Thomas Cole
December 27, 2022
Thomas Alvie Cole, age 78, passed away on December 27, 2022, surrounded by loved ones. He was born in Portsmouth, VA on October 16, 1944, the son of Wilbur (Bud) and Doris (Lyman) Cole.
Tom met the love of his life in junior high school, he and Pat began dating later in high school and married in February 1965. Tom spent most of his working life as a diesel mechanic and retired from Brown Truck Leasing in 2009. He was a jack of all trades who could fix or build anything. Tom passions included restoring 55-57 Chevy’s, attending car shows, and traveling. He had a sweet tooth like no one else and could locate even the most well-hidden chocolate.
Tom was a loving husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, and brother. Those left to cherish his memory include his wife, Patricia L. Cole; children, Michelle (Jeff) Miller, Denise (Jeff Fogelson) McGee, and Chris (Patrick) Quance; grandchildren, Kaitlyn Miller, Kelsey Miller, Trevor (Liz) McGee, Erin Quance and Braeden Quance; great-grandchildren; Benjamin and Evan; as well as his siblings, Steven (Chris) Cole, Eileen Hill, and Ken Cole.
In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by his grandson, Evan T. McGee; sister, Peggy Hoffman; and brother, Eddie Cole.
A memorial service will be held at 12:00 p.m. on Saturday, January 14, 2023, at Hamilton’s near Highland Memory Gardens, 121 NW 60th Ave. in Des Moines, with visitation beginning at 11:00 a.m.
In lieu of flowers donations can be directed to:
Lewy Body Dementia Association
912 Killian Hill Road, S.W.
Lilburn, GA 30047
https://www.lbda.org/donate
or by calling: 404-935-6444
Margaret Johnson
01/06/2023
So sorry for your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with the family.
Erin McGuire
01/06/2023
Pat - I was deeply saddened to hear of Toms passing. Thank you for allowing me the privilege of getting to know both Tom, the family, and welcoming me with open arms into your home. He was an absolute joy to be with, to share laughs with, and I always looked forward to visiting.
With affection and deep sympathy, I do hope that your fond memories of Tom will provide you with some comfort.
Doc Wilson
01/05/2023
I was lucky enough to work with Tom when he was at Brown. I was the service manager at Cummins and Tom was one of my customers that was a friend, a very good friend. He always had a smile and a laugh at announced Tom was there. My thoughts are prayers go out to the family.
John Garrison
01/05/2023
Tom was an old friend that I got to know while working at Brown NationaLease. Always loved his 55 convertable. RIP
Cynthia Kobeda
01/05/2023
To the Cole & Thomas family; The Kobedas wish to send you ALL our condolences 💐.
Uncle Tom was one special guy!!! I cannot remember a time (when we DID get together living so far away) that he didnt SMILE 😊 & always have something nice to say to you. I dont think he had a mean bone in his body. Tom had such a great disposition on life & seem to enjoy his entire family & LOVED his girls!
I know my dad & he had a very close relationship, almost like brothers, whom my dad really admired. They enjoyed each others company, laughing, cutting up, traveling & hes the one who introduced the restoring of the 57 Chevys & car shows to my dad.
Many years ago Tom & Pat hosted a family reunion & Tom was out there all day long playing with all the grandkids (when they were very small) & helping them with the go cart and just having a blast, my kids still talk about that weekend. In addition, I was lucky enough to share in the celebration of Pat & Tom on their special anniversary cruise & even experience a few excursions with them both, which I fondly remember & keep close to my heart.
Our heart just breaks for you and the extended families. Please know he was truly LOVED & I know he is up in Heaven having a grand ole time with everyone up there & is probably driving everyone around in a CHEVY! May he Rest In Peace & sending LOVE & HUGS!!! Cindy & Eddie