked in the door, no matter how hard your day may have been to that point, Barb brought an energy that propelled you through the night. She will always hold a special place my heart. I am so sad to learn of this. Ray, holding you up in prayers.