Rita Arnett
February 07, 2014
Our most beloved mother, grandmother, aunt and friend Rita E. Arnett, age 90, of Des Moines entered eternal life to be with her Heavenly Father, Blessed Mother, and loving husband on February 7, 2014. She was born Rita Elizabeth Wiederholt on April 29, 1923 in Conception, Missouri. Rita met her lifelong sweetheart Roy G. Arnett in Denver, Colorado, where they were married after only a two week courtship on June 12, 1946. Roy and Rita moved to Des Moines where they raised their family of six children and created many enduring friendships with their neighbors. They were married for 67 years, and he preceded her in death just a few weeks ago.
Rita will always be remembered as a loving, kind, generous woman who was dedicated to caring for her husband, children, and grandchildren. She gave us the gift of life, and showed us through example and word how to live in the light and grace of God. She was also compassionate and nurturing to neighbors, friends, and relatives, giving help and comfort to all in need. For this she is loved and missed by all.
Rita and Roy resided in retirement in Onalaska, Texas for over 30 years before returning to Des Moines. She was a member of the Roman Catholic Church, life long member of the St. Anthony’s Altar and Rosary Society, and was a member of St. Anthony’s Parish in Des Moines and St. Joseph’s in Livingston, Texas.
Those left to mourn her passing include the six children that Rita and Roy brought into this world, and their spouses: Ronald Arnett and wife Ginger of Granbury, Texas; Rebecca Velez and husband Gustavo of Des Moines; Rita Arnett and husband John Allar of Las Cruces, New Mexico; Roslin Reynolds and husband Frank of Des Moines; Raymond Arnett and wife Janice of Las Cruces, New Mexico; and Randy Arnett and wife Robin of Onalaska, Texas. Other survivors who will miss her deeply include 21 grandchildren; 34 great grandchildren; her sisters Mary Giudicessi, Norma Shively, Louella Hall, brothers Delbert Wiederholt and Lucian Wiederholt, as well as numerous nieces, nephews and cousins.
The family will greet friends from 5:00 to 7:00 p.m. on Tuesday, February 11, 2014 with a rosary to begin at 7:00 p.m. Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 10:30 a.m. on Wednesday, February 12, 2014 at St. Anthony Catholic Church, 15 Indianola Road. Burial will follow at Iowa Veterans Cemetery in Van Meter.
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Mike & Shirley Shanks
02/12/2014
We are so sorry to hear of Aunt Rita's passing. May all the joys she brought to her family and friends be remembered.
Rhonda/Keith Howell & Chris
02/10/2014
Our beautiful, beautiful Rita who we love and miss dearly. No words could every express the deep love we have for Rita and all her family. Rita was a true blessing that came into our lives and we will always be thankful to God for that. As each of us suffer from this great loss; may we find comfort, peace and courage to face the days ahead and treasure all the special times spent with Rita that will live forever in our hearts. Love to you all.
Cindy Nielsen
02/08/2014
With deepest sympathy in your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
James and Monica Hardy and family
02/08/2014
I still have a hard time wrapping my thoughts around the thought your folks will not be at the next family reunion. I'm so glad I got to see them this past summer. We will always remember your great parents.
Becky
02/08/2014
Mom you left so fast I missed mumbling into your ear, kissing you, and getting my goodbye kiss back. I know I got one the night before when we left but you failed to tell me it would be the last one. You owe me so some time in the near future whisper softly while I sleep and give me an angels kiss goodbye and watch over Gus and I as we try to live without our two best friends.
Carol Taian
02/08/2014
May you all be comforted knowing she and Roy will be together forever in Heavenly Peace and God's love. I will always hold dear in my heart and soul the trust Rita placed in me to raise Nicole on my own, and for the time Nicole was able to share with her following Roy's passing. My deepest sympathies to all of you for the loss of such wonderful parents, grandparents, and friends.
Kasey Robinson
02/08/2014
RIP Grandmother Rita. You will truly be missed and I will never forget how kind and sweet that you were always to me. Until we meet again! Rest Easy!