Frances Solinger
August 13, 2015
Frances Louella Solinger
Altoona
Frances Louella Solinger passed from this life on Thursday, August 13, 2015. She resided at the Mitchell Village Care Center for the past several years.
Frances was born in Hamilton, Iowa to James Arthur and Orpha Ann Hall on November 29, 1927. She was the fourth child in the family. She was always proud that her father had been a coal miner in southern Iowa. She would tell how he would often come home at night covered in black soot and she would not be allowed to hug him until he had washed.
Frances moved with her family to Des Moines, Iowa in 1943 when she was 15. Two years later, her beloved father died of a heart attack. The family was poor and had just lost its primary source of income, so Frances dropped out of her final year of high school to assist in the support of her mother and six siblings.
In 1949, she had to be convinced by a good friend to go on a date with Ardin Louis Solinger. Several months later, on May 27, 1950, they were married in a small ceremony before the Justice of the Peace and two witnesses, Ardin’s sister and her husband. The gold ring she received that day never left her finger for 65 years.
The union between Frances and Ardin produced seven children; six sons and a daughter. The death of Joel Benjamin by a miscarriage would always haunt her. She took great pride in her children and their accomplishments. Frances never tired of showing pictures of grandchildren to anyone and when visiting her in her home in Altoona, Iowa, it was a prerequisite for all visitors to see the most recent photographs which were always kept in an envelope on the table near her chair.
She had several occupations during her lifetime including waitress, cook, credit manager, and business owner. But her most rewarding was that of homemaker, mother and most especially, grandmother. Always ready to show her sense of humor, she was once told that she was now a great grandmother. To which she replied without hesitation, “I will have you know that I have always been a great grandmother!”
She is survived by her husband, Ardin Louis; her sons (and spouses), James (Cindy), Joseph (Becky), Jeffrey (Myndi), John (Kim), and Jess (Karla); and her daughter, Jennifer (Ron); 16 grandchildren, 25 great-grandchildren, one great great-grandchild; and her remaining sister, Margie Hall.
She leaves us now to be reunited with her son, Joel Benjamin; her mother and father, her brothers and sisters who all passed from this life before her. She will be missed greatly as she was loved.
Visitation will be held from 3:00 – 5:00 p.m. on Sunday, August 16, 2015, at Hamilton’s Altoona Funeral Home, 105 4th Street SW. Services will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Monday, August 17, 2015 also at the funeral home, with burial to follow at Rising Sun Cemetery.
Condolences may be expressed at:
www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com
Kerry Kirstein
08/20/2015
Jeff, so sorry to hear about your mom. Know in your heart, that she is in the most beautiful and peaceful place made just for her. My mom has also passed, so I know how you feel. Email or call anytime.
Kerry
Dave Lincoln
08/19/2015
Jeff, I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your Mom. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
With sympathy,
Dave
Joey
08/15/2015
Grandma, I could go on and on about the times we shared when I was a kid. We both like pappy's sasafras tea and I loved your homemade soup that you would often send with me when I was in college. But the thing that stands out for me with you is that you are an example of how people should love. You showed true unconditional love that is so rare to see. You beamed pride when you spoke about your family. No matter what anyone could do they could not shake your total acceptance and love under all circumstances. You were so accepting of all people. When there were adopted children, new family members, or friends, you took them on as your own. You immediately referred to them as your own family and treated them exactly the same as if they were blood. You could tell that you loved them the same as if they were. You were so such a strong person. Nothing could shake you. You held the family together and we were all blessed to have known you. I love you very much Grandma and you will live on in my memories as a sweet, funny, and loving person that taught us all how to treat each other. I miss you already.
Joe
08/15/2015
Mom, I will miss you, I miss you already and you barely been gone! For the last 6 years you gave me something worth while to do, I will miss our time on Fridays! I know, I have to be good now because I want to see you again, I know that you went to heaven, so I have to make it there someday to see you on our Fridays! I love you Mom!
See you later alligator...........
Sandy
08/14/2015
You will be missed so much by all who knew you.I will always have good memories of you and how we used to sit in the kitchen and talk and talk. My sympathy goes out to all of the family especially your children.
Carrie
08/14/2015
I wish I could be there with everyone to celebrate the life and love of you, Grandma. I will never forget your funny stories, amused commentary, and wicked sense of humor. Your enduring strength and perseverance continues to inspire me.
Aunt Jeneane
08/14/2015
What will we do without Frances to keep us up to date on everyone in the family. She is the only person I know who could name each (and there are a lot) child, birth date, etc of all and get everything exactly right. I think she lived her life for her family. She was a sweet, kind hearted lady.
Sandy Jacobs
08/13/2015
I am sending my deepest condolences. Fran and I worked together at AFH for years. She was loved by all of us..The light of her life was her family , she always spoke of all of you with so much love in her heart..I know she will be greatly missed. RIP sweet lady...god bless all of you.
Jeff
08/13/2015
I love you mom and will miss your sternness in your voice when you call me Jeffrey and that, "just way "you look at me. Its going to be hard not seeing you anymore with that smile only you have mom. I know you are still here as I can feel you in my heart. One day mom, all your children will be with you again. Please watch over us as you always have. I love you mom......
Jeffrey
Tim
08/13/2015
Grandma you were a fighter till your very last moment with us. Awnry to your nurses that's how I would now you were feeling good when I would leave. You would always say that I was the grandchild that made you old. You will be missed greatly by everyone.
LOVE YOU GRANDMA