Hellene Snyder
June 22, 2018
Hellene Jean Snyder, 55, passed away peacefully after a sixteen year battle with cancer on June 22, 2018. From her birth on November 16, 1962 in Chicopee, Massachusetts, she was a powerful, strong-willed, and nurturing person. At a young age she was known by her family and friends as a banty rooster, and lived up to her title her whole life. She dedicated 21 years of service to the Des Moines Public Schools, and raised two children. She loved cooking, camping, Christmas, kayaking, and spending time with family. She especially cherished her six grandchildren, who were her world. She was over-the-moon excited for her seventh grandchild who will be born late July. Hellene’s family was her world.
Left to honor and cherish her memory is her husband of twelve years, Gordon Trenhaile; children, Ron (Julie) Cratty and Tiffany (Tim) White; stepdaughter, Morgan (Justin) Lossner; seven grandchildren, Tyler, Bailey, Allison, Macy, Camden, Taylor, and soon to be Treyton; sister Jeanette (Tony) King; brothers, Alvin (Aireen) Snyder and Evan (Kathy) Snyder; mother, Sandra Snyder; and many nieces, nephews, and so many friends. She was preceded in death by her father, Alvin K. Snyder Sr.
Visitation will be held from 5:00 -7:00 p.m. on Wednesday June 27, 2018 at Hamilton's Funeral Home, 605 Lyon Street, Des Moines, Iowa. A graveside service will be held 10:00 a.m., Thursday June 28, 2018 at Laurel Hill Cemetery, Des Moines.
The family would like to extend their gratitude to Dr. Deborah Haines, Dr. Mark Westburg, the doctors and staff at Methodist Medical Center Oncology, and Unity Point Home Hospice for their dedication and care during Hellene’s life and departing.
Memorial contributions can be directed to the family in loving memory of Hellene.
Condolences may be expressed at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
bailey <3
05/11/2022
im here again, im older and i have gotten in a few sticky situations but it's finally hitting me that you're not here. everyday i think about how you wont see me in 4 important dresses in my life, wedding, hospital gown, prom, and graduation. it hurts a lot.
bailey cratty
09/27/2021
grandma i love you so much words could not possibly express. i have changed so much and each time im about to make a choice i think, is this something grandma would be proud of me. you were everything to me i miss going over to your house for holidays and helping prepare for them, i miss the nights we would watch a movie and just sit there and talk. but most importantly, i. miss. you.
Kim
06/27/2018
What a blessing you were, though I have only been with the district a few years I too was blessed to get to know you and share the same oncology family. I am grateful that you are now at peace and pray for the joy and laughter to return to those whose hearts are hurting from the loss of their wife, mother, aunt, sister and friend. God bless them all As they continue their journey without you
Mick and Ellen McFadden
06/27/2018
We are so sorry for you loss. She held on for a long time and will be missed forever more. God is with her and she is so much happier. Prayers for all of the family. God bless you.
Kat
06/26/2018
I love you and gonna miss you !I know your no longer in pain and that you'll be watching over all of us forever and I know your now with Dad,and all of your family members that have patiently been waiting for you .Goodbye for now Kat.
MARY GUTIERREZ
06/25/2018
So sorry to hear of your loss. May GOD's word comfort you during this time of sadness. Isaiah 26:19; Psalms 37:11,29.
JEAN HARRELL
06/25/2018
I LOVE YOU WILL MISS YOU ,WILL MISS OUR PHONE CALLS AND TALKS. REST IN PEACE WITH JESUS.
Dave Chubb
06/24/2018
My heart goes out to her family. I remember her being full of life and very independent, and very stubborn at times! She would tell it like it was and you knew where you stood with her. My sympathies and thoughts and prayers go out to her family.
Kristina
06/24/2018
I miss you Auntie. Rest in peace for you are in no more pain and are with papa.
Anonymous
06/24/2018
Your missed every second of every minute of every hour of every day. People view me as this strong person even in your darkest hour I hid away my tears and sorrow. My heart is hurting. If only I visited you more and spent more time with you when you were here, but I let time slip away again. You'd think I'd learn how precious family really is and not every day is promised. You were an amazing person so kind hearted, caring, and outspokened. My heart feels alittle better knowing the last time I saw you I whispered I love you to you in your ear. I know you heard me and just know you will always be in my heart.
Joylene and Shane
06/24/2018
Rip Aunt HELENE May you Rest in peace. we love you and may you be in our hearts forever
Joylene green
06/24/2018
Rip aunt Helene you Were a Good Aunt with a very special heart you will truly be missed. I Love you