Ted Diehl
May 24, 2021
On Monday May 24th, 2021, at age 84, Ted has truly retired. We love him and we will miss him.
Ted Bart Diehl was born on August 18, 1936, in Des Moines, Iowa to Woodrow and Mary Diehl. It was 106.4 degrees that day. His beloved mother, Mary Jo Diehl, lay in a room cooled only by a fan pushing the coldness from a block of ice into the room.
Ted attended Altoona High School where he played football, making lifelong friends and graduating in 1954. He worked side by side with his parents every day on the Diehl family farm in Berwick, Iowa.
The family of three decided to build a new Diehl family farm outside of Carlisle. Ted, Mary and Woodrow worked tirelessly at the Carlisle farm which brought both joy and heartache when the Des Moines River would bring flood waters.
Ted met Ann Upchurch on a blind date arranged for him by his cousin. He proposed on New Year’s Eve and they married in May of 1958. The construction of the new Red Rock Dam near Knoxville brought with it a set-back for the Diehl family relocating them to land east of Indianola where the farm and family found their permanent roots. The family incorporated the farm and chose the name Marywood Farms. The Indianola farm was not a typical farm, and over the years it encompassed livestock, row crops, dozers/man-made lakes, strawberry fields, apple orchards, LP gas, a John Deere franchise out of Knoxville, and many other implements to operate the farm. Marywood Farms was a place where employees became family.
Ted and his family enjoyed many happy hours together playing games, boating and skiing at Lake Rathbun and taking many wonderful vacations in their Dodge Travco motorhome listening to 8 track tapes of the Eagles, a band they all liked. The Travco took them from one coast to the other, Ted dutifully behind the wheel the whole way, not once complaining.
While there was always a lot of work to be done on the farm, lifelong friends, family and neighbors were very important to Ted. Whether it was morning coffee, hunting and fishing trips, a sit-down meal or a stop by his shop, he always made you feel welcome, and he enjoyed the conversation.
Ted was a host of the Indianola Community. He served as President on the Indianola School Board long enough to proudly present his girls with their diplomas. Ted enjoyed supporting all aspects of the agriculture industry from mentoring young men interested in future careers in agriculture to volunteering with the Iowa Corn Growers, Warren County Pork Producers, County Fair Board, Cattlemen’s Association, 4-H and many other organizations. Religion was very important to Ted; he was a member of the First Methodist Church serving in many roles over the years.
He was very knowledgeable when it came to politics, all you had to do was ask. Volunteering with his friends and family at important Democratic fundraising events such as the Harkin Steak Fry where he contributed his time over the span of 37 years.
Ted’s diverse head for business and entrepreneur spirit made him a confident negotiator closing large business deals with a handshake or contract written on a paper napkin.
He met Valerie Stickel “AKA” Grandma Valerie in 2003 and they were married in 2005. Ted and Valerie’s 16 years of marriage were filled with grandchildren’s activities, trips to tropical locations and foreign countries, and countless “Sunday brunches” where everyone was welcome. While Cabanas and sandals were not always in Ted’s vocabulary, he loved Valerie so much he made an exception.
Grandchildren were most important to Ted, he loved them very much and spent as much time as he could with them. Taking time out of his busy day to call each and every one of them regularly just to check up on them and see how they were doing.
Ted was preceded in death by his parents (Woodrow and Mary Diehl), wife (Ann), and son (John Camron).
Survivors include his wife Valerie Stickel-Diehl, daughters Christy Diehl, Wendy McGinnis (Matt), Tracey Boyd (Chris); son Mike Anderson; grandchildren Doris Ann, Mary and John McGinnis, Colton and Caden Boyd, McKenzie Phillips and Zoe Anderson and many more extended family from other states and countries (Germany).
In lieu of flowers, please consider making memorial contributions to one of Ted’s favorites - Indianola Hope Foundation and Heal House or Habitat for Humanity.
Services will be held on Saturday, May 29, 2021 at Hamilton’s Funeral Home, 605 Lyon Street, Des Moines. Visitation will begin at 9:00 a.m., followed by funeral service at 11:00 a.m. Cremation will take place after the services.
Kristi Bachof
06/10/2021
So sorry to hear of Ted's passing! He was an amazing man! I worked for him for several years and just adored him! My condolences to all family and friends (which he had many) RIP Ted!
Valerie
05/31/2021
Ted worked harder than he needed to not for himself, for his family so they could live a comfortable life, he wanted to help with college. He couldnt help himself nothing he ever did was less than 100%.his intent was to provide college for grandchildren. He loved people, they were his purpose! Strong family values, if were in. The family YOU were his personal family he always thought his student could do more than they capable of. If he knew you he would work hard to find you work. You would always learni it was his pleasure!
Dave Verhille
05/28/2021
Ted was a iconic family friend who always made the effort to attend graduations and weddings. He never met a stranger. And had no issues in sitting down with someone who soon became his friend.
Ted joined us fishing in Canada several years. One such trip we had a delay flying into our camp. We drove to the rural Canada town dump to see bears. Ted told my oldest son, age 12, Throw a rock at that bear. Dan saiD Are you crazy? Teds response was Dont worry about it. You are a faster runner than me. Dan hit the bear who barely lifted his head from his garbage dinner. Forever a memory.
We will all miss Ted and his do the right thing always attitude.
A life well lived. Love ya Ted!
Patrico
05/28/2021
Valerie, Im so sorry to learn of Teds passing. Will be thinking of you and all of your family in the days ahead!
Patrice
Ben Verhille
05/28/2021
Ted was one of the most wonderful people Ive had the pleasure of meeting. Strong, intelligent, and kind beyond words. He will be missed
Tim Bonney
05/28/2021
Valarie, I was so very sorry to hear about Ted's passing! You and your family are in my prayers.
Janet K Stanley
05/28/2021
To a wonderful guy that loves hugs! I enjoyed working for Ted who was my "boss" for Marywood Farms back when they had the orchard. I enjoyed mowing and best job I ever had.
Nita Garrett Hoffman
05/27/2021
Valerie so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Nita
Mark Mills
05/27/2021
Praying for you now Val. Ted's passing is such a tragedy. He was a wonderful husband, father, and grandfather and he cared about other people more than he did about himself. He left an incredible legacy and the world is much worse off without him. Rest assured, he is in Heaven and at peace.
Melissa Gilmore (Brown)
05/27/2021
Valerie and family I am so sorry for your loss think he knew about you in this time of need you guys do anything let my mom or I know we love you very much missy Melissa
Elisa Verhille
05/27/2021
Valerie & family - I was so saddened to hear of Ted's passing. You all have been such a wonderful part of our family's history. Ted always made such an effort to stay in touch and I can remember him driving to AZ to visit with Bob in his final years. I think of all the fun times at Iowa Football games, hearing stories of Canada fishing trips and just remember all the love and laughter they shared. Ted always wanted me to know that he "loved ya". Well Ted, I love ya and think the world of you too. His smile and sensibility will be missed. Sending you a big hug.
Del & AJ
05/27/2021
So sorry for the shock and loss. May you Val, and the rest of the family, find comfort in each other. Ted shaped our corn field into a forever home. He loved his dozer!
Rex and Phyllis
05/26/2021
Sorry to hear about Ted val was quite a shock,our prayers are with you
Marlys Van Manen
05/26/2021
Just heard about Ted's tractor accident. I am so very sorry for your loss my dear friend Val and rest of family. The few times I met him, he was always so nice and welcoming. Sending up many prayer and hugs are coming your way.
Darlene Johnson
05/26/2021
So sad to hear about Ted's tractor accident. Have known him a long time, great guy. He will be missed, he was always ready for a hug LOL. My heart goes out to you Valerie and the rest of Teds family. Peace be with you!!!