Bernard Wayne Gottner
July 30, 2019
Bernard Wayne Gottner, 86, passed away peacefully on July 30, 2019 after a long life. He was born in Des Moines, IA to Waldo Edward Gottner and Clara I. (Mathen) Gottner where he grew up.
He graduated with honors from Dowling High School and was a graduate of Loras College in Dubuque, IA. He continued his education at Mount St. Bernard’s Seminary in Dubuque for the next four years and was ordained in 1959 by Bishop Edward C. Daley. He spent two years at North American College in Rome studying Canon Law. He was honored to be introduced to Pope (now Saint) John XXIII.
He was a Catholic Priest for 34 years. He taught at Dowling for four years, then served as Associate Pastor at St. Augustine and St. Ambrose Cathedral. He was Co-Pastor and then Pastor of Holy Trinity in Des Moines from 1969 to 1978. While serving at Holy Trinity, they began inaugurating the changes promulgated by the 2nd Vatican Council, including team ministry and women in ministry. According to Bernie, “these changes were welcomed by many and resisted by some.” He spent a one-year sabbatical at Seattle University where he studied and taught team ministry.
Bernie served for 7 years as Pastor at St Mary’s parish in Shenandoah, IA with involvement in SW Iowa Parishes United and 7 years as Pastor at Sacred Heart in Chariton with involvement in South Central Iowa Parishes United.
In 1993, he received a dispensation from the Clerical State. This was followed by five years employment with Employee & Family Resources. In 1999, he became Spiritual Care Coordinator at Mercy Hospice where he served for 14 years.
In August, 1994, he married Eileen Burtle at St. Ambrose Cathedral. Bernie and Eileen loved to travel; they went on five cruises and traveled through Europe, Scandinavia and into Russia. He enjoyed golf but admitted he was not very good.
Bernie is survived by his wife, Eileen; sister, Mary Jane Polich; and his adopted grandchildren; Mike (Richelle) Nguyen, Tim (Angel) Nguyen and Linda (Jeremy McGuire) Nguyen; and great-grandchildren, Thomas, Rachel and Arya. He was preceded in death by his parents and brothers, Bill, Ray, Don and Jerry.
The funeral Mass will be held Monday, August 5 at 10:30 a.m. at Holy Trinity Catholic Church with visitation Sunday afternoon, August 4 from 3 to 5 p.m. also at the church.
Memorial contributions may be directed to the family for distribution to Bernie’s favorite charities. Condolences may be expressed at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
Cathy Talarico, CHM
08/04/2019
Eileen and family, Ive so many memories of Bernie, especially at HT.
I know Rosie, his second mom, was overjoyed to greet him.
Am sure JoAnne was on the welcoming committee as well.
You are surrounded by so many people who love you as they did Bernie.
Know that you are held in thought and prayer.
Love,
Cathy T
Jim Huston
08/02/2019
Bernie was a good buddy many years ago. He will be missed.
Jeanie Tiedt - Pulm Rehab
08/01/2019
Bernie will be greatly missed by us all. We have enjoyed knowing Bernie through the years, a good man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Pulmonary Rehab/Mercy Medical Ctr.
Kathi Sircy
07/31/2019
We got to know Bernie at Des Moines Intentional Eucharistic Community along with Eileen. He always had a wide smile and a generously strong hug each time we met.
He was a man of deep faith who shared it with us graciously. We will miss him very much.
Lou Ann Burkle
07/31/2019
Bernie lived a full and fulfilling life, and how wonderful that you could enjoy so many years together. Joe and I are with you in thoughts and prayers. Love,
mary carey
07/31/2019
I loved Bernie just like we all did.
Such a great man to have done so many wonderful things. My prayers and as many blessings as can be found.
Love You!