Beau Bonanno
November 14, 2020
Beau Charles Bonanno, 39, passed away Friday, November 13, 2020, at home.
Born January 6, 1981, to Frank Bonanno and Nancy (Harvey) Sullivan, he was raised on the south side of Des Moines, Iowa, where his family had been a staple for decades. He was extremely proud of his heritage and family legacy.
Beau was married to Stephanie Tillinghast in 2003. Later that year, they welcomed their first child, Francesca. Over the next five years, two sons, Giovanni and Anthony were added. They divorced in 2020.
For the better part of 15 years, Beau worked as a plumber and steamfitter with the Local 33 Union. Beau was a standout in his profession and more importantly, he knew all of the great one-liners when it came to working a “shitty” job.
Beau loved extreme sports. Whether it was riding his four-wheeler or skiing double black diamond slopes with his boys, he seemed to welcome the adrenaline rush that came along with such feats.
Beau was also known for being the life of the party. He loved to travel with his friends for Pearl Jam concerts. He had a contagious, one-of-a-kind laugh, and never had a problem laughing at himself and his own antics. Beau would be the first to admit that he cracked himself up.
More than anything however, Beau loved his children and being involved in their activities. He was their number 1 fan and often their coach, except in the case of Frankie where despite his “Just Dance” video game greatness, he knew nothing about actual competitive dance. Most summers he found himself coaching baseball, just like his father did before him. He had a special connection with Ankeny Blaze and was supremely proud of their team accomplishments.
We will always remember Beau for his fun-loving ways and his love of the Miami Dolphins. His laugh and smile were just so infectious.
Waiting on the other side for him were his grandparents, Frank and Colleen Bonanno, Chet and Anna Harvey. He is survived by his children, Francesca Josephine (Frankie Jo), Giovanni (Gionni), and Anthony (A-Bomb) Bonanno; his mom, Nancy (John) Sullivan; his dad, Frank (Therese) Bonanno; sister, Lori (Jim) Wyble; brother, Frank Bonanno (Kim Beall); step-sister, Keriann Sullivan; several aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, and cousins; as well as his special friend, Claire Heagy. Lastly, he is survived by his dogs, Zella, Ziggy, and Watson.
Beau took his life away from us. It is a mystery how a person can have so many friends and family surrounding them, love life so much, and yet also struggle with that life all in one breath.
Our hearts are shattered. Peace be with you.
A celebration of life service will be held at 10:00 a.m. on Monday, November 23, 2020, at Hamilton’s Southtown Funeral Home, 5400 SW 9th Street in Des Moines. Visitation will be held on Sunday from 3-7 p.m., also at the funeral home.
Memorial contributions may be directed to Nancy Sullivan to assist with expenses.
Online condolences may be expressed at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
Jill (Bohall) Kellegher
11/18/2020
My deepest sympathy to your family, you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Susie Downey- Hall
11/18/2020
My heart breakes.This should have not if happened. Beau was a fun, loving, good hearted person who wanted everyone to be happy. He wanted every one where and eho they were suppose to be connected to before, his damise. I think this a tragic unforeseen death ,that noone seen coming. He levt to soon and we will never know what made him go over the final edge. Beau you are going to missed by many. You will never be forgotten. i hope you have found the peace you need. You are loved snd miised by many.
Shane Brown
11/17/2020
I love and miss ya beau bo, i will always cherish the moments i was lucky too share with ya bud
Jason Cromer
11/17/2020
Beau moved to the southside in the late 1980's. He quickly became best friends with my brother and I and we were inseparable. We had sleep overs, made snow forts, played pool in his basement, played sports together and would have a good fight about once a week. But I'll be damned if we weren't friends again 5 minutes after those fights. He had a strong will and was very hard headed. Beau was my first best friend, and nothing can take that way from me. Over time we grew apart, but when we crossed paths we started up right where we left off. Beau was a very special human bening and I believe he was put on this earth for a special reason, and I thank God for our friendship. He will truley be missed. Love ya brother!!!!
Joe Merryfield
11/17/2020
Damn it buddy! sure gonna miss you! for sure!
Tracey Erickson
11/17/2020
Beau always had the biggest smile and the loudest laugh in the room! Those are the things I'll remember most about him. And how he would always let Ziggy out without a leash, and next thing you know he'd be yelling at him again "dammit Ziggy! Come here!" My gate to friendship was always open for Beau to enter as he pleased...my husband Neil and I would love spending time laughing at Beau's stories, and how he would make fun of his own nose. I just love the guy.
Beau,
I'll miss waving at you from across the yard every time you came home. I'll miss your dog playing with my dogs. I'll miss seeing you walking through our gate with your Coor's Light to come chat. I'll definitely miss that smile and that laugh of yours. ❤
Alecia Boehler
11/17/2020
Oh Beau, I wish you knew just how loved you were by so many. Your infectious smile and laugh will be missed. You were truly one of a kind.
" it's beau, not bo like body oder" 💔
Ro Caligiuri
11/17/2020
Our family has great memories of Beau.
You and your family are in our prayers. Sorry to hear of your loss.
Therese Bonanno
11/17/2020
Dear Beau, I remember when you came to Kansas and I was laying on the floor and you ask me if I was ok and when I got up I was blessed with the sweetest hug from you. You have the perfect heart and I will always have you tuck in my ❤ heart and soul. I love you Beau Charles Bonanno.
Dennis Smith
11/16/2020
Beau was a really good guy. He made work a lot more enjoyable. i send my love and prayers to his family God Bless!
Bill Brommel
11/16/2020
You didn't have to be around Beau for very long before you realized he was an exceptionally good person.He was loved and respected by everyone who truely knew him.It didn't matter what we were doing,any time with Beau was always agood time.May God bless you and keep you my brother.