John Schaffer
June 16, 2019
John Schaffer, 42, died peacefully June 16, 2019, with loved ones by his bedside. Born 10 weeks premature on December 31, 1976, John spent the first 6 months of his life in Blank NICU. He attended Smouse and Ruby Van Meter schools. John lived with his parents until age 21, then moved to a Mosaic of Central Iowa group home, where he happily resided until his death.
John loved attending Camp Sunnyside and Special Olympics. He especially enjoyed the freedom from his wheelchair while swimming and horseback riding. His absolute favorite thing was listening to music for hours on end. He loved to tease and be teased, keep track of who was in his house and what they were doing, and “request” attention from staff. He was a social, loving, and joyful guy, with a greeting and a smile for everyone.
John is survived by his mother, Sharon Hill (Larry Watkins); father, Richard Schaffer; brothers, Ryan Schaffer and Cameron Schaffer (Sarah); sister, Robyn MacMillan (Dave); 1 niece and 3 nephews.
The family will host a “Celebration of John’s Legacy” Open House, from 1:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m. Sunday, June 23, at Eastview Community Center, 4104 E 42nd St in Des Moines. A private family burial of John’s cremains will be held at a later date at Elm Grove Cemetery in Des Moines.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorial contributions be made to Mosaic of Central Iowa (https://www.mosaicinfo.org/donate-to-location/?location=Central+Iowa&form=6582), for the many years of love and care given to John. They loved him and cared for him as if he were their own family member.
Online condolences may be expressed at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
Marie Franzenburg
06/24/2019
Dear Sharon,
I'm so sorry to hear about John. I remember you talking about him and I remember meeting him once or twice. He was always smiling.
Sincerely,
Marie
Pete Rounds
06/24/2019
God Bless you all, Dick and family.
It was an honor to work with you.
Heaven now has another smiling face.
Marcella betts
06/23/2019
So sorry to see your brothers passing in the paper. Didnt realize until Larry told me. He is in gods loving arms now. I know he will be missed greatly by all who loved him.
Fran Ganoe
06/23/2019
John's smile and laughter filled our classroom with sunshine. He was a happy student who "gave his all" when completing tasks. He kept track of other students, staff, the time and schedule. Thank you for sharing your fantastic, loving son with me. He touched my life forever.
Jo Richards
06/21/2019
Sharon, heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Erika talked about John so often at RVM that I knew he was someone special. I especially enjoyed hearing your stories and insight at the Mosaic parent meetings. I know he will be missed.
Dagny Fidler
06/21/2019
I have very fond memories of John when I was the vice principal at Smouse and later at Ruby Van Meter. He was always a cheery soul. He lightened a room and gave much to all in each classroom he was in. My thoughts are with you at this time.
Linda K Carter
06/21/2019
I was part of Johns life all those years ago in the NICU! John will always be in the hearts of those of us that cared for him...and his family.
We always remember.
(Hugs from Linda K Smith RN)
Traci Hornback
06/20/2019
Thinking of you all. I didnt know John well, but every time I saw him he was smiling. I know he was a blessing to you all and will be greatly missed.
Michele Swessinger
06/20/2019
John was the bright spot in my mornings. We would always talk and turn up the music really loud so the whole house could hear. He would laugh. My condolences to your family.
Evelyn Briggs
06/20/2019
To Sharon and Dick, I had not seen John for many years but will always remember the joy that he brought with his smile and laughter!
Bob and Vicki Bertagnolli
06/19/2019
Sharon, Dick and family....We wanted to let you know we are thinking of you all and praying for you to get through this time. John is probably running and jumping all around having the time of his life. God definitely got a special angel last Sunday. Sending hugs to you as we can not be there on Sunday. Take care
Chad Mullenberg
06/19/2019
The happiest man I ever got to know, the room was always bright when you walked in and said hello John. He will be truly missed.