Mary Farley
February 04, 2018
Mary Farley
Ankeny, Iowa
Mary McLaughlin Farley, 69, wife of Michael Farley of Ankeny, IA, passed away on February 4th, 2018 at Iowa Methodist Medical Center in Des Moines, Iowa after a yearlong battle with cancer. Born on November 5th, 1948, she was the second child of James and Myrna McLaughlin of Monticello, Iowa, the town in which she was raised.
Mary graduated from Monticello High School in eastern Iowa. She received an Associate degree from Cottey College, in Nevada, Missouri, a two-year international women’s college. Mary attended the University of Northern Iowa, later continuing her education at Drake University, where she received a Bachelor’s degree in Business.
Mary was an accomplished businesswoman who owned and operated two successful businesses during her career. In 1981, she opened Mary’s Waterbeds in Ames, Iowa, and operated that business until she sold it in 1989. In September 2001, Mary opened a kitchen design business, Builder's Cabinet Design, and operated that business until 2015 when she sold the business in transition to retirement.
Mary enjoyed spending time with her family and friends, and entertaining guests at their lake house. Her cherished memories include pontoon boat rides on the lake and watching grandchildren play in the yard and fish off the dock. It was always a special time around the campfire visiting with family and lake friends.
Mary was a charitable and spirited woman, who enjoyed helping others. In her professional life, she was active with the Ames Chamber of Commerce and with the Ankeny BNI Business Connections. In addition, wherever she resided, Mary was very active with PEO, serving in several capacities including chapter president.
Mary is survived by her husband, Michael Farley, and her three children, Vance (Amy Slater) Miller, Elizabeth (Jarod) Trecker, Michelle (Christopher) Gross, in addition to her grandchildren Ariana, Amaya, Addison and Jackson. Mary is also survived by her siblings, Scott McLaughlin of Davenport, Iowa, Fred Blackwell, brother-in-law, of Phenix City, Alabama, Ann McClusky of Monticello, Iowa, and Bill (Penny) McLaughlin of Monticello, Iowa. She is preceded in death by her parents, James and Myrna McLaughlin, and her sister, Laurel Blackwell.
A Celebration of Life service is scheduled from 1 to 4 p.m., Sunday, February 18th, 2018, at Hamilton’s near Highland Memory Gardens, located at 121 N.W. 60th Avenue, Des Moines, Iowa.
Graveside Service is scheduled for June 3rd, 2018, at Oakwood Cemetery in Monticello, Iowa.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be directed to the PEO program - Ankeny Dollars for Scholars. https://ankeny.dollarsforscholars.org
Condolences may be expressed at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
Hal,Karen Cantonwine
02/16/2018
Mike and family,
We were so sorry to hear about Mary. It was many years ago we lived across State Street from you. I remember visiting with Mary as we were so pleased such a lovely family had moved in. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours at this time.
Bob and Carole Laster
02/13/2018
Mike, We are so sorry to hear about Mary. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Love you!
Mary Pat, Mike, Erin and Caitlin Floro
02/12/2018
Mary, you are such a beautiful person, Heaven is lucky to get you! We had so many fun times: movies and shrimp dip on New Year's Eve, taking our girls ice skating, cold night at your lake house, dinners out at Noah's Ark, eating your delicious lasagna meals, fireworks in your backyard, our daughters' weddings...You will be missed dear friend!
Mike, Vance, Libby and Shelly: May God comfort you at this time. Our prayers are with you. Thanks for sharing Mary with us!
Greg Carner
02/12/2018
Mike, I'm sorry to hear about the passing of your bride. I send you loving and healing light. Love you my Brother!
Liz Anderson
02/12/2018
I am so sorry about Marys death. She was a tremendous P.E.O. She was always willing to serve and assist with any project. Our chapter will miss her a great deal. Im so sorry I cant attend the visitation. Hugs and blessings!
Vern & Char Peterson
02/12/2018
Mike, We are shocked & saddened to hear of Mary's passing. Our deepest sympathy to you & the kids. We have fond memories of our time as neighbors in Ames. God bless!
Duane Rowe
02/12/2018
Mike, I was so sorry to hear of Mary's passing. I remember my visit with you a number of years ago, where I met her, and we caught up with all the passing years since in Davenport, IA. My condolences to you, Mike
John Haldeman
02/11/2018
Mike
My deepest sympathy on your loss and for your family's.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
John
Janet Williams
02/08/2018
I met Mary a few times as our P.E.O. chapter is planning together with her chapter for the state convention. I found her to be warm and friendly. She made me feel so welcome. My heart goes out to all of you and I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Katie Caggiano
02/08/2018
Mike, I'm so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
David & Susan Watson
02/08/2018
Michael, my condolences are with you and your family at this difficult time.
God Bless. So very sorry for your loss.
Mark, Karen, Michael, Buffy and Riley Farley
02/08/2018
Our love is with you all. Mary will always be in our hearts. May your faith and wonderful memories of how much she loved you and how proud she was of you and your accomplishments sustain you at this time. She is at peace and holds your love for her in her heart forever.
Karrie Thomas
02/05/2018
My heart goes out to Mary's family. It was my pleasure to have known Mary and Mike and there children. What a fighter she was. No more pain Mary. Now go rest high on that Mountain RIP