Pamela Hillabolt
May 21, 2021
Pamela Hillabolt, 74, passed away May 21, 2021 at her home in Des Moines surrounded by her family.
Pam was born March 11, 1947 in Des Moines, Iowa to Marie (Donahue) and George R. Stokesbary, Jr.
Pam lived in Des Moines most of her life, graduating from St. Joseph’s Academy. In later years she wintered in Sun Lakes, Arizona. Pam was a realtor in both Iowa and Arizona. She enjoyed dancing throughout her life, most recently she was a 10-year member of the Phoenix Suns “Golden Grannies” dance team. Pam also enjoyed attending her grandchildren’s activities.
Pam is survived by her big brother, Tom (Cathi) Stokesbary; former husband, Gary; their children, Scott (Barb) Martin, Wendi (Jay) Hart, Ryan (Amber) Hillabolt, Keri (Eric) Kenoyer; grandchildren, Brad, Samantha, Sara, Dylan, Gaige, Tyler, Ethan, Brayden, Kaleb, Logan, and Hannah; and 15 great-grandchildren.
She was preceded in death by her parents; and sister, Linda Ashing.
Visitation will be held on Tuesday, June 8, 2021 starting at 11:00 a.m. with a celebration of life service to begin at 2:00 p.m. at Hamilton’s Southtown Funeral Home, 5400 SW 9th Street.
Memorial contributions may be directed to the family in loving memory of Pam.
Condolences may be expressed at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
Karen boyd
10/25/2021
My sympathies go out to the family of Pam. I am a old friend of hers. So sad to hear about her passing
David Neary
06/07/2021
Tom - I'm so sorry to see the notice for your sister. I got to know Pam in the 80's when we would run into each other at Lorri's bar on Hickman. She was a lot of fun and we have some good times. My thoughts go out to you.
Margie kenyon
06/06/2021
We are sorry for your loss. We had so much fun during the fast pitch softball days. She was one person you wouldn't forget. Sincerely- Keith and Margie Kenyon
Michael Johns
06/04/2021
My Condolences to your family. Pam will certainly be missed. She always brightened up the entire room when she came in. A very kind person.
Mike Johns (CB in Chandler)
Sharon Marvelli
06/01/2021
Will miss you my friend . The fair wont be the same without you. I will never forget all the good times we had together. Every time I dance I will think of you dancing up in heaven.
Carol Vangel
05/28/2021
Pam Your beautiful smile will radiate in Heaven. I have fun memories dancing with you. Now you dance with the Angels! Carol Vangel
Heather Rodriguez
05/26/2021
My sincere condolences to your family. Pam was a special soul, full of light, laughter, and love! She was so proud of her children and grandchildren. I loved hearing stories of her time in Iowa. She will be missed. Im grateful and blessed to have known her.
Ruth Peters
05/26/2021
I am so sorry for your loss. So enjoyed dancing with her. She will be surely missed by the Golden Grannies.