Robert Wood
October 16, 2020
After circling the sun 76 times, Robert L. Wood, Jr. of Des Moines, Iowa passed peacefully surrounded by family October 16, 2020 after succumbing to heart ailments. Rob was born December 22, 1943 in Des Moines, making it his lifetime home where he raised a family, started his own business, sold real estate and did what he loved doing most: being the head men’s soccer coach at Drake University.
He graduated as an accomplished athlete from Saydel High School where he made life-long friends and soon after joined the Iowa Air National Guard. He married former wife Kathleen with whom he had his family and began his fence-building business. Rob suffered a devastating workplace accident in 1976 and after recovering became a real estate agent. Shortly after, he took up coaching youth soccer where his true passion and future career were ignited.
An inductee of the Iowa Soccer Association Hall of Fame, Rob started the college men’s programs at Grand View College and Drake University and also headed the Valley High School program in its first several years. While coaching at Grand View he earned his B.A. in History. He and Frances married in 1996 and two years later, he retired from coaching and joined Next Generation Realty.
As long as Rob and Fran were together, they were having fun – they simply delighted in each other’s company. They enjoyed regular walks, attending church, making each other laugh, visiting with friends and family, telling their love story, going on adventures in and around Iowa - feeling lucky to find a Chinese restaurant. Of their many travels the highlight was in 2018: a 35-day, seven country tour of Europe, capped off by a cruise up the Danube River.
Although he knew the rare disease would progressively take its toll and cut his years short, he resolved to challenge himself daily, accomplish as much as possible in the time he had and was a remarkable model of discipline, resilience and positivity. To no one’s surprise, he made sure to cross skydiving off his list two years ago this month.
The family thanks his cardiologist Dr. Akrivi Manola and his internist Dr. Austin Baeth and their nurses and staff for excellent, heartfelt care.
Rob was loved immensely and leaves many to cherish his memories: wife Frances, sister Judith Coleman, Uncle Virgle Sluder, nephew Rodney Wood (Cindy), children Peter Wood, Jenny Wood (Denise) and R. Nathan Wood (Johanna), grandchildren Calvin and Naomi Wood, step-children John Potts (Genevieve) and Leigh Samp (Jeff), grandchildren Matthew and Alyson Potts and Jonah Samp, numerous cousins and dear friends from all eras of his life. He was preceded in death by his parents Metilda R. and Robert L. Wood, Sr.
Memorial contributions can be made to the American Heart Association or the National Kidney Foundation. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that you treat someone you love to dinner and think of Rob, Bob, or Coach Wood.
Rob’s viewing is from Noon to 2pm, Thursday, October 22, 2020 at Hamilton’s on Westown Parkway, 3601 Westown Parkway, West Des Moines, Iowa, followed by a service starting at 2pm. The family requires that all in attendance wear masks and maintain 6 feet of physical distance. Due to covid restrictions, no reception will be held.
Adam Buseck
10/22/2020
My condolences to your family. Coach Wood made an indelible impression on my life on and off the field. I was lucky to have played for Coach Wood AND he gave me the chance to coach with him for one year at Drake. Coach taught us a lot more than soccer and helped us all become better men. He was a leader by example and showed us how to be tough, kind and work as hard as we could no matter what the score. I am glad to hear he had a successful and fullfiling life after Drake and the former Bulldogs remember him fondly.
Jo Schechinger
10/21/2020
So sorry for your loss.
Mary Hanson Harrison
10/20/2020
Neighbor, friend, mr. fix it, political ally, lover of history, athlete. Rob was all those things. For more than 2 decades, Fran and Rob lived across a gravel lane from me, sharing chores and keeping up with news about our families. However, Rob and I (I'm a few months older ) held a silent competition...who would get out there first to shovel the snow, rake the leaves, or pull the weeds. Those are the moments I cherish today.
I know the best compliment I could give him is to say "he was a good man". And he was certainly that.
Rest in Peace, my dear friend, and my children wish that too.
Rob Harrington
10/20/2020
To Frances and all of Bob's kids, grandkids, family and friends - my condolences. At 18-21-years-old many of Coach's lessons were lost on me. At 50 they resonant profoundly. His kindness, honesty, integrity and grit should be emulated by all. As a coach now, I can't imagine the schedule he kept, driving us to Peoria for a 7:00 PM game, coaching, driving us back to Drake and then getting back to the office the next day. Amazingly, he never seemed tired. He lived with such love, joy and energy. I'm sorry I'll miss the ceremony/visitation, but coaching and my anniversary are both the 22nd. Here's one of my favorite quotes that makes me think of Coach Wood, "Eventually, all things merge into one, and a river runs through it. The river was cut by the world's great flood and runs over rocks from the basement of time. On some of those rocks are timeless drops. Under the rocks are words, and some of those words are theirs."
Celebrate Coach this Thursday.
Carmen Butcher Munoz
10/19/2020
I was so happy to have met Rob thru his wife Frances. They were definatly two people that loved God and life. Panchita I hurt for your loss, you two were meant to be together. Love You!
Dixie Belluchi-Watters
10/19/2020
Simply the epitome of class, grace and all things good. So proud to call you "Cousin Bob"