Kathy Ilene Crooks-Cleghorn
September 10, 2013
July 26th, 1974 – September 10th, 2013
It is with sad hearts we announce Kathy’s passing. She lost her fight with PAH after seven blessed years and joined her parents in heaven Tuesday morning.
Kathy was a devoted mother, sister, wife and friend as well as a life-long care giver. She and Jerry Cleghorn were married September 8th, 2012 in Las Vegas, NV. She was baptized in the spring of 2011.
Kathy worked for Marriott Downtown for seven years. She loved crafts, family time, and being there for anyone, four legged or two. Kathy was an awesome cook who loved to host family dinners for everyone. Gambling was a favorite pastime, as noted by her wedding destination.
Kathy was preceded to heaven by her parents, Kathleen Wingfield-Crooks in 1997 and Thomas E. Crooks in 2011.
She is beloved mother to Crystal Weesner-Baker (Taylor), Jimmy Weesner, and step-daughter Cori Peak; and loving sister to Randy (Michele), Greg (Tracy), Debra, Julie (Mike), Diana (Ralph) and Roger. She is also survived by many nieces and nephews who loved her dearly.
Visitation will be held from 6 to 8 p.m., Friday, September 13, 2013, at Hamilton’s Funeral Home, 605 Lyon Street in Des Moines.
Condolences may be expressed at:
www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com
Carol Holmes
09/13/2013
So sorry to hear that you've lost Kathy. I had worked with Kathy & Jerry down at Marriott. Keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers
midge anderson
09/12/2013
time for you kids to go on with your life and memories of your mom will be with you.. my heart goes out to the both of you.. jimmy if you need anything remember midge is here for you always...
Tracy
09/12/2013
Here is a couple of poems that I felt may help us all:
I'm Gone now, but I'm still very near.
Death can never separate us.
Each time you feel a gentle breeze,
It's my hand caressing your face.
Each time the wind blows,
It carries my voice whispering your name.
When the wind blows your hair ever so slightly,
Think of it as me pushing a few stray hairs back in place.
When you feel a few raindrops fall on your face,
It's me placing soft kisses.
At night look up in the sky and see the stars shining so brightly.
I'm one of those stars and I'm winking at you and smiling with delight.
For never forget you're the apple of my eye.
--- Mary M. Green
You can shed tears that she is gone,
or you can smile because she has lived.
You can close your eyes and pray that she'll come back,
or you can open your eyes and see all she's left.
Your heart can be empty because you can't see her,
or you can be full of the love you shared.
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday,
or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember her only that she is gone,
or you can cherish her memory and let it live on.
You can cry and close your mind,
be empty and turn your back.
Or you can do what she'd want:
smile, open your eyes, love and go on.
---David Harkins
Lots of Love, Tracy
Nikki Jacobsen
09/11/2013
To Crystal & Jimmy:
Don't think of your mom as gone away,
her journey's just begun.
Life hold many facets,
this earth is only one.
Just think of her as resting,
from the pain and the tears.
In a place of warmth and comfort,
where there are no days or years.
Think how she must be wishing,
that you could know today.
How nothing but your sorrow,
can really pass away.
And think of her as living,
in the hearts of those she touched.
For no one that was ever loved,
is ever truly lost.
So keep her in your heart,
each and every day.
For she will always be with you,
to guide you along your way.
I Love you Crystal & Jimmy!!
Love Nikki