Paul Allan Stout
October 10, 2019
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Paul Allan Stout, 54, died October 10, 2019 of ocular melanoma that metastasized to his liver. Services will be held at Lutheran Church of Hope in West Des Moines with visitation on Tuesday, October 15 from 4 to 8 p.m. and the funeral service on Wednesday, October 16 at 10:30 a.m. followed by burial at Iowa Veterans Cemetery at 12:30 p.m.
Paul was born July 23, 1965 to Margaret Ann (Meister) and Ned Delano Stout. He grew up in Mitchellville, IA and graduated from Southeast Polk High School in 1984. He joined the National Guard while in high school and after graduation, joined the U.S. Army Reserves. Paul served for 34 years and attained the rank of Sargent/Major and did a tour in Iraq. In his civilian life, he worked for the Polk County Sheriff’s office after high school and joined the Des Moines Police Department in 1988. He was still actively employed as the Captain of the Des Moines Police Regional Academy.
In his free time, Paul enjoyed spending time at home with his family and pets. He was an excellent cook and enjoyed grilling for his family and friends. A devoted father, Paul attended many horse shows and dance competitions to support his daughters, and the family always had annual vacations. He enjoyed his annual fishing trip to Canada with his buddies, and he loved telling stories with a good cigar and a glass of Jack. Paul’s passion was working on his ancestry and watching Fox news – Trump 2020.
He will be greatly missed by his wife of 26 years, Brenda; his daughters, Emily and Grace; his mother, Margaret Stout; sister, Nancy (Eddie) Myers; nephew, Matthew Myers; and a host of extended family members and dear friends. Paul was preceded in death by his dad, Ned Delano Stout; and uncle, William Meister.
The family thanks Paul’s oncologist Dr. Mo, Michele, and the entire staff of the University of Iowa hospital for their amazing care of Paul and the entire family.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be directed to the family for distribution to Paul’s favorite charities. Condolences at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
Kathy P McDole
10/14/2019
I was so saddened to hear of Pauls' passing. I started at PCSO in 1990 and I first met him when he would bring prisoners in. I adored and admired Paul so much. When I went to the street we would run in to each other often. I am so sorry I didn't know he had been sick. My thoughts and prayers are with not only you, his family, but with the entire DMPD. We all have lost a great friend and family member!!!
Joe Emberlin
10/14/2019
I'm sorry to hear of Paul's passing. He was an incredible role model and mentor.
Steven Kuntz
10/14/2019
Brenda and Nancy, sorry to hear about Paul. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Tom and Dian Gunderman
10/13/2019
Our deepest sympathies to you all during this difficult time. We are honored to have met Paul on several occasions, he was a great man. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you.
Rich DeJoode
10/13/2019
Paul was a great Commander, a great officer and more so a dear friend and mentor. He will be truly missed.
Dave Brown
10/13/2019
There are not many people who can work with in an organization such as the Des Moines Police Department and not find yourself at odds with at least one person from time to time. Paul was an exception to that rule. Paul was congenial to all who new him. He was extremely skilled in the career that called him to become a police officer. Officers throughout the department relied on his skill and wisdom. That was reflected by his attained rank of Captain and being in charge of the Des Moines Police Academy. I know his family is proud of his accomplishments, as are all his friends who worked with him. We will all miss him.
Dave Brown (retired DMPD)
Bill McCarthy
10/13/2019
Paul was always a confident professional but modest in everything he did. Sorry to read of his passing.
Felipe Teniente
10/13/2019
My condolences to the family and military family who lost a great person. I had the pleasure of serving with him.
Chris Mahlstadt
10/12/2019
What a great person and officer. Prayers for the family.
Kelly Garoutte
10/12/2019
I'm so sorry for the loss of Paul. He will be remembered forever as a great person and as a respected Officer.
Dave Dearinger
10/12/2019
Such a super great guy. He'll be missed. Prayers for the family.
JuliePayne
10/12/2019
Brenda, Emily and Grace....we are so sad to hear of Pauls passing. Will send you all strength and prayers during this difficult time for each of you.
?? The Paynes