Tom Buchacker
October 21, 2020
Tom W. Buchacker
Des Moines
Tom Warren Buchacker, age 77, passed away Wednesday, October 21, 2020.
Tom was born November 23, 1942 in Des Moines, Iowa to Marion and Mildred Buchacker. He graduated from Tech High School in 1961. He was a pressman for Wells Fargo, formerly Dial Finance, for almost 40 years. Tom was a member of Oakwood United Methodist Church, Auburn-Union Park Lodge #592, and the Za Ga Zig Shrine. Tom’s passion was fly fishing. He was a member of Trout Unlimited and Hawkeye Fly Fishing Association. He was proficient at tying his own flies and taught fly fishing lessons to the Boy Scouts. He was also an avid reader in his free time.
Tom adored his grandchildren and enjoyed taking them fly fishing in NE Iowa, attending baseball and football games, dance recitals, and many swim meets. He was a loving husband, father, and grandfather.
He is survived by his wife of 57 years, Mary Kay; sons, Todd Buchacker and Eric (Kelley) Buchacker; grandchildren, Matthew (Carlee) Buchacker and Emma Buchacker; and many other extended family and friends.
Tom was preceded in death by his parents.
Services will be held at Oakwood United Methodist Church, 400 NE 56th St, Pleasant Hill, IA 50327. Visitation will be held from 6:00 to 8:00 p.m. Monday, October 26. Funeral service will begin at 10:00 a.m. Tuesday, October 27 and will be followed by a luncheon. Tom will be laid to rest at Oakwood Cemetery in Pleasant Hill.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be directed to Trout Unlimited North Bear Chapter, Hawkeye Fly Fishing Association, or to Oakwood UMC.
Condolences may be expressed at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
Steve Melby
10/27/2020
Kathy and I both will not be able to be at the service today because of our needs to stay safe ourselves. But we remember Tom and his gentle caring ways missed that spirit in this world that is so needed. Our prayers and our hearts go out to the family especially MaryKay and Todd and Eric and their families. May the peace of God be with all of you amen
Douglas Darnall
10/26/2020
Mary Kay, we are so sad to hear Tom is no longer with us. I have many good memories of Tom and I. Remembering going thur school and working on cars together. love to you and your family.
Mary Lou Wilson Benz
10/26/2020
Dear Mary Kay, Todd, Eric, and family, We were so sorry to learn of Tom's passing. We have so many great memories of our friendship over many, many years. We will not be able to attend the visitation or funeral due to the virus, but we will be thinking of you and praying for you and your lovely family daily. Love you all so much, Mary and Jeff
Pam Wilson
10/26/2020
Praying for you and your family in this difficult time you are facing.
Tracey White
10/26/2020
I am so sorry for your loss. Tom was a great man with a heart of gold. He was so kind and understanding. I will never forget him or the kindness he showed me when I lived at Todd's and didnt have a car to get to work. He or Marykay took me everyday! Marykay, I am so sorry. I will pray for you. He loved you very much! Todd, I am so sorry. He loved you so much. He always just said how much his boys meant to him. I am here if you need me! I pray that God wraps his arms around all of you during this hard time! RIP Tom! You will be forever missed.
Anna Vance
10/25/2020
Marykay I'm so sorry to hear about Tom knowing how much you cared about each other and that he will be in your thoughts daily, I wish I had great statememt, poem or verse that could say what I'm feeling for you and the family.
Anna Vance
Lanny White
10/25/2020
Tom was my best friend when young, and what a great friend we was. We would walk back and forth each day to Cattell School, often stopping for a candy bar along the way. Tom enjoyed fishing even then. We would take bamboo fishing poles and go the Birdland lagoon to fish. In our early teens we would deliver papers together and spent evenings collecting for the papers. Tom, you will be missed!!
Cindy Best
10/24/2020
Ron and I send you love and sympathy, Mary Kay. Praying that God holds you close at this time of grief.
Mar Davis
10/23/2020
Mary Kay, Todd and Eric i am so sorry for your loss. I always enjoyed visiting with Tom at the family reunions and he will be missed by so many family members.
Chad Reynolds
10/23/2020
Lots of good memories with Tom over the years. Always enjoyed talking to him & his sense of humor. My thoughts are with his family & friends.
Larry and Linda Burnet
10/22/2020
Sending our heart felt sympathy for your loss. God Bless You and your Family.
Love from Larry Linda Brad and Lori
Beth Walling
10/22/2020
Mary Kay, swim meets were always better when you and Tom walked in. Thank you for being part of our swimming family.
Beth Walling.
Scott, Stacie, Eric, and Kaelyn Nichols
10/22/2020
All our thoughts and prayers. An incredible man.
Susan Winn
10/22/2020
Mary Kay, Todd & Eric: We are deeply saddened by the news of Toms passing. Thinking of you and wishing you moments of strength and peace as you remember and cherish all the wonderful ways that Tom enriched everyones life. He will always be with you. I have so many fond memories of him. Sending prayers of comfort and strength.
Much love,
Susan (Spaw) & Jeff Winn