Michael "Mike" Fetters
January 13, 2016
Michael “Mike” Fetters, 58, of Des Moines, passed away suddenly January 13, 2016.
Mike was born in Des Moines, Iowa, August 25, 1957, to parents Carroll “Cat” and Mary Fetters. He graduated from East High in 1975, and began working, and later managing, the Grandview Market, where he met not only his future wife but his bosses, who soon became his future father and mother-in-law! Mike was later the owner and operator of Pacchenos Bakery and Bistro in Pleasant Hill. He was a people person, never met a stranger, he was a born salesman and enjoyed the opportunity to serve others. Mike was employed by the Rhino Group.
Those who knew Mike will remember his corny humor, quick wit and his practical jokes. He engaged in friendly competition with his neighbor over who had the best lawn, and took pride in his home and landscaping projects. He was the only person with whom his Italian mother-in-law shared her secret meatball recipe. Although life wasn’t always easy, Mike was an eternal optimist; he believed there was something good in every day. He had a kind and generous heart; there wasn’t anything Mike wouldn’t do for others. His home often included a spot for those who would otherwise be alone.
Mike is survived by his wife of 38 years, Vicky; his “daddy’s girls,” Christi (Craig) McWilliams and Tiffani (Luke) Matthaidess; his siblings, Steve of Temecula, CA and Carroll (Linda) Fetters and Kathy (Don “Duck”) Collins, both of Des Moines. He will be missed by his grandchildren, Cael, Camden and Kelsi McWilliams, Keira Alexander and Jaxen Matthaidess; his many nieces and nephews; and his dog, Bear. Also left to remember him with love are his sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law, Kathy and Mike Slater of Des Moines and Janice and Mike Stueckrath of Windsor Heights. He was preceded in death by his parents, his brothers, Robert and James, and sister, Dolly McConnell.
Services for Mike will be held at Hamilton’s Funeral Home 605 Lyon Street, Sunday, January 17, 2016, at 12:00 p.m. A visitation will be held for two hours prior to the funeral, beginning at 10:00 a.m.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to the Autism Society of Iowa or Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation.
Condolences may be expressed at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
Mike lived a life that mattered, not by accident or circumstance, but by choice. He will live on in the hearts of those he leaves behind.
Karen Kahrig
01/16/2016
My deepest condolences to the family. RIP Mike.
Sherry Cocking-Keener
01/15/2016
Thoughts and prayers for the family at this most difficult time.
God Bless,
Sherry Cocking-Keener
Bev Thomas
01/15/2016
Vicki and family my thoughts and prayers are with you as you go through this hard time. mike was a wonderful guy. His humour will live on through his family. R.i.p. Mike
Glenda Arends
01/15/2016
R.I.P. my heart goes out to the family. So sorry for your loss I worked with Mike when he worked at Eurest. I also helped cater his daughter's wedding. Beautiful family and he was a great man. He's going to keep everybody laughing up there in heaven he always had good jokes once again I'm so sorry.
Arlene Mabrier
01/15/2016
Fetters Family; I am thinking of you at this sad time in your lives. I loved having Mike as my boss, he was good to me and my family at Pacchenos. 'Vicky; I know how hard it is to loose your husband. If you ever want to talk, call me. Your friend, Arlene.
Cookie Hood
01/15/2016
I was so sorry to hear about Mike, He was such neat person. always had a smile for every one.. R.I.P. Mike. You will be missed by many..
Samantha Eiler
01/15/2016
This is very heartbreaking . Mike was a very good man with a huge heart . My thoughts and prayers are with the family . I'm so privileged to have got to know this guy . Rest in peace my friend . you will be missed by so many
David Williams Jr. (DJ)
01/15/2016
R.I.P Mike, your positive advice will be missed very much you were always so helpful and caring. At my times of struggle you had only positive thing to say that would always guide me in the right direction. Thank you so much for all your help. The best of wishes to Vicky and the family.
Love you Mike...
Trina Six Fetters
01/15/2016
R.I.P Mike!!! You will be missed dearly!! No one had a sence of humor like you did! Always loving and caring and always trying to make people laugh!!! I will miss that about you!! Be sure to give my dad a big hug from me and aunt Dolly too!! And enjoy the test of our family that you will be reunited with!! Love you bunches!!!!!
Jackie Hernandez Wells
01/15/2016
Vicki & familia,
My heart goes out to each of you in the loss of your beloved husband and father, Mike. May you find comfort in your memories, strength in the everylasting love Mike left with each of you...A part of your hearts are now in heaven...God's peace & love surrounding you...respectfully, your east-side friend, Jackie (Raul's)
Shellie Treanor
01/15/2016
Vicky, thinking and praying for you and your family.
Tim Schroeder and Everyone at Borgen Systems
01/15/2016
We here at Borgen Systems are very sorry for your loss and our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Mike was a salesman that represented his company in a professional manner and was always willing help out in any way possible. We valued his relationship with our company and Mike always showed great pride in the job he did. We want to thank you for allowing him to share a part of his life with us.
Jenny Platt
01/15/2016
Christi and family, you are in my thoughts and prayers! Big hugs!!
Angela Heim
01/14/2016
My heart aches for you all. It is an honor and a blessing to have known Mike. I will never forget that crazy sense of humor, the hard-working man that he was, and the LOVE he had for his family. Thinking of each of you in these difficult days ahead.
Michelle Wonders
01/14/2016
Mike's loved ones are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. I grew up with Mike and he was so friendly - I am very saddened to hear of his passing.