Joyce Bush Whalen
February 20, 2018
Joyce Deanne Bush Whalen, 67, died on February 20, 2018 at her home in Kissimmee, Florida. Joyce was born August 28, 1950 in Windom, Minnesota to Hertha (Timm) and Addis Bush. She grew up in Lake Park, Iowa and graduated from Harris-Lake Park in 1968. Joyce was always proud to tell others about the early Iowa girls' athletic program since few states at that time had equal programs for girls and boys. Joyce received her undergraduate degree in Physical Education at the University of Iowa in 1972 and a Master's Degree as a media specialist from the University of Northern Iowa in 2004. She taught in Jesup, Iowa and then joined the Peace Corps in 1974 and taught in Arica, Chile. She returned to the USA and taught and coached in Heron Lake, Minnesota where she met her husband of 39 years, Ralph Whalen.
Joyce and Ralph taught at the Riyadh International Community School, in Saudi Arabia from 1979-82 and returned to the USA where their children, Ryah and Jacob, were born. They returned overseas in 1989 to teach at Taipei American School in Taiwan for 24 years and International School Bangkok in Thailand for two years. Joyce retired from teaching in 2008 when she battled her first bout of cancer.
Joyce, Ralph and their kids loved to travel and explore the world. Hosting many friends in their home for dinners and parties was an important part of their family life, which created a second "family" for those so far away from home. Joyce most enjoyed being a mom and creating family traditions and memories. Many will remember her hearty laugh. A lifelong hobby was quilting.
She is survived by her husband, Ralph Whalen; daughter, Ryah (Max de Groen) Whalen of Boston; son, Jacob (Allison) Whalen of Chicago; grandchildren, Madeleine Joyce de Groen, Anton de Groen, and Archer Whalen; five siblings, Robert (Patricia) Bush of N. Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, Judith Burns of Montevideo, Minnesota, Warren (Linda) Bush of Wall Lake, Iowa, Richard Bush of Columbia, Missouri and Janell Bush of Tomah, Wisconsin; 36 nieces and nephews; 30 great nieces and nephews and many in-laws and friends from the USA and around the world. She was preceded in death by her parents and brother, Bruce (Janice) Bush.
There will be three Celebrations of Life for Joyce: Saturday, April 21 at 10 AM at The Palms, 1055 San Clemente Ave. in Solivita, Poinciana, Florida; Sunday, April 29 at 2 PM at the LS Library, Taipei American School in Taipei, Taiwan and Saturday, June 16 at 10 AM at Hamilton’s on Westown Parkway, 3601 Westown Parkway in West Des Moines, Iowa.
Those who would like to write a story about Joyce to be included in a book for her grandchildren should email Ralph Whalen at bushwhalen@hotmail.com.
Memorial contributions in Joyce's memory can be made payable to Mayo Clinic and sent to Department of Development, Attention: Pediatric Proton Therapy Program Mayo Clinic, 200 First Street SW, Rochester, MN 55905. Condolences may be expressed online at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
Myrna Prange
06/03/2018
God gained an angel, when Joyce passed from this world. She was a true athlete in all respects. May she Rest In Peace until we meet again.
Myrna Prange
Gwen Sontag Kraft
03/31/2018
Ralph and family Im so sorry to hear about Joyce.
Joyce was the volleyball coach in Heron Lake when I knew her. She was a wonderful coach and caring soul. In between my junior and senior year in high school I went with a classmate to visit California. Joyce had recently moved there and we connected up in Los Angeles. What a great day we had starting with the beach and ending that evening at a Natalie Cole concert.
I also remember going to your wedding Ralph. I can still picture her holding hands with you outside the church; smile beaming brighter than ever. When I briefly talked to her that day she just said you will have this someday too. She was so incredibly happy.
I wish our paths had crossed again over the years but sadly they didnt.
From everything I read in her obituary her course in life continued on with many wonderful things.
Sounds like her vibrant caring personality, bright eyes, trademark dimples, smile and laugh have intertwined in many lives and left you with many wonderful memories.
Jim & Patti Schneider
03/14/2018
Dear Ralf and Family so sorry for your loss. You have wonder memories of you life together and all the things you accomplished to make a difference in many lives.
We have wonderful memories of your time here in Okabena and Heron Lake.
Take care
Jim & Patti Schneider
Linda Dawson
03/14/2018
Dear Ralph and Family,
So sorry to hear about Joyce! Brought back so many memories of when you and I taught in Okabena and Joyce taught in Heron Lake! You two were meant for each other! May the wonderful memories of your lives together be in your heart forever. My sympathy to you all.
genny hanson
03/08/2018
so sorry for your loss----sometimes there are no words! RIP Joyce.
Gene Tesmer
03/06/2018
So sorry to hear of your loss. I wish you all the best.
Juan Fontecilla
03/05/2018
My heartfelt condolences to Ralph and his family, my friend and 1970 class mate at HHS. Im so blessed to have known them. A big hug to you
Mary Reyes
03/04/2018
Our family had the privilege of knowing Ralph and Joyce while they lived here in Taipei, Taiwan. We were grateful recipients of their warm hospitality. I was so inspired by Joyce's amazing quilts! I also enjoyed viewing their collection of cherished Christmas decorations and the framed photos from their family's travels while hearing wonderful stories about their traditions. As expats, we've seen many people come and go--few have left such an impression on me as Ralph and Joyce. She was an unforgettable role model of creating loving relationships, making the most of life and (that quality we're in such need of these days) grit. I'm blessed to have know her. I send my heartfelt condolences to Ralph and the family as you support each other, grieve, and celebrate her life together.
Ellen Foley
03/04/2018
Joyce had 9 lives and she lived each one of them to the max. I worked closely with she and Ralph from 2003-09 and always felt their powerful dedication to each other.
We deeply admired the active ways Joyce did so much good for students, friends, and community members, even when not feeling 100%.
She had a memorable laugh, and no trouble expressing her honest thoughts in large or small groups. Thanks for that, Joyce.
Sincere sympathy to you, Ralph, Jake, Ryah and family.
Ellen and Jack