Debra L. Cason
February 11, 2017
Debra Linn Gambrall Cason was born February 8, 1951. She was the first born child of John and Marilyn Gambrall. She is the mother of Marcus James Cason and his wife, Tatum (Armstrong) and grandmother to Mayla. Her brothers are John P. Gambrall and his wife Teri (Lee) and Brian Gambrall and his wife Shelly (McDonald) and her sister Julie Gambrall. She has many extended family, friends and colleagues. She was preceded in death by her parents.
Debra grew up in Des Moines. At the age of 31 life took her to Colorado where she lived for 18 years. She returned home to Des Moines in 2000. Thirteen years of parochial schools in the 1950’s through the 1960’s left her with life enduring beliefs and values, such as living truthfully, having a strong sense of justice, loving and respecting all people, especially for those identified as disenfranchised. She had a passion for learning and continued that pursuit after moving to Colorado. Living in Colorado, raising her son as a single parent, she found herself on a quest for more in-depth spiritual growth. She found numerous opportunities to refine and confirm her life beliefs and values, while growing as a person, mom and nurse.
Deb graduated from Saint Joseph’s Academy in 1969. She had told her mother she wanted to be a beautician. Her mother said “The hell you are”. Her mother told her she was going to be a nurse. Her mother’s rationale was interesting, she said beauticians worked long hours (and of course nurses never do), they stood on their feet all day long (of course nurses lounge all day) and beauticians do not make much money. If you have gotten your hair cut recently you know how this statement is not exactly accurate. But Deb grew up in a time when parents were respected and children did what they were told. So, Deb went to school to become a nurse. Always needing more, she continued advancing her formal and informal education in order to incorporate what she learned into her daily living. The letters behind her name were not important to Deb, the information and how to use it was what drove her for more.
Deb believed she did two things well, being a mom to Marcus and being a nurse. She taught Marcus by supporting his learning through discovery. She did not give him the answer, she discussed possibilities and she allowed Marcus to form his own conclusions based on the information he acquired. She also stressed that conclusions can change, nothing is static, so it is necessary to be aware, be informed and change when it is appropriate to do so. Although identified as a “single mom”, Deb was not the only person to impact who Marcus became. It took many, many influences. Some of you are here today while some are not. She is forever grateful to those who supported her and Marcus along the way.
Nursing was not what she did, it was who she was. Her passion lies in her compassion and advocacy. Alleviating suffering at the bedside, in the community or in the classroom, Deb was committed to improving the healthcare experience for patients, clients and their families. As an advocate, Deb ensured each person had the services they needed to improve their quality of life and that no person was discriminated against for any reason. Deb loved going to school and learning everything she could. In fact, she continued her education, formally and informally, throughout her life. As a nurse she had many roles: bedside nurse, critical care nurse, community health nurse, professor of nursing students, professional lecturer, writer, and consultant. The constant theme in all she did was that of advocate. Her passion was working with disenfranchised populations and she believed that everyone should be treated with respect, dignity and equality, and this is what she fought for. She was tireless concerning professional comportment and prioritizing client’s needs above all others.
Deb had no regrets, life was very good to her. She loved, was loved and the sun caressed her face.
In lieu of flowers the family requests donations be made to the family or Hope Ministries in Deb’s name.
Please join with family to celebrate Deb's life beginning at 3:00 p.m. at Hamilton's Funeral Home, 605 Lyon Street, Des Moines, on Thursday, February 16, 2017. The family invites you to join them in sharing a meal and continuing to remember and celebrate Deb’s life. Dinner will be served at the Birdland Ding Darling Shelter House immediately following the service.
Julie (Her Sis)
02/18/2017
My sister was in many ways very SPECIAL to me. She taught me alot in my later yrs of life.
For the last yr of her life I was ALWAYS there for her, unless she just wanted to relax and watch football. Her illness was horrific towards the end. But I promised her I would ALWAYS BE THERE FOR HER NO MATTER WHAT!
She told me that mom said to her, promise me, no matter what you will watch over Julie. Of course my sis stayed true to her promise. But as she got sicker she said isn't it crazy how the tables have changed, and now you are taking care of me. All I could say was of, your my sis, And I'LL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR YOU NO MATTER WHAT!!! Broke my heart, but it all was well worth it. I love and miss you sis so so much. I know your in a better place now, BUT IT HURTS SO MUCH THAT I'LL NEVER SEE OR MAKE MEMORIES AGAIN!
REST IN PEACE SIS!!! I love you with all my heart. Couldn't ask for a better sis then you. Lots of love...
Angella Gonzalez
02/16/2017
Deb taught me so much. I will always remember her laugh and stories. She will be missed greatly. Blessing to the family of Deb.
Larry P Shank
02/15/2017
I am so sorry I did not get to laugh with you. Being the best man at your wedding was so long ago. You will always be in my heart. I am happy that life was good.
Lu Kimpel
02/14/2017
I was so fortunate to have taught with Deb. And in this last year, to share laughter with her. She will be missed. She will live on in our heart and memories. We have been blessed by her presence in our lives. Peace and love to Deb's family.
Stephanie Patterson
02/14/2017
Deb was a very passionate person and I for one, could not help but be inspired by her. She encouraged reaching out to those in need and looking at the deeper meaning in those life experiences. I will forever be grateful for the seed she planted.
Rev. Joanne Parnham
02/13/2017
Thank you for being a friend, my voice of reason. Deb had a heart of gold and would be there for anyone.you will be missed. Thank you for all you have done and the many lives you've touched.
Rev. Joanne parnham
Peggy W. Triad Chair
02/13/2017
Deb C. was a wonderful leader here in Des Moines where she "retired". As a founding leader for Triad and S.A.L.T. her memory and volunteer work will continue.
Deb gave of herself for the betterment of other. Her work is a witness to her character.
Thanks, Deb.