Afton Marie Goheen
December 06, 2008
Afton Marie Goheen, entered into this life on October 7, 2008 and returned to her heavenly Father on December 6, 2008. Her memory will always be treasured by her parents, Simon Goheen and Holly Winter; grandparents, Craig and Michelle Goheen, Dave and Jana Winter; great-grandparents, Richard S. and Carol Thompson, John B. and Louise Goheen, Laura Morgan, Gerald and Joann Winter; aunts, uncles, cousins and church family members. Though she was with us for such a short time, all fell in love with this tiny baby girl. She will be in our hearts forever.
The family will greet friends on Thursday, December 11, 2008 from 5:00 to 7:00 p.m. at Hamilton’s on Westown Parkway, 3601 Westown Parkway, West Des Moines. Private services will be held on Friday with burial to follow at Resthaven Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to her family.
Marilyn & Steve Coleman
12/12/2008
We are so sorry for your loss ... more than words can express! Please know that you are in our thoughts & prayers & call if there is anything we can do to help. In His Love - Colemans
Karen
12/11/2008
This littlest sweetest angel was the biggest brightest beacon.
My Dear Family,
Allow your broken hearts to grieve and mend and take your time to cope with this loss. The beautiful stories that you shared with me will now become precious tender memories. My love and compassion reach far to embrace you each. Allen and I send our deepest heartfelts.
John Vogl Family
12/11/2008
Simon and Holly-
know we are thinking and praying for you at this difficult time.God Bless you and all your family.
John, Mary Jo, Matt and Brandon Vogl
Oakleaf Family
Joe Fultz
12/11/2008
Simon & Holly please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this tough time. I am always here you for you if you need anything. God Bless.
John & Cathie France
12/11/2008
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of this little angel. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. John and Cathie France
The Slaybaughs
12/10/2008
Dear Simon, Holly and family,
We send you our sincere sympathy and are holding you in our prayers. We are so very sorry for your loss. God bless and hold you all at this very difficult time.
Mike, Jean, John & Nadya
Racheal and Michele Bland
12/10/2008
Simon and Holly,
Racheal and I were saddened by the loss of your beautiful Afton. You have been in our thoughts so often in the past few days. Though for only a short time, I'm sure that Afton was a special gift that has given you wonderful memories. Hold those memories close and let them carry you through these times ahead. We all grieve in different ways and it takes love and undertanding to get through these times together with our loved ones, knowing the great love you all have for Afton. You are fortunate to have such great supportive parents in your life. I wish you peace.
Julie & Jon Thompson
12/10/2008
We are deeply saddened by the news of AFton's passing. Our sympathies to Simon and Holly, Michelle and Craig and all her family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Nicki Wells
12/10/2008
Holly and Simon-
Not a day goes by that I have not thought of the both of you. You are in my family's thoughts and prayers. Let us know if you need anything
Love,
Nicki Wells
Schnebergers
12/10/2008
Simon and Holly,
Please accept our condolences on the passing of your daughter. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in these difficult times.
Jim & Pam
12/10/2008
Holly and Simon,
We are so saddened by the loss of your beautiful daughter. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
With love, Jim and Pam
Mick Blubaugh
12/09/2008
Simon & Holly,
I would like to offer my deepest sympathy to both of you and your families, for the loss of your beloved angel, Afton. I enjoyed, with various friends, watching your eyes light up Simon, when you shared Afton's photo's with all of us, as she brought smiles and joy into you and Holly's lives, and also with all of us; your friends and extended friends. May God bless her soul, and be with each of you during this terribly difficult time.
Jared Marean & Heidi Hetzler
12/09/2008
Holly & Simon
You are in our thoughts & prayers. Our hearts go out to you & your families. I know that both of you are strong people, but please know that we are here for you. God bless
Love,
Jared Marean & Heidi Hetzler
Jeff & Lori Coleman
12/09/2008
Our hearts go out to you two and your families. The rest of us in your 'extended family' are here for you, anything you need.
Marilyn Brandt
12/09/2008
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To the Afton Goheen Family;
Your friends and co-workers grieve your loss with care, concern and love for the both of you and your families. Let us help where and when we can, to make the grieving process be one that allows you two,to effectively cope with this great loss. Never be afraid to talk about Afton. We are all HERE and we all CARE and support you in any way we are able!
As parents holding a sweet smelling new born,we never expect that we may not get a life-time with them, nor see that twinkle in their eye when they recognize us or worse...be presented with a time like this when we must kiss them our last good-byes. Right now it's hard for any of us to believe in anything..but know that in time, the "whys" do subside and through grieving and sharing your loss, acceptance will take place. Allow yourselves to reach out to family and friends who share your loss, and for support through the difficult weeks and months ahead! The one important memory you have to hold on to... is how sweet Afton smelled after a bath, all snuggled warmly in her blanket and ever so safe in your loving arms and those momentous times you were allowed to share in her ever so short life. Cherish those memories, they will help fill a void in your heart in the months to come.
As a parent of two sons, I can only imagine your devastation and heartache. By losing a father,I discovered that the need to talk about the loss is overwhelmingly important..and it is necessary in order for one to heal the pain. Know that your friends, co-workers and customers are there for you and NEVER hesitate to share a sweet memory with them...that's how we all learn to cope with a loss.
You are in our thoughts and prayers today and also in all the tomorrows to come!
Sending our love and sympathy,
Marilyn, Matt and Brian Brandt