James B. Fox
March 12, 2017
James B. "Jim" Fox, 74, of Dallas Center, Iowa, and Nisswa, Minnesota, died on March 12, 2017. Born in Des Moines, Iowa on November 16, 1942, to Lawrence "Pete" and Carolyn (Luther) Fox, Jim was the 5th generation of his family to live and work in Dallas Center.
Jim graduated from Dallas Center High School in 1961. His stellar GPA propelled him into a major of American Studies at Grinnell College, where he graduated with his B.A. in 1965. After college, Jim returned home to Dallas Center to join his father Pete, and grandfather Harry, at Fox Insurance, which was founded by Harry in 1911.
In 1964, Jim married Johnnie Ruth Edmondson, whom he met at Grinnell. They had two children, Leslie and John. The marriage ended in divorce, and in 1979, he married Anita (Anderson) Ellerman, whom he met at church. Anita died from cancer four years into the marriage. During their marriage, Jim was a loving parent to Anita's children, Sarah and Alex Ellerman. Throwing all caution to the wind, and following the "third time's a charm" rule, on June 27, 1987, Jim married Lynn (Belcher) Smith, whom he also met at church. He became a parent to her two children, Ryan and Kathryn Smith.
In 1996, Jim purchased the abandoned depot in Dallas Center and renovated it into his dream office. He relocated the agency into the Minneapolis and St. Louis Railway Depot, and in 2011, Fox Insurance celebrated its 100-year anniversary. In addition to managing Fox Insurance, Jim was the Assistant Manager of Dallas Mutual Insurance Association from 1971 until 1982, when he became Manager. In 1988, he became President of its Board of Directors until his death. Jim retired in 2016, and following his retirement, he and Lynn divided their time between their home in Dallas Center, which was once owned by his grandparents Fox, and their summer home at Gull Lake.
Jim's hobbies included riding trains, looking at trains, reading about trains, listening to train engines, watching train videos, talking to people about trains, attending conferences about trains, chatting with train conductors, engineers, and track inspectors, meeting other people who enjoyed trains, listening to songs about trains, train whistles, train memorabilia, train books, train magazines, train photography, train ringtones, and buying train accessories for Lynn. He was indeed a ferroequinologist.
A 3rd generation Rotarian, Jim was a Paul Harris Fellow and member of the Dallas Center Rotary Club for over 50 years. His grandfather Russell Luther was a founding member of the Adel Rotary Club, and his grandfather Harry Fox was a founding member of the Dallas Center Rotary Club. If it was a Tuesday in Dallas Center, it was Rotary day!
Jim's favorite place to be was at the lake. Built by his great-grandfather L.M. Macy in 1922, the family cabin at Gull Lake is located "up north" in Nisswa, Minnesota. As a boy, Jim spent summers at the lake learning how to drive the boat and water ski. As an adult, nothing brought him more enjoyment than sharing his love for the lake with his children and grandchildren. Laughter, joy, good times, and generations of memories were shared at the lake because after all, the cabin is where family happens.
Jim never missed an opportunity to visit with folks. He loved his family and his community, and was highly invested in both. He was a kind man with a big heart. He had a quick wit, a warm smile, and was never shy about sharing a compliment or a hug. He was a logophile with a colorful vocabulary, and a quirky sense of humor. His life’s goal was to "retire to a life of running with the devil at night, and walking with the Lord in the morning."
Jim is survived by his wife Lynn; four children, Leslie Fox of Kaneohe, Hawaii, John Fox and his wife Laura, of Kaneohe, Hawaii, Ryan Smith and his wife Jamie, of Des Moines, Iowa, and Kathryn (Smith) Murray and her husband Josh, of St. Paul, Minnesota; four grandchildren, RJ Uyehara, Jaden Fox, and Tyler Uyehara, of Kaneohe, Hawaii, and Maya Murray, of St. Paul, Minnesota; and one sister, Pam (Fox) Warren and her husband Larry, of Minnetonka, Minnesota.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Lawrence and Carolyn Fox; two grandchildren, Briana Uyehara and Dylan Uyehara; and Charlie the cat, whom he secretly liked all those years.
Visitation will be held on Sunday, March 19 from 3:00 pm - 6:00 pm at Hamilton's on Westown Parkway, 3601 Westown Parkway, West Des Moines, Iowa. A Memorial Service will be held on Monday, March 20 at 1:00 pm at the First Unitarian Church of Des Moines, 1800 Bell Avenue, Des Moines, Iowa. A reception at the church will follow. A private burial will be held at a later date.
In lieu of flowers, kindly consider making a donation to either, The Center for Railroad Photography and Art www.railphoto-art.org or The First Unitarian Church of Des Moines www.ucdsm.org. Cards and/or notes may be sent to the family at P.O. Box 607, Dallas Center, Iowa 50063.
Den Adler
04/30/2017
I just got home from the annual conference of the Center for Railroad Photography & Art, where I met Jim and Lynn some years ago. I looked forward to seeing and talking with them again, and was shocked to learn that Jim died recently. My sympathy to Lynn and the rest of Jim's family and friends, and I hope the memories of his warmth and friendliness will help you all through this difficult time.
Meredith Hawbaker Mason
03/24/2017
My deepest condolences for your families loss.
Meredith
Jean Travis-Odefey
03/20/2017
To say that Jim will be missed is a HUGE understatement. So many happy memories flood my mind of a truly unique soul. I'll bet Jim's spirit is on that last train from Paris right now. So to Lynn and family...may your memories ease the sorrow you (and we all) feel today.
Claudia Knutson
03/19/2017
Jim, you have one of the greatest obituaries of all time! Thank you for all the fun times we had with you and Lynn. And thank you for taking such loving care of my good friend. We will always remember your wit and passion for trains.
Donald Hawbaker
03/19/2017
Was very sad to see that Jim had passed. It was always with a friendly smile that he greeted you and then you would have to catch him up on what had been happening since he saw you last. Jim has always been a strong supporter of the town and it will seem strange not to see him walking to the Post office or the Dallas Mutual office each day as he often did.
My and Lori's condolences to Lynn, Pam, and the rest of the family. Great friends are hard to find and Jim was a great friend to not only me but many more in the town he loved so much. RIP my friend.
Rick Fredrickson
03/19/2017
My condolences to the family of James Buckley Fox.
I met Jim when he was 5 and I was 4. He and his dad came to my house so our dads could talk politics. From there a fun friendship developed. I shall really miss those telephone conversations when I called James Buckley just to catch with the happenings of Dallas Center and Dallas County. You will be sorely missed dear friend.
Everett and Julie Mann Applegate
03/17/2017
What a wonderful picture of Jim! He was such a fun cousin and will be sorely missed.
My heart goes out to Lynn, children, grandchildren and sister, Pam. May your treasured memories bring you peace at this time.
Bonita ROAN Garnes
03/17/2017
What a shock....Jim and I always had a thing about him being 5 days older than I...How all the good looking people were born in Nov....Regards to all of the family ..
Tammy (Dinsmore) Kyle
03/17/2017
So sorry for your loss. I didn't know Jim personally but my dad went to school with him and I did with John.
Bob Overman
03/17/2017
I didn't know Jim that well but know John very well. Because of John I'd like to express my heart felt condolences to John and his sister.
Brian York
03/17/2017
A true patriot for the town he dearly loved. Very sorry for your loss. Prayers to his family.
Karen McLey Main
03/16/2017
Prayers for the family, so sorry for Jim's passing.
Mitch Hambleton
03/16/2017
Jim was a tireless supporter of the community. His contributions and influence will last for decades. Our prayers are with Jim's Boss and family. RIP Jim!
Merle Baer
03/16/2017
So sorry for Jim's passing. It was always a good to see Jim and visit with him. Prayers for the family.