Mary Ingle
December 12, 2022
Mary Jo Ingle, 60, passed away peacefully on December 12, 2022 surrounded by loved ones.
Mary was born on September 22, 1962 to Gary and Ardie VandeKamp in Bellflower, California. She moved to Iowa where she grew up on the south side of Des Moines and then in Altoona where she attended Southeast Polk High School. She met and married Charles Ingle after attending 2 years at Central College and they had 3 children. Mary most recently worked at Hamilton’s Funeral Home as the Accounts Payable Manager.
For the last ten years Mary and her partner Steve spent time traveling together, hosting birthdays, holidays and game nights, laughing, and loving each moment they had with each other and the people they love.
Mary’s favorite thing to do was spend her time with family and if she could be on the beach AND with them that was her happiest place. She loved the sun and being outside whenever she could. Spending time with her grandkids brought her so much joy, crafting with Jerzi, playing outside with Jentry and Reese, and snuggling Krew, Arie and Hattie.
Mary was a selfless woman with the biggest heart. It never took long for people to fall in love with her as she was sweet and kind to everyone she met. She made each person feel like they were the most important person. Mary had a way of lighting up every room she entered with her infectious smile and contagious laugh. She will be missed by so many as she has touched countless hearts.
Mary is survived by Steve Muller; her mother, Ardie VandeKamp (best known as Grammy); her siblings, Mark (Jane) VandeKamp, Micki (Brett) Strait; her children, Kayci (Ben) Parish, Kristen Ingle, Kody (Stephanie) Ingle; her grandchildren, Jerzi and Jentry Parish, Reese and Krew Ingle; nieces and nephews, Evan (Tone) Strait, Eliza (Ben) Fultz and Jeanette VandeKamp; her extended family, Alie (Jon) Heit and their children, Hattie and Arie Heit, Ben (Natalie Judd) Muller and Sarah Muller.
Services will be held on Saturday, December 17, 2022, at Hamilton’s Funeral Home, 605 Lyon Street, in Des Moines. Visitation will begin at 9:00 a.m. with a memorial service at 11:00 a.m. A Celebration of Life will follow the service.
Memorial contributions may be directed to the Little Al Foundation or Hope Ministries, in loving memory of Mary.
Pete and Margo
12/16/2022
Mary was the kindest person. We were lucky to work with Mary for 17 years. Mary's love of her family was amazing. Her laugh and determination will be missed but never forgotten.
Leslie and Mike Schrier
12/15/2022
Our deepest sympathies to Ardis, Mark, Michelle, and Mark M. On the passing of Mary. We had the pleasure of teaching at SEP and Central College.
May her memory be a blessing.
Mike and Leslie Schrier
Trina McCreary
12/14/2022
So saddened to see that sweet Mary has passed. She sure did love her family, people and life itself. Much love sent to all who adored and loved her. She definitely was one special lady.
Ellen Grooms Grant
12/14/2022
My heart is aching for all of Mary's family and loved ones. Ardie, I wish I could give you a hug, I can only imagine your loss. It has been so many years since I have seen Mary, but I know she was a beautiful woman, inside and out, as she was a girl and young woman. So many wonderful memories are in my mind of her. I pray your memories will help all of you at this hard time. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Love, Ellen
Chris Dixon
12/14/2022
Kayci,
So sorry for the loss of your amazing Mama. I loved being able to visit with her through the years. It was always a joy to get a message from her so we could catch up! Hugs to you and your entire family as you celebrate your beautiful mom!! <3 Chris
Sharyn O'Connor
12/14/2022
My sincere condolences to all that loved Mary. She was truly a bright light in this world.
Carol Combs Smith
12/14/2022
Kayci ~
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. After reading your precious Mama's obituary, it made me wish that I could've met her and experienced those wonderful qualities that she possessed.
Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers as you navigate through this difficult journey.
Much love ~ Carol