John P. Miller, Jr.
November 25, 2022
John P. Miller Jr. began his incredible journey through an amazing life in Minneapolis, Minnesota, on July 22, 1948, the youngest of John P. Sr. and Patricia Miller’s three children.
John’s grand adventure took him all over the world and allowed him to enrich the lives of countless wonderful people. Having earned his Master’s Degree in Education from Drake University, John demonstrated that a life well lived is a life spent in service of others. Whether in the classroom, on the field as a little league coach, as a medic in the Army, or when stooping to help a child in need, he showed us the immense value in fairness, integrity and caring for others.
Perhaps the most important lesson taught to us by John, the infamous #2 of the John P. Miller line, is that there is always a reason to laugh and joke and cheer. He took these three things seriously – well, as seriously as a guy who occasionally dressed like a clown takes things. He cheered as part of the Drake University Cheer Squad when the Men’s Basketball Team made it to the NCAA Final 4 in 1969. He cheered even louder when one of his students in the Blank Children’s Hospital School Room successfully achieved their goals. He cheered loudest of all for his family, when his granddaughter Emma completed a beam routine without falling or when his boys got a good shot during a pheasant hunt. He laughed and joked all the time but probably was the loudest and the funniest when he roamed the center ring of the circus as a Past Potentate of the Za-Ga-Zig Shrine family. There was never a time we saw him without a smile or a laugh or a joke and that always made our hearts happy.
John died suddenly Friday morning, November 25, 2022. Today the world seems quieter and a whole lot less fun. We will miss his jokes, his easy smile, his joy when talking about his family or the Shrine or the kids or the dogs or his latest round of golf. We will do our best to honor him and ask that you all do the same.
In honor of John, eat the best candy (Turtles) and pick out the sweetest puppy. Buy the toys and travel the trips especially to his favorites Alaska and Ireland. Be the biggest cheerleaders for the special kids and love those around you FIERCELY. And go to a circus. Smile and cheer and laugh like you did when you were little.
That’s what all the best people do.
John is survived by the love of his life Sheryl Lynn, his wife of 50 years, of Windsor Heights; son, Colonel John P. Miller III (Mollie) of Lansing, KS; son, Matthew L. Miller (Sarah) of Johnston; grandchildren, Emma and Jack Miller and Evan and Macy Miller; sister, Bobbie Riddle of Windsor Heights; sister, Georgianne Peterson (Bob) of Windsor Heights; sister-in-law, Jayne Hanson (Barry Kohnke) of Carroll; brother-in-law, Rod Hanson (Wendy) of West Des Moines; his extended family and friends; his Za-Ga-Zig Shrine family; and thousands of former students whose lives he touched over the course of his 43 year teaching career.
Visitation will be Monday, December 5, 2022 from 4 to 7 p.m. at Hamilton’s on Westown Parkway, 3601 Westown Pkwy, in West Des Moines. A private Masonic Rites ceremony will follow the visitation at 7 p.m. A Celebration of Life will be Tuesday, December 6, 2022 at 10 a.m. at Gloria Dei Lutheran Church, 8301 NW Aurora Ave, Urbandale. Livestreaming of the service can be found at Gloria Dei Lutheran Church
In lieu of flowers, a donation may be made to the Past Potentate John P. Miller Jr. Memorial Endowment which will support Shrine Children’s Summer Camps and children in need.
And, finally, in the words John used to close every prayer and every speech he ever made, God Bless the Troops and bring them home safe.
Guy/Carleen Freeman
12/05/2022
Was sorry and surprised as all of us were to hear of John's sudden passing. Our thoughts are with all of John's family during this time of difficulty. He was a great shriner and person and know he will be missed by all who knew and loved him. He leaves big shoes to fill at Za-Ga-Zig
Bob Wolk
12/05/2022
I have enjoyed working with John while he was at Iowa Methodist. He loved working with the students, patients at Blank. He enjoyed working with the shrine in taking care of the children that he meet.
John was great to work with working in Public Safety . He will be missed.
Bob Wolk
Joe miller
12/04/2022
Not much one can say to the family
At a time like this. I golfed with John In Tuesday golf league the last few years, he brought a lot of fun and laughs to our group. He will be missed.
Marvin and Vicki Miller
12/03/2022
So sorry for your loss. He will have a large space in many hearts. We are unable to make it down, but will be with you in spirit.
Denise Behling
12/03/2022
I enjoyed working with John for many years at Orchard Place & continued to collaborate with him when transitioning students from hospital school to home schools. John was a good guy and this world will miss him. My sincere condolences to the the Miller family.
Jim Willittes
12/02/2022
Ill. Sir John and I had the honor of serving as Potentates of our temples in 2002. Since starting my Shrine journey at Za-Ga-Zig in 1958, I have visited the temple many times, and enjoyed our reminiscing. He is a great leader and true friend. His passing will leave a void that can't be filled. Goodbye Ill. Sir until we meet again.
Jim Leseney
12/02/2022
Sorry for your loss. I always thought of John as Mr. Za-Ga-Zig. He was one of the first Nobles to congratulate me the day I joined the Shrine. It's going to be a little strange for a while, not having him present at the Temple.
Gail Buckley Crane
12/02/2022
Bobbie... I just saw the obit for your brother John Jr. I never met him - I just know he must have been as amazing, strong, caring as you are. I am sorry for your loss - I remember the evenings in Phoenix we gathered near the (non-functioning) pool on the top deck of the hotel that FCG made our home away from home / Y2K.. HUGS
Mary Wood
12/01/2022
Sheri, Tom & I are so sorry to hear of Johns passing. You are in our prayers. God bless you and comfort you & your family in this time of sorrow. John will certainly be missed & may he RIP.
Tom & Mary Wood
Jason Brady
12/01/2022
I didn't know John for long but I really enjoyed his arrival @ Toad Valley Golf. His group will be saddened as am I.
Jason
Toad Valley Golf Course
Steve B
11/30/2022
As you know, John and I were best friends growing up on 39th Place. We had planned to get together following Covid, but now that is not to be.
My condolences to family and friends for this untimely loss. He will be missed.
Dave and Sandi Wurster
11/29/2022
Sheri and family, words cannot express our shock and sadness at the loss of John who was such a dear friend. We will miss him. We pray God will give you strength during this difficult time. We send our love. May his memory be eternal.
Scott Wilson
11/29/2022
There are no words capable of describing the loss of John Miller. He was a true close friend for over 30 years, Jeanni and I will miss him greatly. John will have a special place in our hearts forever. To me, there is no way to say 'Good Bye' to him, he will be with me always.
Steve Green
11/28/2022
Sheri, Marsha and I are so deeply sorry of the death of John. As in many things John was a mentor and a supporter of me for many years. He was definitely a true friend.