Beau Bonanno
November 14, 2020
Beau Charles Bonanno, 39, passed away Friday, November 13, 2020, at home.
Born January 6, 1981, to Frank Bonanno and Nancy (Harvey) Sullivan, he was raised on the south side of Des Moines, Iowa, where his family had been a staple for decades. He was extremely proud of his heritage and family legacy.
Beau was married to Stephanie Tillinghast in 2003. Later that year, they welcomed their first child, Francesca. Over the next five years, two sons, Giovanni and Anthony were added. They divorced in 2020.
For the better part of 15 years, Beau worked as a plumber and steamfitter with the Local 33 Union. Beau was a standout in his profession and more importantly, he knew all of the great one-liners when it came to working a “shitty” job.
Beau loved extreme sports. Whether it was riding his four-wheeler or skiing double black diamond slopes with his boys, he seemed to welcome the adrenaline rush that came along with such feats.
Beau was also known for being the life of the party. He loved to travel with his friends for Pearl Jam concerts. He had a contagious, one-of-a-kind laugh, and never had a problem laughing at himself and his own antics. Beau would be the first to admit that he cracked himself up.
More than anything however, Beau loved his children and being involved in their activities. He was their number 1 fan and often their coach, except in the case of Frankie where despite his “Just Dance” video game greatness, he knew nothing about actual competitive dance. Most summers he found himself coaching baseball, just like his father did before him. He had a special connection with Ankeny Blaze and was supremely proud of their team accomplishments.
We will always remember Beau for his fun-loving ways and his love of the Miami Dolphins. His laugh and smile were just so infectious.
Waiting on the other side for him were his grandparents, Frank and Colleen Bonanno, Chet and Anna Harvey. He is survived by his children, Francesca Josephine (Frankie Jo), Giovanni (Gionni), and Anthony (A-Bomb) Bonanno; his mom, Nancy (John) Sullivan; his dad, Frank (Therese) Bonanno; sister, Lori (Jim) Wyble; brother, Frank Bonanno (Kim Beall); step-sister, Keriann Sullivan; several aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, and cousins; as well as his special friend, Claire Heagy. Lastly, he is survived by his dogs, Zella, Ziggy, and Watson.
Beau took his life away from us. It is a mystery how a person can have so many friends and family surrounding them, love life so much, and yet also struggle with that life all in one breath.
Our hearts are shattered. Peace be with you.
A celebration of life service will be held at 10:00 a.m. on Monday, November 23, 2020, at Hamilton’s Southtown Funeral Home, 5400 SW 9th Street in Des Moines. Visitation will be held on Sunday from 3-7 p.m., also at the funeral home.
Memorial contributions may be directed to Nancy Sullivan to assist with expenses.
Online condolences may be expressed at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
Jenny Barker
11/23/2020
love and peace to Beaus family and friends. Rest in peace- free.
Lori Crittenden
11/23/2020
We are so very sorry to hear of your loss, Nancy and family. May God grant you comfort in this extremely difficult time. (I am George and Dorothy Dresler's granddaughter. My mother's Virginia). Praying for you all.
Jake Myers
11/23/2020
Thinking about you Beau.
Richard & Cheryl Tillinghast
11/23/2020
The service was beautiful. We always loved our visits with Beau at the family get-togethers. Our heart-felt sympathy goes out to his family and especially Stephanie and his chidren. God Bless you all.
George Hendrickson
11/23/2020
My heart goes out to your whole family Frankie and Nancy. I remmber the little shit from my days as your mailman at times, what an active little guy. His service was very appropriate and Frankie I am so proud of you my dear friend. Myself having 26 yrs of sobriety and loss of a brother in the same way, I feel your pain. God Bless
Lizzie Mosby
11/23/2020
What a beautiful service for a wonderful man, father and friend. my heart is aching for all those that Beau left behind, especially his 3 beautiful children. I hope his soul is at peace and those here left to grieve find peace in thinking of all the ways Beau lived his life to the fullest. Sending love to you all.
Pattee Jay (Barnes) Thorpe
11/20/2020
Dearest Nancy and family. I have thought about you so often through the years. I heard about Beau's passing from a mutual friend, and I wanted to send my love and prayers to you.
Peggy ONeill
11/19/2020
Frankie ~ i hope you remember me from some years ago. I so remember listening to Beau stories. Your pain must be overwhelming. I hope you find peace.
Claire Heagy
11/19/2020
Beau was always laughing or trying to make a joke. he had such a big personality and loving spirit. I will always miss his laugh. I love you Beau and will never forget all the moments we shared.
Kayla Vaskis (Whitlatch)
11/18/2020
To Nancy, the Somers family and all of Beau's family, our prayers go out to you all. our hearts are so broken for your loss. Peace be with you
Heidi Parkins-Tucker
11/18/2020
BeauB! the smile of the crowd the quick witted funny kid I knew from Horace Mann elementary. Beau always lit up the room with his presence and he will be greatly missed😢 i will miss most seeing him unexepectedly and all of his "Beaus&@$/!" . He never changed since we were kids. He will be missed more than he will ever know...RIP Beau
Brad Ceretti
11/18/2020
My heart aches for the entire Bonanno family. The Ceretti family sends their happy thoughts, warm blessings, and prayers in this time of grievance. God bless Beau, his kids, and all that knew this man that helped all of us become a better version of ourselves.
Bill Albright
11/18/2020
So sorry to hear of this tragedy my heart aches for you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Love, Bill Albright and Family
Nick Boehler
11/18/2020
I love you Beau. You will always have a special place in me and my familys heart. there wont be a day that goes by that i won't think about you. Until we meet again my dear friend.
Charles Huntbach
11/18/2020
So sorry to hear of your loss, Frank. This is something no parent should ever have to experience.