Kasey W. Kincaid
April 10, 2019
Kasey William Kincaid, 63, passed away suddenly on Wednesday, April 10, 2019, in Des Moines. A memorial service will be held Saturday, April 27, at 10 a.m. at Hamilton’s on Westown Parkway in West Des Moines.
Kasey was born May 24, 1955, in Waverly, Iowa, to Grant William Kincaid and Arlene Amanda (Platte) Kincaid.
Kasey earned his Bachelor of Arts degree from Wartburg College and his law degree from Drake University, graduating first in his class. A member of the Order of the Coif, he also served as Notes Editor of the Drake Law Review and as a member of the Moot Court Board.
Kasey was brilliant and self-effacing in his work. He served successive clerkships with judges on the Iowa Supreme Court and the United States Court of Appeals for the Eighth Circuit. In private practice, Kasey was a senior partner in the law firm of Faegre and Benson before moving on to pursue writing.
A proud Democrat, Kasey was passionate about politics throughout his life. He represented Iowa on the National Lawyers Council of the Democratic National Committee and served as Chairman of the Polk County Democratic Party.
In past years, Kasey lectured in law at Drake University, the University of Iowa College of Law, and Washington (St. Louis) University College of Law. He was Assistant Counsel to the Committee on Professional Ethics and Conduct of the Iowa State Bar Association and was a frequent speaker at continuing legal education seminars. Writing extensively on legal issues, Kasey co-authored the first edition of Iowa Practice: Evidence, the West Publishing treatise on Iowa evidence law and practice, as well as outlines on Iowa libel and privacy law and law review articles.
Kasey is survived by siblings, Kathryn D’Amico, Rev. Dr Kristian (Jennifer) Kincaid, and Karyl (Tony) Kincaid Noel; daughters, Jodi Kincaid and Natalie (Corey) Cason; grandchildren, Kaeli Kincaid, Kian, and Cassidy Cason; nieces, Kristen D’Ambrosio, Alyssa Sackett, and Emily Kincaid; and nephews Joshua, Nicholas, and Zachary D’Amico, Nathanial and Samuel Noel, and Grant, Greyson, and Gregor Kincaid.
Kasey was preceded in death by his parents; his sister, Karen Ann Kincaid on September 11, 2001; and brother-in-law, Peter A Batacan, and brother-in-law, Carmen Anthony “Tony” D’Amico.
Kasey adored his cats and would be honored with memorials to the Animal Rescue League of Iowa.
Always the “life of the party”, Kasey was quick with wit and a plethora of humorous narratives. In his life, he looked to make the world a better place. He embraced all people. He had the ability to strike up a conversation with anyone about anything, was intellectually gifted, talented, and downright fun. The avid reader and writer, there wasn’t a book that wasn’t lovingly held or a writing pad without thoughtful notes. We might say his heart, filled with love and compassion, simply gave out on a brisk and windy afternoon in April. He will be missed in so many ways.
Sam Adams
04/03/2023
I met Kasey when we were both students at Wartburg and tending bar at the Waverly Country Club. I was a veteran, so a few years older than him. Even though we didn't run in the same circles, we became friends. I have thought of him often and lost track of him. I know it has been four years, but if you see this know that an old friend and fellow Knight sends his condolences to the family of a great guy.
Barbara Clare
01/08/2023
I think about Kasey often, even today. If a member of the family would like to talk to me about my memories with him, I would love to share.
Susan Thompson
10/09/2021
Dear Kasey, I miss you. 🙋♀
Roberta Brink
04/29/2019
I was shocked and saddened to hear of Kasey's passing. What a gentleman and a joy to be around! His wit and infectious smile will never be forgotten. My sincere thoughts and prayers to his family.
David and Kathy Worthington
04/27/2019
Our sincere condolences and deepest sympathies.
The Worthington Family
Helen K
04/25/2019
Natalie, I just want to let you know that I have you and your family in my prayers. Losing a parent is very difficult but know that they are always in your heart. Sending you hugs and love.
Gary Porter
04/22/2019
I am saddened to learn of Kasey's (Otto's) death. We shared many great times at Wartburg as well as after we graduated and he meant a great deal to me. I will miss his friendship but remember him always. Rest in peace my friend.
Michael Fitzgerald
04/22/2019
Kasey was a good decent man. My sympathies are with his family.
Margaret Porter
04/22/2019
My heart is broken hearing of the passing of Kasey. Kasey, Otto, was such a great, loving, and caring friend. There were so many great times and laughs. I will never forget him. I send my thoughts and prayers to his family who is grieving this loss. Kasey will always be in my heart.
Ann Bottelson Magallón Morris
04/21/2019
My heart and prayers are with Kasey's family and loved ones. I also have been friends with Kasey since Wartburg College. After moving to Des Moines, we reconnected, but after Karen's loss, I lost track of of Kasey. I've been trying to find him only to learn of his loss. Please know that Kasey was funny, admired, a leader, and a man with a heart. God bless him always.
Rose Vasquez and Steve Meyer
04/21/2019
Condolences to the Kincaid family. Kasey was taken way too soon.
Hell be missed.
Jim Merritt
04/21/2019
My condolences to Kaseys family. I attended Wartburg with Kasey. I agree with a previous poster that stated: he was the life of the party. He was also the smartest person at the party. I have a lot of great memories of Kasey.
Mona Bond
04/19/2019
My time with Kasey was a wonderful experience during the Gephardt campaign His heart was in the right place and he was so gracious and kind. I am honored to call him friend.
David Barber
04/19/2019
My condolences to the Kincaid family.
Marcia Nichols
04/18/2019
So proud to have known Kasey! Spent many an afternoon laughing while attending Democratc Party Conventions. His political friends that passed before him will be waiting at the pearly gates to hear about political news. Thanks for being you Kasey Kincaid.