Benita Linn (Opheim) Carriger
April 04, 2016
Benita was born February 26th, 1966, in Iowa City to Merle and Michele Opheim. She passed away, surrounded by her loving family on April 4th, 2016, in West Des Moines.
After graduating from Iowa City High School, she moved to Mason City, IA where she married Calvin Carriger (previously deceased). Upon moving to West Des Moines, where she enjoyed managing Jimmy’s All American Café for several years, she met Lou Gomez and spent the remainder of her years with him. Benita will be remembered as a warm, kind, caring and selfless person who enjoyed life’s simple pleasures.
Benita is survived by her parents, sister Bry Opheim, brother Blaine Opheim and his wife Tia Perez, two nieces Everly and Josie Opheim, as well as, many uncles, aunts and cousins.
Jon Boeding
04/13/2016
I worked with Benita at the Viking in Hampton and will always remember her witty personality. She was a great person and could always make you laugh. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family in your time of mourning. Dino Benita
Kris (Froschauer) Dawkins
04/12/2016
I am so sorry for your loss. Benita and I were the best of friends in grade school and into junior high. We both went to Lemme and used to spend hours playing Barbies and just talking. I lost touch with her but thought of her every once in awhile. Know that she is thought of very fondly.
Amber
04/11/2016
I worked with Benita years ago, it was one of my first jobs and she was a great mentor to all of us just learning the ropes. I have many memories of Benita but what stands out the most is her smile, her sarcasm and her sense of humor. My thoughts and prayers to her close friends and family, she will be missed.
Deanna Schulz
04/11/2016
Bry: Sorry to hear of the loss of your sister. I can't imagine the heartache you and your family are feeling. Hoping you find peace and comfort. Prayers....
Marilyn Culver
04/09/2016
Mich and Merle, So sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you as the days go on. Live those memories to the fullest.
Jane Olson Maurer Shu
04/09/2016
Merle and Michele: I am so sorry to read of the passing of your daughter Benita. My heart goes out to you and your children as you grieve your loss. Praying for God's peace and comfort for each of you. (Psalm 23)
Robyn Wheeler
04/09/2016
Sending up prayers and my heartfelt condolences to family and friends of Benita ... I never had the privilege of meeting her, but I know that she was loved very deeply by her family and will be greatly missed ... God bless you all in your time of loss ....
Karen Heun (Skow)
04/08/2016
Michele & Merle: I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your daughter. You are in my thoughts & prayers. With sincere sympathy
Mark Broderson
04/08/2016
Benita was like a big sister to me. Always had my back. Always there for me. She was the glue that held are group of friends together. And kept us out of trouble, most of the time. She will forever be in my heart. Love you and miss you B.
Dave & Cindy Halsrud
04/08/2016
Merle and Michele,
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your daughter. Sending our love and condolences to you and your family. Hugs and prayers for all of you!
Ginny
04/08/2016
I am so sorry, I typed Michael instead of Merle.
Jerry & Ginny Hawkins
04/08/2016
Michael & Michele, We are so sorry for your loss. I can't even begin to imagine the heartache of loosing a child! Our thoughts & prayers are with you & your family.
Jerry & Ginny
Lisa Juarez Stichter
04/08/2016
She was such a sweet person & so thoughtful. She will sadly be missed. Hugs to you and the family, Lou??