Shelly Rae Bitting Palmer
April 06, 2017
Shelly Rae Bitting Palmer, 45, passed away suddenly on April 6, 2017. Services will be held at Hamilton’s on Westown Parkway, 3601 Westown Parkway in West Des Moines on Tuesday, April 11, 2017 with visitation from 10:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. and the funeral service at 12:00 p.m. Burial will be at Glendale Cemetery in Des Moines.
Shelly was born in Des Moines, IA on October 11, 1971. She touched and impacted many lives in her lifetime. She was always willing to listen, lend a helping hand, and share her warm smile. Her advice and heart of gold were greatly valued by her family and friends. Shelly loved to help organize benefits for those in need. She loved to cook for her kids and frequently surprised them by showing up at their homes to cook them dinner. She was talented at crafts and good with her hands. She created all of her own greeting cards for every occasion. She enjoyed working as a bartender at numerous eastside bars. Shelly had a zest for life and a love for her children that expanded all bounds. Her children were her world.
She will be greatly mourned by her mother, Cynthia Conner and her step-father, Neil Conner; her children, Mark (Nancy Cruz) and Lacey Formaro; sister, Theresa (Adam) McKinnon; husband, Bobby Palmer; and many other family members and friends. Shelly was preceded in death by her father, Danny Daniels.
Memorial contributions may be directed to the family. Condolences may be expressed online at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
ELLIE
04/14/2017
Shelly, I know right here at Easter you are in the most beautiful place , I will love and miss you forever . I f only I had known you would be going this soon i would have held on to you. I find comfort in knowing you will be watching over all of us! And i do truly believe you now know true happiness, We all love you now and forever.
Heather
04/10/2017
I cant believe that you were gone until I read this. My thoughts and prayers go out to Marky and Lacey I still can't believe you're gone Shelly You will truly be missed girl. Until we meet again fly high sister rest in peace.
Angie Malaney
04/08/2017
I love you Shelly!!! As I try to grasp all of this my heart aches for your kids as the bond you have with those two is amazing. The love that you give to all you care about is rarely felt and for those of us who got the joy of being in your heart now our hearts are breaking for you. So many will deeply miss you and we are still trying to put this in reality. Its unfair that we have go say goodbye to you but i know i will see you again someday....until then..i love you girl!!! Xoxo
Ang & kids
Mickey Conner Copher
04/08/2017
So very sorry for your loss. Use your beautiful memories and God''s hand to help you through these trying times. She will always be there in you heart. You and your family are with you thru thoughts and prayers . God bless.
Melissa h
04/08/2017
I will always remember the night I pee.d in the sink of the girls bathroom on Lindsey utters birthday cuz I really had to go and she was on the toilet laughing at me the whole time then you over heard us talking about it when we came out and you told me to never do that in any of your sinks again then you thanked me for at least washing the sink out when I was done and to have a good rest of my night then the last time I seen you was at your house and I came there to see my sister Jen Ken Renees so right a lot of people were Intimidated by you but if they truly got to know you then theyd see RIGT away the huge heart you had and you always put others before yourself you will definitely be missed by many beautiful may you be in a much better place now fly high love and may you always rest in paradise my sweets.
Tracy Payne & Family (Joey Formaro)
04/08/2017
Shinning Star memory tale Whispers Bella YES Shell Bell Sparkling sight Angelic light Watching & listening to you Smile now no sorrow no blues butterfly wings I'm flying! My heart my soul quit crying Memories embrace my life to share My thumbprint present rare to wear I walked the path that many take Quiet listen for heavens sake I to you is I I give Markie & Lacey LOVE LAUGHTER LIVE April 2017 created 4U 2U Tracy "Daisy" Payne
Mary Ryan
04/07/2017
Cyndi, I wish I has some magic words to say, I would say them. I'm so sorry, you have my prayers my dear friend.
Renee b
04/07/2017
Man there's so much I want to say I use to love when people would come in bar and be like god she looks pissed off and be scared to talk to you when you were really a cool nice person and always made me laugh R.I.P girl
kathy Johansen
04/07/2017
I love you Shelly and miss you so much so sorry this had to happen I feel for all of you my deepest sympathy R.I.P