Kurt Ronald Oetzmann
November 01, 2020
Kurt Ronald Oetzmann, 50, ended his journey with cancer on November 1, 2020. Services will be held at Hamilton’s on Westown Parkway, 3601 Westown Parkway in West Des Moines, IA on Saturday, November 14, 2020 with visitation from 10 a.m. to 12 p.m. followed by a memorial service at 12:00 noon. The family respectfully asks that you wear a mask and adhere to social distancing.
Kurt was born December 18, 1969 in Davenport, IA to Donna (Crane) and Ronald Oetzmann. He graduated from North Scott High School in Eldridge, IA where he played baseball and where he met his future wife, Kelli Wuestenberg. The couple married on November 9, 1996 and moved to Bettendorf and later Long Grove where Kurt worked for FedEx Freight as a truck driver. The family moved to Des Moines in 2008 when Kurt transferred.
Kurt was always active. He enjoyed hunting deer and goose and playing golf, slow-pitch softball and bowling with his brother and Dad, and later with Kelli in a Sunday league. Most recently, the family traveled for sports with Jake in golf and Maddie in softball. Kurt was a devoted husband and father.
He is greatly missed by his wife, Kelli; children, Jake and Maddie; his parents, Donna and Ronald; siblings, Kim (Tony) McCallister, Kevin (Jackie) Oetzmann and Kris (Tristen Davis) Oetzmann; nieces and nephews, Kayla, Connor, Carson, Taylor, Jackson, Cole and Hayley; sister-in-law, Tammy (John) Loussaert, brother-in-law, Kurt Wuestenberg; and mother-in-law, Karon Ralston.
Kurt was preceded in death by his brother-in-law, John Wold; and his nephew, Justin Wold.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be directed to MercyOne Richard Deming Cancer Center or to the family for Jake and Maddie’s College Funds.
Patti stepp
11/14/2020
kelli i am so very sorry for your loss. my heart goes out to you the kids and your whole family thoughts and prayers.
Donna Hancock
11/10/2020
So very sorry to hear about Kurt.I`m Christy Ketel`s mother and though I only talk with Kurt a few times,he always had such a big smile.Dennis,as you know, was retired from Fedex so when he saw him home would tell him to get back to work to keep his retirement going. I know what your going thru,but Im so sorry that you did not have nearly enough years together.
Jim Murray
11/10/2020
I am very sorry to hear of the passing of my friend, Kurt. He was one of my favorite people at work. He was always upbeat with a smile on his face, regardless of the circumstances. His positivity was very contagious. I am really going to miss him. I live in Indianapolis and sadly, will not be able to attend his services. I would like to extend my condolences to his family.
Michelle, Samantha, and Kent York
11/04/2020
Kurt is deeply missed by anyone that ever met him. His caring personality, sense of humor, and kind heart enriched our family over the years. Kurt is our favorite coach ever. He loved the game and he loved our daughter.
Kurt's smile and genuine laugh were infectious. He lifted up all whom had the opportunity to know him. We love Kurt and we love you Kelli, Maddie, and Jake. We ask God to comfort you at this difficult time and we ask that our Lord will heal your broken hearts. We miss you, Kurt.
God bless you,
The Yorks
Jeff Tobin
11/04/2020
What a shock. When I played Little League baseball Kurt would act as a base runner for our practices. Kurt and his family were a memorable part of my childhood. So sorry for your loss.
Leesa Jansen
11/04/2020
I am deeply sadened to hear of Kurt's passing. My heart aches for you and your family. Please now you are in my prayers. May he rest in peace.
Michelle Ferrell
11/03/2020
Kelli, Jake & Maddie
I am so sorry and my heart hurts for all of you! There are really no words I can say to take away your pain just know I am here for all of you.
Sandy Nicholson
11/02/2020
My heart aches for all of you. I am so very sorry. I pray his memories bring you comfort. My sincere condolences. 🙏🙏❤
Gwen Hobson
11/02/2020
So sorry to hear of your loss. My heart is with you all.
Brenda Summerfield
11/02/2020
So very sorry for your loss. Kurt will always be with you and the kids. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family. hugs.
Karen Idso
11/02/2020
Kelli, I am so sorry for your loss. Hang on to those memories and share them often. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.