Joseph P. Reser
December 16, 2016
Joseph P. Reser, 54, died unexpectedly on Friday, December 16, 2016. Services will be held at Hamilton’s on Westown Parkway, 3601 Westown Parkway in West Des Moines on Thursday, December 22, 2016 with visitation from 4 to 6:30 p.m. and a memorial service at 6:30 p.m.
Joe was born October 2, 1962 in Fort Dodge, Iowa and grew up in Des Moines. He attended St. John’s Catholic School and graduated from Dowling High School in 1981. He then attended the University of Iowa, becoming a life-long Hawkeye fan before transferring to Iowa State University and graduating in 1989 with a Bachelor of Science degree. He worked as a chemist for many years at Qualis and was currently employed at Weeks & Leo.
Joe loved sports! He played football and baseball at Dowling. He played and later coached at Raccoon Valley Little League for more than 20 years. He played adult league baseball with MIBL, and served on the board. He played in the annual MSBL World Series in Arizona for 22 years. He was an avid outdoorsman, hunting deer and turkey, canoeing and bicycling. Joe enjoyed Octoberfest, playing poker, bartending Friday nights at Greenwood Lounge, and being with family and friends.
He is survived by his brothers, Ed (Holly), Phil (Esther) and John (Dawn) Reser; his sisters, Roberta Shuey, Mary Kay Reser, and Patti (Greg Joura) Reser; his nieces and nephews, Sara (Jim) Tasler, Brian (Andrea) Reser, Abby (Joe Mertzig) Reser, Annie (Clark) Reser-Moorehead, Amelia, Lillian, Sam and Madeline Browning, Aubrey and Jack Reser and Mick Joura; great-nieces and nephews, Konrad, Loralei, Mason and Katelyn; and his companion, Teresa Schutte. Joe was preceded in death by his parents, Dale and Ruth Reser; and brothers, Doug and Larry Reser.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be directed to Raccoon Valley Little League or to Dowling Catholic High School. Condolences may be expressed online at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
J'aime Amadeo-Ranch
12/20/2016
I will always remember Joe as a great guy - always so funny, nice, smart and always smiling. We went to school together at Dowling High School and shared many laughs and great times together. My heart goes out to his family and friends. Joe you will always be in my heart! May you Rest In Peace and may your wonderful soul forever endure. Love, J'aime Amadeo and family
Jim Snodgrass
12/20/2016
I met Joe the summer of 83 at a killer party @ his house in which Drasbury played. Epic! We have been friends ever since.A great guy to talk to. Always looked forward to returning to DM and catching up @ the Greenwood. You'll be missed bro!
Adam Godwin
12/20/2016
Very sorry to hear of Joe's passing. Joe was my coach at Raccoon Valley back in the day when I played for the Dodgers, and some years later my bartender at the greenwood on a few lucky occasions. My thoughts and prayers are with his loved ones. He was a great baseball coach and a great man. He will be missed!
Carol Belding Jepson
12/20/2016
Sending lots of light, love and healing energy to Teresa and all the Reser's. Joe was one of a kind. Such a wonderful man. We have so many friends in common. I will miss being called, " Little Mama" and his loud whistle. Oh and his wonderful back massages! I am sure he is smiling down on us all. As Wendy said, "Fly High, Joe!" And I would like to add, "Soar Long!". "See you on the other side, buddy!"
Cilla Craig
12/20/2016
To John and the Reser family. I am truly sorry to hear about Joe's passing. I pray that God would provide comfort to each of you during this time, and always.
Peggy White (Molloy)
12/20/2016
I am so very sorry to hear of Joe's passing. Joe was a grade behind me, and the whole Reser family and Molloy family went through school together - their 9 and our 9. One of the great St John's families that will always be a part of my life. Prayers, thoughts, & HUGS go out to all of the Reser family during this very sad & difficult time.
Carrie Brugger
12/19/2016
When I think of Joe he always has a smile on his face and a kind word or two. At RVLL he was always willing to happily lend a hand and was a dedicated coach to a lot of lucky kids. Joe was a good man. Gone too soon. My sincere condolences.
CB
Denise Diaz
12/19/2016
I am truly sorry to hear of the loss of Joe. Such a kind and gentle soul. My heart goes out to the Reser family. Sending love and light...
Heidi Nelson
12/19/2016
Our dear friend Joe will always be remembered for his gentle way, his story telling, and his wonderful sense of humor. Joe could induce laughter with a single word. He followed it up moments later with a sweet little smile. Only Joe could do that. We will miss him terribly. My thoughts and prayers are with his family, Teresa, and the many friends of Joe.
Erika and Shawn Hale
12/19/2016
We are shocked and saddened by Joe's passing. Our thoughts are with his family.
Barbara Grask
12/19/2016
To the Reser family, Not only was Joe a best friend to my brother Billy, he was like another brother to me. Joe Joe, I will forever miss you. Teresa, you brought such happiness to his life. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love, Barbara
Jim Sinclair
12/19/2016
The Reser Family and Teresa are in my prayers. Am lucky to have know Joe through MSBL and played with him in Phoenix and against him in Des Moines. He is a great competitor and even better Teammate. Joe was liked by everyone in the league and he always went out of his way to make you feel welcome and included. Many would agree that Joe was the Heart and Soul of the Des Moines MSBL. Gonna miss you my friend. Look forward to playing ball with you again in heaven.
Mike Harrington
12/19/2016
Joe was a true friend to the entire Harrington family. One of the kindest and gentle men to grace the earth. Joe is already missed terribly.
Our hearts are broken and our prayers are with all the family and many friends.
Ron Watson
12/19/2016
My heart goes out to Teresa and Joe's entire family. I just had a chance to catch up with him on the way to Arizona in October. He was a class act, and a teammate that others aspired to be. Always a kind word and a greeting every time he saw me-that is all too rare today. I wish I had known him better, but I knew him well enough to know that I will miss him every time I step onto a ball diamond going forward. Peace to you and your entire family.
Peg Bickford
12/19/2016
Joe I miss you so. My heart is broken into pieces as are so many others. Your calm, caring, loyal, giving patient self is one not found often in this world of.ours today....
Yours is one of two that I have known in my lifetime....I consider myself blessed to of known you.
I pray that that Teresa, Billy, Bobby and I can all find piece in our hearts somehow after losing such a beautiful soul...I know you would want that Joe Joe.
Peace. Let there be peace.
We all love you to the moon and back Joe Joe and know God has another flower up there with all those weeds....it was just too soon...
It should have been me not you. I'm already broken.... we were so blessed with such a beautiful angel.I will miss how wonderful and gentle you always were when you made my wrecked back feel better in seconds with your gentle touch. Noone had ever touched me with the "angel fingers and hands" such as you my friend.
I will miss our bike rides...we had a ball...loved to.watch my "T" chase after you up the hill at Greenwood Park....just to call you "Daddy" and hear you echo.back with "What's up "Mamma"? I hear your voice still today and it makes me smile...
We never got that canoe ride in...
I will miss your stuffed mushrooms...and your spaghetti sauce that simmered all day...gosh that had to be the best I ever had....
I am certain you had to be the best trivial pursuit player I had ever met...and probobly...the smartest man I never got to know as well as I had wished....gosh I miss you...
I can not say goodbye Joe Joe...not today or tomorrow...Cuz I can still feel you close around...I feel your concern for the troubles that are present...you have my word Joe...I will do all that I can to find resolve.
I miss "all of us" Joe Joe. I don't know how to go on...or if I can...or if I want to......
I need you to give me an answer
..help me with this...like you did the night Iowa went 10-0...we sat together...alone...but together...while I cried...
Joe Joe...I miss you and my "T" like running water and breathing...this is horrible
..I feel like I lost you both
I am so sorry....so so sorry...
Always and forever,
Love,
Peg Bickford
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