Lois (Ashburn) Carmichael
August 26, 2019
Lois Marie (Ashburn) Carmichael passed away peacefully surrounded by loving family on Monday, August 26, 2019 at the age of 81. Lois was born October 1, 1937 to devoted parents Velva (Elston) and Monroe Ashburn in Lamoni, IA.
She graduated from Lamoni High School in 1956, then set out to find a career as an independent working woman. Lois had a heart for connecting with others and easily fell into the communications industry where she spent 60 years in various roles touching and uplifting everyone around her.
Lois was kind and welcoming to every person she encountered and never met a stranger. She had a passion for family values and always had an open home for friends and family. Her iconic fudge, peanut brittle and margaritas were always the hit of the party (and so was she) - always keeping those around her laughing.
Lois was always up for an adventure. She was an avid billiards player for numerous years and collected many tournament and championship trophies. She would never shy away from a chance to sing karaoke and you could count on her bright green hair each St. Patrick’s Day. Lois enjoyed the thrill of bungee jumping well into her sixties.
She will be remembered for her beautiful smile, sassy wit and joyful spirit. Survivors include: daughter Karla (Don) Coe, son Jerry Ashburn, step-son Jack Carmichael; brothers Bert (Kathy) Ashburn and Richard Ashburn; sisters Wilma Derick and Melba (Dwayne) Smith; sister-in-law Vicki Ashburn and brother-in-law Chick (Pat) Carmichael; grandchildren Felicia, Valerie, Brian, Ryan, Kelsey, Dylan and Gunner; 10 great-grandchildren and a host of nieces, nephews and other relatives.
Preceding Lois in death besides her parents were: sons Oscar Gile Jr and Keith Testerman; husbands Oscar Gile Sr and Don Carmichael; brothers Leonard Ashburn and James Ashburn; infant sister Ellen Ashburn and brother-in-law Elbert Derick Sr.
Funeral services will be held at 10:00 a.m. on Saturday, August 31, 2019, at Hamilton’s near Highland Memory Gardens, 121 NW 60th Avenue in Des Moines. The family will receive visitors Friday evening at the funeral home from 4-7 p.m.
In lieu of flowers or donations, we ask that you hug, call or take a walk with a loved one – time waits for no one.
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Julie Hess
08/31/2019
Lois was a kind amazing woman. Still is. Loved working at the bar with her and getting a drink made by her when not working. She always made you smile and laugh. Great pool player and would always pick her as pool partner if someone else didnt pick her first. She always did for others no questions asked. She was stern when she needed to be and even though you didnt like it at the time you respected her and then realized she was doing it for your own good. Lois you will be so missed tell my grandma mom Aunt Lola and Cousin Tessy we love and miss them too. RIP Sweet and Beautiful Lady
Jenna Petersen
08/30/2019
Lois, she was such a sweet woman. Whenever I saw her, she always had her cup of coffee. She was always very kind to me when I came into work early in the morning.
Susie Patton
08/29/2019
Lois, She will be truly missed no more pain for her she is in a better place now so family stay strong and keep the faith she not gone she will always be with you in your heart Weeping may endure for a night but Joy comes in the morning Family stay together and lift each other up you all are in my Prayers.
Sandra
08/29/2019
Lois
A solid Rock to of known.
To all of Her Kids , Grandkids and more Family , How Blessed you were to have Her .
May Father Hold All Her Loved Ones and Friends thru this Time.
Very Saddened for Your Loss of such a Beautiful Soul.
Soar with the Angel's Lois
Karen Onken
08/29/2019
Fudge, peanut brittle, pumpkin pie blizzards - all so many things I will remember but most of all her friendship, our talks and all the good times we have shared while working together. Lois will always be with us in our memories. Farewell friend - you will be missed.
Kimberly Burnett Hanssen
08/28/2019
There just arent the words to sum up what you meant to me, what your impact was on so many people. You are loved and missed.
De Etta Cameron
08/28/2019
You made me feel comfortable working with you...You made me feel welcomed by the things you do. And now that your on your way home...I will truly miss you and will feel all alone...Prayers to the Family