Barbara Besler
April 02, 2014
Barbara Besler, 77, passed away Wednesday, April 2, 2014 at Unity Point Health Des Moines Methodist. Barbara was born September 6, 1936 to Cecelia and Oliver Medearis in Waterloo, Iowa.
She graduated from St. Mary’s High School in 1954. Barbara married John A. Besler on September 7, 1959. Barbara worked for many years as an office manager and bookkeeper. She loved gardening, reading, bird watching, her family and her pets.
Barbara is survived by her daughters, Lisa (Steve) Finken, Dana (Jeff) Duncan and Nikki Gorla; her grandchildren, Danielle (Jason) Yonker, Darcie (Clayton) Lewis and Jim Besler; her great-grandchildren, Kayleigh, Rylie, Jena and Natalie; her significant other, Paul Clergy; her brother in-law, Charles (Audrey) Besler and special friends, Fran, Janet and Cande.
She was preceded in death by her husband, John and her parents.
Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11 a.m. Tuesday, April 8, 2014 at Christ the King Catholic Church, 5711 SW 9th Street. Burial will follow the mass at Glendale Cemetery. Visitation will be held from 5 to 7 p.m. Monday at Hamilton’s Southtown Funeral Home, 5400 SW 9th Street, a rosary will be recited at 7:00 p.m.
Memorial contributions may be directed to the family in loving memory of Barbara.
Online condolences may be expressed at
www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
Larry & Toni (Schroeder) Sly
04/03/2014
So sorry to learn of Barbs passing. Hope you find this poem to be as comforting to you as it has been to me. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. ................................................................................. ........... To Those I Love
&
Those Who Love Me
When I am gone, release me, let me go
I have so many things to see and do
You mustn't tie yourself to me with tears
Be happy that we had so many years.
I gave you my love, you can only guess
How much you gave to me in happiness
I thank you for the love you each have shown
But now it's time I travelled on alone.
So grieve a while for me if grieve you must
Then let your grief be comforted by trust
It's only for a while that we must part
So bless the memories within your heart.
I won't be far away, for life goes on
So if you need me, call me and I will come
Though you can't see me or touch me I'll be near
All of my love around you soft and clear.
And then, when you must come this way alone
I'll greet you with a smile and say
"Welcome Home"
Bob and Deb Lord
04/03/2014
Dear Lisa, Steve and family, Our hearts break with you at the loss of your mother. We're so sorry and are holding you up in prayer.