Susan Marie Eckstaedt
August 08, 2020
Susan Marie (Eslinger) Eckstaedt, 69, was born in Eau Claire, Wisconsin, on May 25th, 1951, and passed away peacefully on August 8th, with loved ones at her side after a courageous battle with ALS.
Sue was the oldest child of Marlyn P. and Doris M. (Drilling) Eslinger. She enjoyed a wonderful childhood in Eau Claire, and was a proud Regis High Rambler, class of 1969. Sue then attended the University of Wisconsin-Eau Claire and earned a degree in Education and Library Science and later a Master’s in Counseling at Drake University. Sue taught for 36 years in Wisconsin and Iowa, retiring from the Waukee Community School District in 2010. Sue loved her career, colleagues, and her students.
Sue married Tom Eckstaedt in 1974, and they began their life together in Milwaukee, WI. After a few years, they moved to Des Moines, IA, where they remained their entire married life raising three daughters, Ann, Elizabeth, and Catherine. Sue loved her family more than anything; she was a dedicated wife, mother, sister, friend, and #1 Grandma Gigi. Sue had a warm, generous, and loving soul. She never missed an opportunity to tell all in her life how much she cared, loved, and was grateful for them.All will miss her smile, sweet voice, red lips, and lively spirit. She made everyone’s day brighter. Our hearts are full because of her.
Sue is survived by her devoted husband and caregiver Tom; their daughters, Ann (Michael) Lucas of Newton, MA, Elizabeth (Nathan) Panther of Muscatine, IA, and Catherine Eckstaedt, St. Louis Park, MN; her mother, Doris Eslinger of Roseville, MN; her beloved sister and best friend, Carol (Jim) Thury of Roseville,MN; nieces, Christine (Ben) Adamson and Maggie Thury; and nephews, Dave (Dionne) Eckstaedt and Joe (Nicole) Paton. Sue was blessed with four beautiful grandchildren that she adored, Cole Panther, Reese Lucas, Kate Panther, and William Lucas. Sue is also survived by sister-in law, Jill Eslinger and brothers-in law, James (Kathy) Eckstaedt and Norman (Martha) Eckstaedt.
Her father, Marlyn P. Eslinger and her brother, Joseph Eslinger preceded Sue in death.
We thank the University of Iowa ALS Clinic and Unity Point of Des Moines Care Teams for their dedicated care to Sue and all our friends and family for their love and support.
Sue has requested a private service. Condolences for the family may be offered online at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorial contributions be made to Des Moines Walk- ALS Association Iowa Chapter- Walk to Defeat ALS “Team Sue”. 3636 Westown Pkwy, Ste 204 West Des Moines, IA 50266.
Larry D Meggers
08/12/2020
Tommy and family, I am so saddened to hear about Susan's passing. She was such a loving person and doled upon all of you especially her grandchildren. She was proud of each and everyone of you. She will be missed.
Fond memories always.
Aaron and Karri Brandsfield and girls
08/12/2020
There are no words to say how sorry we are for your loss. Your dear Susan was such a wonderful soul inside and out. She truely loved you all very much. We will miss her dearly.
Miles Morrow
08/12/2020
Dear Tom and family,
Paula and I are so blessed to have known Susan over the last couple of years. Although I have known Tom for many years, it was just recently when we got to know Susan. Their love for one another was evident and their very entertaining stories as a beautiful couple will always be in our memories. Everyone who knew Susan had their lives enriched by her presence.
Scott and Debbie Anderson
08/12/2020
We are so saddened by the loss of your dear wife, mother and Grandma Gigi! Sue was a bright light that will continue to shine in all of you! What a brave soul to battle this insidious disease...Im sure she did it with grace. Lifting all of you in prayer to ease your pain, and bring you peace. May the angels be her guide, may they lead her into paradise and take her home. She touched all of us with her great spirit- Hugs to all of you. With love, Scott and Debbie Anderson
Marilyn & Steve Coleman
08/11/2020
We are so very sorry for your loss; prayers for peace & comfort. Although we had not seen Sue in some time, we will always remember her warm smile & friendship. May your many joyous memories keep her love alive for each of you, whom it was obvious she loved so very much.
Officer Terry Brauch, retired
08/11/2020
Liz and family, my deepest condolences in the loss of your mother, wife, grandmother. I pray that God will give you the comfort you need in this time and that the great memories you have will get you through the days, weeks and years ahead.