Victoria Gabrys Christian
August 18, 2019
Victoria Christian
Victoria Josephine Gabrys Christian, 75, died on August 18th at Union Park Health Services after a long illness.
Victoria was born in Berwick, Pennsylvania on December 9th, 1943 to Joseph and Victoria Gabrys. She was proud of her Polish heritage. Her blue eyes, fair skin, sense of humor and her welcoming manner were precious to her.
Victoria was an educator; she loved learning. She attended Madonna College to earn a degree and teaching certification. She went on to earn her Masters degree at the University of Detroit. She taught talented and gifted students in schools in Detroit and North Carolina and then taught humanities at the college level in North Carolina and Georgia. Her last teaching position was at Holy Trinity on Beaver Avenue in Des Moines, where she worked for twenty years.
Whilst at Sacred Heart College in Belmont, North Carolina she met the love of her life, Ralph Christian. They dated very briefly before Ralph proposed marriage. Victoria and Ralph were married in August, 1968 and were married for fifty one years.
Victoria’s boys were an important part of her life. Her boys began as exchange students, but became lifelong friends. The boys lived in Victoria and Ralph’s home, while attending school. She loved it when they called her Mom. Jose was from Mexico; Konrad from Poland, Key from Mexico, Marcin from Poland, Matt from Poland, Mauricio from Ecuador and Zbyszek aka Z Man was from Poland.
Recently, Victoria said, “I don’t regret any of my life. It has been so full and the Lord has been good to me I have been so blessed with Ralph.”
She is survived by her loving husband of 51 years plus, Ralph J. Christian; foreign exchange students who were like children to her, Jose Esquer, Key Fujimura, Konrad Malendowicz, Mauricio Palomeque, Marcin Bania, Matt Schmidt and Zbigniew Bania; and aunts, Josephine, Sophie, Mary Ann and Michelle.
Victoria was preceded in death by her parents.
Victoria’s life will be celebrated at Hamilton’s Funeral Home at 11:00 a.m., Friday, August 23, 2019. A memorial service will be held at Union Park Health Services at a later date.
Condolences may be expressed at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com
Jose Maria Esquer
08/23/2019
What can I say that you do not know already Ralph. Looking forward to spend as much time together as possible in the future. There have been church services for Victoria here in my city. What a blessing for both of you to have met and written this love story. Gracias por permitirme ser parte de esta historia en nuestras vidas. Mi más sentido pésame. Descanse en paz.
Jerome Thompson
08/23/2019
Ralph, I was saddened to receive the news about Victoria from Paula earlier this week. Fifty-one years is a long time to join another but you had that time to make great memories. Please know that my best wishes are with you at this difficult time.
Jerome
Jola & Andrzej Schmidt
08/22/2019
Dear Ralph, we are with you with all our hearts in these difficult moments. We have always thought about you with great love and respect. You were wonderful parents to our then-teenage son Mat. We will miss Victoria's wonderful letters. May she rest in peace. Jola & Andrzej Schmidt
Isabelle Abarr
08/22/2019
Dear Ralph, I'm so very sorry to hear of Victoria's passing. It was so wonderful to get acquainted with the two of you when we were working so hard to give life to the River Bend Association. When she was president during the second year of our existence and I was secretary, she and I worked closely together and became good friends. I have missed seeing her for several years now. I had no idea that her health was not so good. Ralph, I think that you were a very lucky man to have her as your partner! God bless you and I'll keep you in my prayers. Much love.
Leslie
08/21/2019
My deepest condolences for the family. Death is something painful and no one wants to deal with it, but it does happen. Jehovah God knows how hard it can be for us and that's why he has provided his word the Bible to comfort us. Just take a look at a comforting thought from the Bible that I would like to share with you: ''Praised be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of tender mercies and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our trials so that we may be able to comfort others in any sort of trial with the comfort that we receive from God.'' (2 Corinthians 1: 3, 4). Jehovah God assures us that he wants to comfort us during this difficult time. How comforting! May the comfort Jehovah God offers help you during this time.
Michelle Kelsey
08/20/2019
Victoria was a very special lady to all of us at Union Park Health Services. She was such a joy and always had a kind word for everyone. We are thinking of you Ralph. Please let us know if you need anything, our condolences.
georgia binns
08/20/2019
victoria was my best friend here at union park, i am going to miss her a lot, i always called her my picture critic when i got done coloring them, she is going to be missed here at the nursing home. and i know her husband Ralph will miss her too.