J. Michael Sears
December 07, 2009
John Michael Sears was born on March 31, 1949 in Hoisington, Kansas to Oliver Martin and Helen June Sears. He is survived by his wife of 37 years, Linda, a son Joshua and his wife Rachel, a daughter Erin and husband Jason and their children, Ella, Luna and Griffin, and his brother Jerry and his spouse Dorothy. He also is survived by an aunt, many loving cousins, nieces and nephews.
He earned his Bachelor degree from Emporia State University and later earned his Doctorate of Education from the Institute of Human Sexuality in San Francisco. His service to community began at Camp Sunnyside helping in wood lore activities and care of the campers. This was not just a summer job; it was a way to be…it was the 70’s…it was magic. Many friendships were formed here that are still cherished by our family. He then fulfilled his obligation as a Conscientious Objector to the Vietnam War by working as an orderly at Younker Rehabilitation Center at Iowa Methodist Hospital. This move served him well as he was hired later as a Recreation Therapist, working with the patients to learn new skills in everyday activities as they prepared to return to their life at home. His mentor encouraged him to learn more about counseling them on their sexuality and how their injuries impacted on relationships. He served the remainder of his 25+ years at Iowa Methodist in the Psychology Department as he helped people in many situations search for peace and love in their lives. Michael then joined the staff at Des Moines Pastoral Counseling Center where he enjoyed the freedom to counsel, teach and grow.
Michael’s childhood was spent loving the outdoors and spending his summers in Colorado. His lifelong love for the mountains and the experiences he had prepared him for his later careers. His greatest joys in life were time spent with family and friends, traveling this beautiful country and walking the back forty with the dogs.
During his time at Sunnyside the Camp Director introduced him to the Native American traditions. This interest was strong and showed up in many ways throughout his life, but was expanded upon in recent years when asked to participate in a Sundance in South Dakota as a support person. This lit a fire that would not be extinguished. He began a trip on the Red Road that would introduce Mike and our family to a greater spiritual place and will remain an important aspect of our lives.
Let us remember that Michael’s light outshines our grief as we strive to live by his example. May the winds of the four directions carry his sweet spirit swiftly on his journey.
Condolences may be made at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
Ron Askland
12/14/2009
I worked with Mike in the Recreation Therapy Department at IMMC. Mike was a mentor to me. He made a huge impact on many lives. My thoughts are with you for your loss. Our community will feel his loss. God Bless.
Deb Schiel-Larson
12/13/2009
Dear Linda and Family:
I sat down to try and write words of comfort this morning, but words don't express all the emotions I feel. Gratititude for the time we have known you and Mike, the fact that we are better people because of it, and deep sorrow in wondering how we will move forward together now.
And words of thanks. Not only for the love and compassion you and Mike have shown to our family. But also words of thanks for the funeral service last night. I've never felt the need to write a "thank you" note for a funeral service, but I do now. Listening to the service and joining in the meal together afterwards made us feel that you and Mike were still caring for us. In your own grief and loss, you were taking care of us too.
Thank you also for your suggestion, Linda -- to help you by following Mike's example. Working for peace in our hearts and our relationships, in a good way.
Our hope and prayer is that in the coming days, we will see you again. We knew you through Mike and we treasure your friendship. I am working on a small gift for you, and I will have it finished soon.
Thank you for your kindness in thinking of Paul's loss too -- our tears of grief for Paul's mother are blended with tears for Mike.
With love, blessings and peace,
Deb Schiel-Larson and Family -- Paul, Anna and Kevin
Joy & Jim Smith
12/10/2009
Dear Linda, Josh and Erin,
We are there with you in spirit and praying for your comfort during this most difficult time.
Thinking of you,
Joy and Jim
Richard & Sue Looney
12/10/2009
Joy Smith gave us the sad news about Mike's passing. Our hearts go out to you all on your loss ~ he was a great guy.
Jan Goss Summers
12/10/2009
My deepest condolences to Mike's family. I met Mike in the late 70's when I worked on Younker 6 at IMMC. His kindness and compassion towards others impacted me to this day. He will be greatly missed by all. May the good Lord keep you all in his loving arms, giving you comfort and peace.
Todd and Robin Spratt
12/08/2009
Linda and Family,
Sorry for you loss. You and Mike hold a special place in our heart and in our family. Mike will dearly be missed. He touched us in a way we can't put into words, especially Trevor. He was Grandpa. You know we are here for you anything you need just call. We love you all. Many hugs and love to you, Josh,Erin, Rachel, Jason,Ella,Luna and Griffin.
Love Todd, Robin, Kaitlyn and Trevor Spratt
Patty Sears Carroll
12/08/2009
Linda, Josh & Erin,
I am so sorry for your loss, there are no words I can say to ease your pain. I have all of you in my prayers and have asked God to give you comfort and peace. Mike will be missed greatly but never forgotten. I will remember the good times we had when Mike and Aunt Helen June and Uncle Oliver would come to the farm for a visit. Love to you all.