Buddy Bellis, Sr.
January 18, 2022
Buddy Bellis Sr. beloved son, brother, husband, father, uncle, grandfather, great grandfather, and friend died Tuesday, January 18, 2022, at Lutheran Hospital in Des Moines, Iowa. He was surrounded by his 4 sons and the spirit of his wife and daughter when he passed. He was 85 years old.
Buddy was born Buddy Lou Bellis in 1936 in Fayette, Iowa to parents Edward and Lois Bellis. Moving with family, at an early age, to Des Moines. Buddy a graduate of East High School in Des Moines, played baseball and football, and eventually found his true passion for the game of golf.
A lifelong east sider who enjoyed participating in many sports, Bud excelled in bowling for company and couples’ leagues. He also played in men’s fastpitch softball, taking part in the Des Moines Commercial fastpitch leagues. Bud's true love was golf where he competed successfully in the Des Moines City Golf Tournament for years. He also loved camping, fishing, and spending time with his family and friends.
As childhood sweethearts, Bud found his true love early and married Joy Marie Smith, also an east sider. Buddy provided for his family, working for Delavan Manufacturing and then Townsend Engineering where he retired.
Buddy is survived by his four sons, Buddy Jr.(Steffany) Bellis, Bryan (Cathy) Bellis, Brad (Laurie) Bellis, and Bret (Christy) Bellis; son-in-law, Brian Christian; eighteen grandchildren, Amanda Bellis, Austin Bellis & Haley Urness, Aaron, Brianna, and Nicole Bellis, Abby (Brian) Gwyin, Adam (Paige) Christian, Lindsey (Paul) Weis, Meredith Batz, Lauren Bellis, Christian, and Caitlyn Bellis; five great-grandchildren, Izabella and Tate Gwyin, Colt Christian, George, and Frasier Weis; and five siblings, Erna Warren, Larry (Martha) Bellis, Sheryl Calhoun, Jean Ann Scigliano, and Steve (Sue) Bellis.
Buddy is preceded in death by his wife, Joy Bellis, and daughter Debbie Christian.
A memorial service will be hosted on Thursday, January 27, 2022, at 11:00 a.m. at Hamilton’s near Highland Memory Gardens, 121 NW 60th Avenue, Des Moines, IA 50313. Visitation ceremony held prior at 9:00 a.m. The family kindly asks that masks be worn.
In place of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in Buddy’s honor to the East High Alumni Association or the Alzheimer’s Association.
Craig Tideback
02/08/2022
Buddy & Brian, so sorry for the loss of your father. Praying for you guys and your family.
Shawnda and Bud Meyer
01/24/2022
I remember Uncle Bud as a kind, Gentle Man! He touched everybody's life in some way! We have a lot of Great Memories of Uncle Bud! I ( Shawnda) was having a lot of Anxiety issues after losing my younger Brother in 1997. Uncle Bud was my Rock! He was always there for me whenever I needed just to talk or cry on his shoulder! I really don't know how I would have gotten through this time in my life without him! Uncle Bud and Aunt Joy raised some Great Children! The most caring Loving Family! We will always Love And Miss you Uncle Bud! My heart is so saddened by his Passing but my heart was also saddened to hear that he was so sick! We know that you ( Uncle Bud) are in a much better place now! We will always Love And Miss you Uncle Bud! Rest in Peace now! Love you so much!
Eric and Laura
01/24/2022
Bret, Buddy, Brian, Brad, and families- our sincere condolences at this time. Your dad lives on through each of you in different and wonderful ways. May you find comfort knowing Bud got to visit Jesus, and reunite with Joy and Deb. Sorry we are only able to be there in spirit this week. May peace fall upon you.