Brian "B.A." Scavo
January 13, 2016
Brian Anthony “B.A.” Scavo passed away at his home on January 13, 2016 at the age of 42. He was born on August 18, 1973 in Des Moines to Anthony and Kim Scavo. He graduated from Scavo High School then entered the military, proudly serving his country in the United States Army. He attended DMACC where he studied building trades and HVAC training. He was skilled in many areas, often volunteering his talents for family, friends and even strangers, expecting nothing in return. His favorite sayings were, “I love you”, “Are you okay” and “Do you need any help”.
He was a devoted and loving father to his two daughters, Pilar and Christa. His biggest joy was spending time with and caring for them. Brian had a kind heart for others, helping care for many of his elderly relatives. He was deeply committed to his faith in God and made a recent pilgrimage to Bethlehem, the birthplace of his Savior.
Brian is survived by his daughters, Pilar and Christa; father, Anthony (Leslie) Scavo; mother, Kim Scavo; sister, Andrea (Bruce) Miller; grandmother, Cadijah Lundeen; aunt, Helen Marie; three nieces; and many aunts, uncles and cousins. He will be greeted in heaven by his grandparents, Anthony and Angelina Scavo and Donald Lundeen; and his special uncles, Joe and Dominic.
The family will greet friends Monday, January 18, 2016 from 4 to 7 p.m. with a Prayer Service at 6:15 p.m. followed by the reciting of the Rosary at Hamilton’s Southtown Funeral Home, 5400 SW 9th Street. Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Tuesday, January 19th at Christ the King Catholic Church, 5711 SW 9th Street. Brian will be laid to rest at Glendale Cemetery.
Memorial contributions may be directed to the family for the benefit of his daughters.
Online condolences may be expressed at
www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
Jennifer
01/21/2016
The bible gives us comfort and hope to see our love ones again at Revelation 21:3-4 God assures us to be with them again.
Anonymous
01/19/2016
I am so sorry to hear about this. One thing you can say about Brian is how much he has loved his children. Girls, trust me Daddy-O knows how much you love him. He knew it and still knows it every single day. He is still here with you because you are part of him. Daddy is building a new house with Jesus for you now. Just imagine what it will look like girls. If I know your Dad it is going to be the prettiest place ever. Hold on to that, you WILL see him again. <3
Lacey Bartling
01/18/2016
First let me preface this by saying how truly sorry I am for your loss! There are no words to ease the pain you undoubtedly are feeling. I only hope that my words can offer a bit of comfort and more insight to what you must already know "Brian was a great man" taken to soon!
After reading Brian's obituary I felt compelled to share my story. Especially after reading his favorite sayings " Are you ok" & "Do you need any help" ( I'll explain later) I didn't know Brian well just merely of him rather. He was a friend of my brother Damon growing up, who passed in 2001. He was killed by a drunk driver.
Brian and I crossed paths this past December and I will never forget that day. How it came to be is actually kind of funny. I was at home with my 17 month old who had managed to find my set of keys and set of my car alarm! I had two tv's going at a time and the baby screaming and playing I had no idea ( you know how it is with crazy toddlers). I walked into the living room to the doorbell ringing as well. I opened the door to a very distraught looking man( Brian). At that time I had no idea who he was. I hadn't seen him in I don't know how long. Before I could say can I help you he said " Are you ok" followed by " Do you need any help"?( not kidding those to phrases exactly followed by one another...sounds familiar right) I explained that my son had set the alarms off and I was unaware and thanked him for checking in on us. He looked a little more at ease but not fully as he left on foot at the time.
After he left I was thinking a few things;
1. you don't find many people who care about strangers or others like that anymore. It was so refreshing and kind.Almost an act of heroism of sorts. It reminded me of my brother he was that way.
2. Why did he still seem uneasy?
3. He looked familiar in some way.?
After about an hour or so my doorbell rang again and there stood Brian. I thought oh no did I not show enough gratitude? I opened the door and he said "hi do you remember me"? I chucked a little and said of course. He went on to say that after he left he kept thinking about how I looked so familiar. So he looked up my address and then asked if I was Lacey Damon's sister? I said yes! He went on to tell me how he and Damon were friends growing up and that he had only just learned recently of his passing. He said how sorry he was and that my brother was a great man. He was teary eyed and so sweet as he told me some funny and sweet stories of their friendship. I then told him how grateful I am that there are still men/ people in the world like him. And how his kindness reminded me of my brother. He smiled with big tears and said " I just got done working and I'm really dirty but I'd like to hug you right now if it's ok?" I excepted it so lovingly. We must have both stayed embraced crying for a good 3 mins solid. We let go, and he told me he lived close by and that if I ever "Needed Anything " anything just holler. I thanked him for making my day and my holiday to come a little more bearable. He smiled sweetly and off he went.
I'm telling this story not only for those of you who knew and loved him but out of a deep and profound need for myself, my brother and God. I only want to help honor the man Brian obviously was. And to repay his kindness. I truly can't tell you what Brian did for my heart that day. I recently had lost my mother too and felt very alone facing the holidays with no immediate family left. His kindness helped heal a little piece of my heart and I will never forget it! It's those random acts of kindness that help us through the tragic times in life...To heal one piece at a time and day by day.
Thank you Brian I only wish I could have known you better. It's obvious the world was a better place with you in it! God has you now it's bliss from here on. Say hello to my bother for me xxoo
Loren Fisher
01/18/2016
Tony - very sorry for your loss of Brian. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Loren
ELISABETH
01/18/2016
I didn't know your loved one, Brian, but I was touched by his frequent quotes ("I love you" and "Do you need help"} in today's paper. That and that he served in the US Army and left daughters behind. My heart goes out to his loved ones.
Bill Harrison
01/18/2016
Hey Tony,really sorry to hear about your Son! You take care and hang in there Brother... PEACE-LOVE
The Heaverlo's
01/18/2016
Tony,
So sorry to hear about Brian. We will be praying for your family during this difficult time.
Karen,Jacob &Toni
01/17/2016
So very sorry for your loss, our thoughts and prayers and deepest sympathy for the family.
Fr. Al Sherbo
01/17/2016
Sorry to read of the death of Brian. Will remember him and all the family in my prayers and in a Mass. God be with you all in this time of loss.
Nicole 'Dare' Sparks
01/16/2016
I grew up on the same street as Brian and Andrea. I used to go to their house and play with Andrea. I am very sorry for the loss of Brian. My thoughts and prayers go out to all his family.
Audrey, Lyn & Dale Gibson
01/16/2016
We truly thought the world of Brian. He was so very helpful as a neighbor on 42nd St. I'll never forget how patient he was when he repaired my front door lock--I never had any problem with it after that. Our deepest sympathy to all the family.
Julie Antenucci
01/16/2016
My heart is filled with saddness for your loss. He is in the hands of God.
Denny and Maria
01/16/2016
Pilar and Christa, your dad loved you so very much so always hold on to the great memories.
God has a reason for allowing things to happen. We may never understand his wisdom, but we simply have to trust his will. Psalms 37.5
Tara and William
01/16/2016
I am so sorry for your loss,, sending prayers for all family!!
William and Tara
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Mike Williams
01/16/2016
Brian, you're a kind and giving person. You lived for your daughters, they were your world.
We will pray for your daughters and family, rest in peace brother.