Raymond D. Cermak
May 09, 2020
Raymond Donald Cermak, 69, of Des Moines, died suddenly at home on Saturday, May 9, 2020, of natural causes. A visitation will be held on Saturday, May 16, 2020 from 9:30 to 11:30 a.m. at Hamilton’s near Highland Memory Gardens, 121 NW 60th Ave, Des Moines. We kindly ask you to be mindful of your time greeting the family as we must work within the Covid-19 restrictions. Burial at Highland Memory Gardens Cemetery, 1 NE 60th Ave, Des Moines will take place following the visitation.
Ray was born on January 18, 1951 in Marshalltown, Iowa to Robert and Ethel (Jacobs) Cermak. He graduated from LDF High School in 1969 and from Iowa State University with a psychology degree in 1973. His career in the insurance industry with Dial, Norwest, and Wells Fargo spanned over 30 years. He raised three daughters in Carlisle during his marriage to Julie Bruster Cermak.
He married Ruth White on December 1, 2006. He and Ruth enjoyed hosting dinners for their large blended family. Ray was a grill master, and his main hobby was BBQing and smoking meats. Every year for Christmas dinner he would try a different prime rib recipe, but as a perfectionist, always thought he could do a little better. He could always be counted on for long conversations and sage advice, and his sense of humor and contagious laugh peppered family gatherings with upbeat energy. He was a planner, and his love of lists was a frequent topic of good-natured teasing.
Ray had been retired since 2010. Shortly after retirement, he felt called to volunteer with the food pantry at DSM First, where he and Ruth attended church services. He became an integral part of that ministry as coordinator, and continued his involvement up until the morning of his passing.
He is survived by his wife, Ruth of Des Moines; daughters, Ashleigh Cermak of Carlisle, Alison (Jason) Eernisse of Ames, Adriana (Casey) Elmore of Carlisle; step-children, Erin (Matt) McKinney of Des Moines, Emily (Tunde) Arilewola of Des Moines, Jordan (Ashley) Stokka of Des Moines; grandchildren, Emerson Eernisse, Parker Swigert, Will Stokka, Jordyn Stokka; sister, Loretta Cermak of Ferguson; brother, Roger (Deanna) Cermak of Mabank, TX; parents-in-law, Agnes (White) Johnson (Wally) of Milaca, MN; nieces, Wendi Howes and family of Portsmouth, RI and Catlin Cermak of Pflugerville, TX.
He was preceded in death by his parents and grandson, Ezra Erickson.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to DSM First to be designated for the Food Pantry.
We are grateful for his lifetime of unconditional love and support. We all love him, miss him, and though the void he leaves can never be filled, he will live on in our hearts always. We look forward to the day we join him in the presence of Jesus.
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Mary Leto
05/15/2020
Ruth,,,Tony and I are so sorry to hear of Ray 's passing. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time.
Laura Thomas
05/15/2020
Please know that when you have lost someone you love, no words, however kind, can ease the grief you feel or bring you peace of mind. But if this thought can comfort you or help in any way, sincere sympathy is there with you today. May God bless and keep you always.
James and Donna Nickel
05/15/2020
I am so sorry to hear about Rays passing!!! Praying for you and the family as you walk through these days.
Don Mitchem, LDF class of 1970.
05/14/2020
So sorry to learn of Ray's unexpected death. May God bless and strengthen your family always.
Sandy Hull
05/13/2020
Bob and I will miss Ray so much. We enjoyed working with him at the food pantry and considered him our friend. We are speechless, and all we can say is we now have a special angel looking over all of us.
Rest in Peace my dear friend..
Sandy and Bob!
Jeremy Bradley
05/13/2020
So sorry to hear about Ray's passing. So many memories from my time working for Ray. Donation has been made to DSM First Food Distribution efforts.
Adam Pfister
05/13/2020
I am truely sorry to hear about the passing of Ray. I have some great memories from his families visits while growing up. My thoughts and prayers are with them.
Jolene Edgington
05/13/2020
Ruth and family - I was saddened to hear this news. What a lovely tribute for a life well lived. May your happy memories continue to bring your comfort.
Lindha Steffen
05/13/2020
Ruth, you and your family are in my thoughts as you grieve this loss.
Lindha Steffen
Craig & Dianne Jones
05/12/2020
Ruthi & family, You are in our thoughts & prayers.
Kayla Winnike
05/12/2020
Ruth and family-
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Reading Ray's tribute it is evident he was a wonderful and caring person who loved and served others passionately. May you find comfort in sharing memories and in the assurance that the lives he touched are plentiful. His gifts will continue to bring about abundant blessings.
Annette Duke
05/12/2020
Ruth, sending prayers and thinking of you!
Abbey Moehn
05/12/2020
I was so sorry to hear of Ray's passing. Your are all in my prayers during this difficult time.