Joyce Downing
September 09, 2019
Joyce Downing, 84, died after a four-month journey with lung cancer. Born in Winnipeg, Ontario, Joyce finished nursing school at Harper Hospital in 1956. She earned a degree and found a husband and life partner in Wendell Downing, a colo-rectal surgeon. They spent two years in England while Wendell practiced at an Air Force base hospital. After returning to the US, they lived in Minneapolis and Grand Rapids, MI while Wendell finished his residency and specialty training. They moved to Des Moines in 1965 and created a home here.
As a thrifty Scot, Joyce would not want to waste money on an obituary. In brief, she offered these values to the family she so loved--curiosity for others and the world, a strong sense of beauty, and a willingness to be present in the lives of those she cared about. The details that illuminate her impact are too numerous to share.
Joyce is survived by her husband of 64 years, Wendell Downing; and her two daughters, Jill and Karen (Jeff Marks). She had one beloved grandchild, Hannah, who will continue to wear her nanny’s vintage clothes in years to come.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be directed to Planned Parenthood and Plymouth Church, two places that brought her such joy as a volunteer.
The family extends immense gratitude to Dr. Tom Buroker and the nursing staff on Powell Three.
A celebration of Joyce’s life will be held at Hamilton’s on Westown Parkway, 3601 Westown Parkway, West Des Moines on Saturday, September 28, 2019 at 10:30 a.m.
Online condolences may be expressed at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
Edith Bavender Lemke
01/13/2020
Dear Wen, In reading DesMoines news I noted your wife Joyce recently died. Having lost my husband a few years ago I send you my sincere sympathy for your loss and pain___I can only assure the sun will shine again. Most sincerely, Edy Lemke Grand Rapids, MI
Michael and Lynn Clement
09/18/2019
Dear Jill, Karen and Wen,
Words cannot express the sorrow Im feeling. You all always made me feel like I was part of the family. All our special talks before work are such treasured memories, Joyce taught me so much about Family.
Love you all with all our sympathy,
Michael and Lynn
Tom McDonald
09/17/2019
To Doctor Downing, Jill, Karen, spouses, and kids, so sorry to hear of Joyces passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you. My memories of her remain profound. I miss all you guys and pray for peace in your lives.
Tom McDonald and family!
Carol McDonald
09/17/2019
Dear Dr. Downing, Karen and Jill:
Joyce, or Mrs. Downing (what I always called her) was like a second mother to me when I was a child. I have never forgotten the good times our families shared together. Sending love and prayers from South Dakota, Carol
Robert Cooper
09/17/2019
Aunt Joyce was always an inspiration to us, especially when we she and our Uncle Wen came to visit our family as we were growing up. She was kind, beautiful, energetic, curious, caring and loved life. The positive memories of her and her life with our Uncle Wen uplifted our own lives and gave us a wonderful example of what a loving relationship can be. May her spirit be in a place of peace and joy. Our thoughts and prayers are with Wen, Jill, Karen, Jeff and Hannah.- Robert and Leslie Cooper, David Cooper, Mary Cooper Martinez
Robin Kline
09/16/2019
Dear Karen, Jill and Dr. Downing: I will miss seeing Joyce drive around the neighborhood in her Volvo. I was always cheered to spy her zipping about, from the Farmer's Market or Fareway, with the US flag flying proudly in the breeze. And I have enjoyed knowing Joyce through her daughter, Karen. Love, care and prayer hold you all. With tender care, Robin
Chris Blair
09/16/2019
With deepest sympathy. Hoping you find peace in wonderful memories.
Sue Copple
09/15/2019
Such a great neighbor and nice person. I always smiled when I saw her driving her silver Volvo with its American Flag flapping in the wind. Rest well Joyce - and our thoughts are with Wendell and the rest of the family.
Lynn Rankin
09/14/2019
Dear Jill, Karen and family members,
Thinking of you and hoping that
happy memories of a life well lived will help to sustain you.
Paulette Ihrig
09/13/2019
My deepest sympathy, Jill. Prayers to you and your family.