Patricia Daughenbaugh
December 01, 2007
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Patricia Louise Daughenbaugh, 63, passed away peacefully at home surrounded by family on Saturday, December 1, 2007.
Pat (Trish) Dolan was born March 30, 1944 in Swea City, IA. She graduated from St. John’s Catholic High School in Bancroft, IA and then attended Fort Dodge Community college before moving to Des Moines. She married James Daughenbaugh in 1965 and together they raised eight children. She was a loyal and dedicated employee for Iowa Association of School Boards and had a rewarding experience for many years before retiring in 2007.
Pat was a member of Christ the King Catholic Church, and avid reader, enjoyed a great adventure and was a devoted Al Anon member for 27 years. Her greatest joy was spending time with her family and friends and her motto in life was, “Trust God and do what is in front of you!”
Pat is survived by her eight children, Michelle (Greg) Bastian, Jim (Holly) Daughenbaugh, Patrick (Fran) Daughenbaugh, Melissa (Mitch) Olson, Christine (Gary) Woods, Mike (Stacie) Daughenbaugh, Mary Daughenbaugh and David (Megan) Daughenbaugh; her brothers, Jim Dolan, Mike Dolan, Dennis Dolan, John Dolan, Dave Dolan and Steve Dolan; her sisters, Mary Kay Roberts and Barb Lair; her 16 grandchildren; and her long time friend, Larry Nance.
She was preceded in death by her ex-husband and friend, James Daughenbaugh; her father and mother, James and May Dolan; and her sister, Diane Dolan.
Services will be held at 10:00 a.m. Thursday, December 6, 2007 at Christ the King Catholic Church. The family will greet friends from 4 to 8 p.m. with a Prayer Vigil and Rosary at 6 p.m. Wednesday at Hamilton’s Southtown Funeral Home.
Memorial contributions may be made to Iowa Health Home Care Hospice or Christ the King Catholic Church.
Jennifer West
12/10/2007
Michelle and Family,
I was a friend and co-worker of Michelle's in the 80's.
I was so sorry to see in the paper that your mother had passed away. My condolences, thoughts, and prayers are with you and your family.
Charlotte Lafargue Henderson
12/05/2007
Dear Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. There can never be words that can take away the pain of losing someone you love.
I, too, loved Pat. She was an inspiration to me, a guide, and a help when I needed serenity and counsel. She was one of my most favorite people in Al-Anon. I always eagerly waited for her to speak, as we would go around the room. I was never disappointed, for whenever this remarkable woman would open her mouth, wisdom poured out in volumes. Every sentence was filled with humor, wisdom, intelligence, and love. I learned something new and wonderful every time I heard her speak.
The quote in the obituary..."Trust in God and Do Whats In Front Of You." That was one of the first sayings I learned from MY sponsor some 11 years ago! I believe my sponsor may have learned that from Pat.
Over the years, I have told many of my friends something Pat said to me a long time ago, when I had gotten a divorce and my younger son was verbally abusive to me. I remember crying in the telephone to Pat, who listened patiently until I stopped to catch my breath. My son had said horrible, hurtful things to me, and I was confused and in pain, myself.
Pat responded to my grief. I remember she said, "When your son says awful things like that to you, remember it is his own pain coming out of his mouth." His own pain. Not my own failures.
Her words help right my world and grant me peace and serenity. I remembered her wise words, and today, my son is my next door neighbor, and our relationship is pretty darned good. Thanks, Pat! I will miss you greatly.
Angie Kendall
12/05/2007
Dear Pat's Family,
I just want to send you all my deepest heart-felt sympathy. Pat will always be a good friend of mine, which I will cherish for the rest of my days. She listened to my woes, work/family issues and gave me guidance, plus a lot of laughs along the way.
This is a very difficult time, but please remember all of the good times as these will help you though it all.
Love to all of you,
Angie Kendall
Darlene Blair
12/05/2007
I just want to let you know how special Pat was to me and how thankful I am she came into my life. We had many laughs together and I will always remember her wonderful smile. How fortunate you were to have such a loving mother and grandmother. I know she is at peace and no longer has any pain.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Darlene Blair
Lisa Price
12/06/2007
I worked with Pat at Broadlawns Hospital many years ago. She brought such light and joy to every day. "Do what's in front of you." became my comfort and compass during some troubled times back then. I will never forget her beautiful smile, gentleness, tenderness, and commitment to everyone she met, whether they were a new acquaintance or an old friend.
Bless you, my friend. You will be greatly missed.
Lisa Price
Kim Anderson(YMCA)
12/04/2007
Dear Mary and family,
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your mother. Please know that all of you are in my thoughts and prayers. Mary if you need anything please don't hesitate to give me a call. All of us at the Y miss you and can't wait for you to get back. Take care guys!
With Sympathy,
Kim Anderson
Vicki Davis
12/04/2007
Dear Family,
My deepest condolences to you all. Pat touched hundreds and hundreds of our lives and will be deeply missed in the 12 Step Programs. She has to be the most positive person I have known. She touched my life and I always felt so special becuase of her. Her smile is forever!
Ron and Joan Waits
12/04/2007
Stacie and Mike,
We were saddened to see in the paper that your mother,(mother-in-law,) had passed away. You have our sincere sympathy, and our thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your family.
I know it must be very difficult for you, Stacie, with your mother so far away, and I know that at times like this she wishes she could be with you for as long as you need her. Please know that I am only a phone call and 45 minutes away if there is any way that I can help ease your burden.
You are in our hearts at this very difficult time; May you find comfort in the Lords promises to us, and may sweet and wonderful memories sustain you.
Love, Ron and Joan