Trinca James
August 14, 2018
This is for my mom, Trinca. My name is Jack James, I am her 13 year old son. To me it really doesn’t matter where she was born or what college she went to and at my age it didn’t matter much where she went everyday for work. She would kiss me hello, good morning everyday, and kiss me good night every night. I will never get her hugs and kisses again and it hurts my heart so bad. My mom has the prettiest name I have heard and I doubt I will ever meet another Trinca. She is that mom who other people would love to be around - happy, laughing and a very funny lady. My dad would tell me that at times her filter was not working. (I never did understand that.) I went to see my mom everyday for three weeks in the hospital. The doctors said she was in a coma. I would talk to her as if she was wide awake. I would play her favorite songs from the 80s, hold her hand, and sing and dance so she would know I was with her and not be scared. My last words to her were, "I love you mom," as I kissed her forehead and told her I will make her proud. Go to sleep now mom, go to sleep. God Bless America, Jack James.
Trinca is survived by her parents, Terry and Tracy Kinnetz; brother, Trever Kinnetz; sisters, Toni Wulf and Tasha Kinnetz; husband, Jeff James; and son, Jack James.
Celebration of Trinca’s Life will be held at Iowa Great Lakes Masonic Temple, 3740 Aurora Avenue, Spirit Lake, IA, 51360 on Saturday, August 25th from 2:00 to 6:00 p.m.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be directed to Trinca’s Memorial Fund at any Central Bank location in Iowa.
Julie Kaplan
08/23/2018
Jack, I just read your loving tribute to your mom in the Sioux City Journal. Although I did not have the pleasure of knowing her, I felt I did because of your words. You will continue to make your mom proud, no doubt. Please accept my deepest sympathy.
Jones
08/22/2018
Our condolences and prayers are with the James Family. So sorry for your loss of such a dear love one so soon. We are so touched by the words of this courageous young one and very sorry he has to endure this loss. Your heartfelt expressions show just how proud your mother will be of your accomplishments. For some comfort we would like to share with you what a family shared with us that was so beneficial and refreshing. As you grow and come to a clearer accurate understanding of Gods word (John 17:3) you will find comfort in its passages such as Isaiah 25:8, Revelation 21:4 and jw .org. Where our creator promises to end death forever and reunite us with our love ones again in the near future. As you become a regular student of the Bible you will see that you can have the hope of again having hugs and kisses with mom.
Sincerely, Tony&Nita
Stephanie Arvidson
08/20/2018
Jeff and Jack,
Thinking of you guys,
Im sorry for your loss.
Jack, your Mom is so proud of you. She would love everything you wrote about her. She will always be watching over you both.
Stephanie
Heather Thorinson Jensen
08/18/2018
My sympathy to Trinca's family
Deb Onnen
08/17/2018
Jeff and Jack, I am so sorry for your loss! Jack your tribute to your Mother was incredible! She is smiling down from Heaven thinking about how much you love her. She got her wings and will proudly be your Guardian Angel! Stay strong and you and your Dad will make her very proud! God Bless America!!
Michael Novak
08/17/2018
Jack,
You honored your mom in such a beautiful way and I know that you will continue to grow to be a man that she will forever be proud of. You are to fortunate to have a father that loves you as much as you mom did. The two of you will conquer this together. God Bless America.