Debra Renae Sosebee
July 22, 2009
Born to John Earl Plate and Vivian Marie (Simons) Plate, of New Sharon, IA on April 13, 1954 at March A.F.B. Riverside, CA. After living 6 years in Riverside Debbie attended school and lived in Moses Lake, WA., Sacramento, CA., the Island of Guam, Dayton, OH., then in Omaha, NE. Along the way came brother, Steve in 1967, Bob in 1961, and Tim in 1967.
While in Omaha working at Beardmore Chevrolet she met her future husband and love of her life Tom Sosebee who was stationed at the Air Force. They were engage on July 6th of 1972 and later married on September 24th of the same year at the Methodist Church in Montezuma, IA. Tom and Debbie became parents on September 3, 1973 with their daughter Trisha, their son Jason followed on May 19, 1975.
Tom and Debbie moved to Tom's hometown of Gadsden, AL in 1978 where Debbie continued her career in the auto dealership business. Tom and Debbie built their first new home in Southside and raised their family until May 1990 when they returned to Iowa and took up residency in Ankeny. They decided to build another dream home and moved in October 1998. Debbie decided to part ways with the auto industry in late 2005 to stay home and care for the joy of her life, her grandchildren.
Debbie loved caring for her beautiful home and its landscaping. Her eyes sparkled when she spent time with all of her families’ children. She loved planning large family get togethers with her mother especially around the holidays! She loved cooking for her family, shopping with the girls, going to movies, listening/singing to music, beating Tom at a game of cards, spending time with her grandkids and watching them grow. Debbie never missed a chance to help her family and friends and was always there for special moments for each and every niece and nephew.
Debbie is survived by her beloved husband, Tom; daughter, Trisha and husband, Brian (Smith) and their sons, Bryce, Joshua, and Gabriel; son, Jason and wife, Kristin and their daughters, Sarah and Kayla; her parents, John and Vivian; brother, Steve and his son, John and wife, Nichelle, Ryan, and Andrew; brother, Bob and wife, Melissa and sons, Ryan and Cody and daughter, Emma; brother, Tim and wife, Cindy, daughters, Kaitlyn and Madeline; her mother-in-law Jewell, as well as the rest of her extended family and friends.
Funeral services will be held at 2 p.m. Monday, July 27, 2009 at Hamilton's near Highland Memory Gardens, 121 NW 60th Ave., Des Moines, Iowa. Burial will follow at Friends Cemetery in New Sharon, Iowa. A visitation with family present will be from 2-5 p.m. Sunday, July 26, 2009 at the funeral home.
Memorial contributions may be made to the family in loving memory of Debbie.
www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com
terrykaymurphyanbobby yates
07/28/2009
dear tom an family we were very saden to hear of debs passing we have wonderful memories of our childern growing up together and the friendship that we shared throughout those years please know that you are in our thougts an prayers. much love terry kay an bobby e-mail xxeagles4everxx@aol.com
Frank & Sylvia Stanley
07/27/2009
Trisha, Brian, Bryce, Josh, & Gab,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Our hope is that the wonderful memories comfort you. We wish you peace.
The Stanley's
Mark Shepard
07/24/2009
Tom,
My heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family. No amount of words can ease the pain when one has lost a loved one, especially their soulmate. Just know we all share in your pain and time of need. I like to think of all at the Courthouse as an extended family and we are all here for you.
By the sound of her obituary it sounds like you both had a wonderful life together. In time you will meet again. As I told my mother when we lost my dad, he will be as Debbie will be at the gates to heaven to greet you.
God bless you and your family in this time of need.
Mark Shepard
Scott Wheat
07/24/2009
Tom, Trisha and Jason, Sending our deepest sympathy. You all are in our thoughts and prayers.
Scott and Erica Wheat
Todd Wheat
07/24/2009
Tom, Trisha, Jason and the rest of Debbie's Family, on behave of Myself, Robin Abbi and Brodie I would want to offer our deepest condolences. I will always remember the smile and laugh that Debbie had. It was able to brighten any room in any condition. I'm sorry we are unable to attend the funeral, but please know that ya'll are in our hearts and prayers.
The Wheat's
Betty Tice
07/24/2009
There are no words to express what we are feeling after the passing of Debbie. She was a very special person and will be greatly missed. She is not longer in pain and will be your guiding ANGEL from heaven. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in you grief.
Jamie
07/24/2009
Tom (and family),
I am so very sorry for your loss. I know that you will miss Debbie terribly. Know that as she cared for you here, I'm sure she'll continue to watch over you and care for you from Heaven. You were both very blessed to have found each other. My heart truly aches for you.
Sarah McCarter
07/24/2009
Our thoughts and prayers our with you and your family during this difficult time. I am Janet Irlmeier's little sister Sarah, I feel that I have known Tom & Debbie since Janet & Allan moved into the neighborhood,Janet was so excited when Debbie was the first neighbor to come visit and extend a welcoming hand! Not knowing Debbie very well her spirit was a light in both Evan and Allison, she was a grandma by heart and I know she will be greatly missed. She was a blessing to the Irlmeier family and to me,she will remain forever in our hearts.
Rhonda Baca
07/24/2009
I am very sorry for your loss! My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Rhonda Baca
Albuquerque, NM
Ruby
07/23/2009
Tom,
I'm so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Ruby