Birdie May Stocker
February 23, 2023
Birdie May Stocker, 79, of Des Moines, died Thursday, February 23, 2023, at Valley View Village in Des Moines after a long battle with dementia.
Birdie was born in Ottumwa on March 15, 1943, to Joseph and Dora Lyon (Arnold) Walker. She graduated from Blakesburg High School in 1961. In addition to raising her children and running their household, Birdie was a Data Entry Operator for the Home Clerical Department at Meredith Corp for over 20 years.
Birdie married the love of her life, Lyle Stocker on December 1, 1962. They were blessed with three children: Lisa (David) Stocker-Ross of Des Moines, Joseph (Wendy) Stocker of Carlisle, and Karen (Michael) Urick of Lee’s Summit, MO.
Birdie was a member of Wakonda Christian Church and The Gloryland Singers. Her greatest pleasure in life was spending time with her family and friends. She enjoyed Southern Gospel music, volunteering at Mercy Hospital, collecting Boyd’s Bears and playing games. She and Lyle also loved to travel. She was a devoted Christian, wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother and friend.
In addition to her children, Birdie is survived by her seven grandchildren: Jennifer (Tom), Michael (Kali), Jessica (Shay), Nathan, Lucas, Mason, and Miles; four great-grandchildren; her brother, Robert (Eulalia) Walker of Sioux Falls, SD; sister-in-law, Shirley Walker of Ottumwa; and brother-in-law, Carl Stocker of Des Moines. She was preceded in death by her husband, her parents, her son-in-law, David, and her brother, Ronald Walker.
A visitation will be held on Friday, March 3, 2023 from 5:00 to 7:00 p.m., with a memorial service on Saturday, March 4, 2023 beginning at 9:30 a.m., both at Hamilton’s Funeral Home, 605 Lyon Street, Des Moines.
Memorial contributions may be directed to Valley View Village Staff Appreciation Fund or Suncrest Hospice in Des Moines.
Condolences may be expressed at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
Angela Weber
02/27/2023
My condolences to the family. Birdie was one of the nicest and most helpful volunteers at Mercy. I had the privilege of knowing her when I managed the department. She had a great laughI still remember it though it has been many years. She was always so kind to everyone. Keeping her loved ones in my prayers.
Lynda Richards
02/27/2023
Lisa and family, so very sorry for your loss. May you find peace and comfort from the special person she was and now the joy she is experiencing in heaven. God bless you all.
Andrea Swennumson (Robison)
02/26/2023
I have many happy memories with the Stocker's. Birdie and Lyle were always there for pretty much every one of my major life events. Birdie had an infectious laugh and smile. I am sorry still to this day for the time Joe and I put the garter snakes in the garage and waited for someone to come in, it was Birdie of course. I think we were waiting for Karen maybe instead.
Birdie was a wonderful lady who will be truly missed by all that knew her.
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. I know Birdie and Lyle are dancing amongst the stars. That thought gives me peace and makes me smile.
Love,
Andie and family
jannette Marie Newell
02/26/2023
Sorry for your loss. We atttended school at the same time. She was a joy to all those lives she touched
Katie Wade
02/25/2023
I had the pleasure of growing up with the Stockers. Birdie would make the best popcorn for sleepovers! Karen and I are still very close. My heart is breaking with you all. She's a remarkable soul whose presence will be sorely missed.
Mary parker
02/25/2023
I had Karen in my Class at Lovejoy Elementary. She was a joy to work with. My condolences go out to the Stocker family.
Mike Walag
02/24/2023
So sorry to hear of Birdie's passing. She was a great neighbor and friend. So many great memories from our neighborhood and church. Our condolences to the family.
Edie Cerar
02/24/2023
Lisa, I am so sorry for your loss. Birdie was so much fun to visit with. Judy and I always looked forward to Birdie and Helen's visits when we we're sitting out side. She willbe missed by so many of us at VVV.
Barbara Agan Timmins
02/24/2023
I have many fond memories of childrens choir at Clifton Heights with Birdie. Many memories of Lyle and Birdie from our time at Clifton. Sympathies to the family, its never an easy thing to do.
Ann (Leib) Polito
02/24/2023
Many prayers for Birdie's family at this time. May God provide you with His peace and comfort.
I feel very blessed to have know Birdie from years at Clifton Heights--especially singing in the choir together and practicing musicals in Lyle & Birdie's home. Thankful they are reunited with no more pain and suffering. <3