Victor "Bob" Dow, Jr.
June 08, 2013
Victor R. “Bob” Dow, Jr., of Des Moines, passed away peacefully on Saturday, June 8, 2013, at Lutheran Hospital. Bob was born on June 4, 1947, in Des Moines to Arlene and Victor Dow, Sr.
Bob was a graduate of Lincoln High School, University of Iowa, and Drake University. He was a man who wore many hats, holding several positions in the Des Moines area, including: a basketball coach, Polk County Conservation, a teacher for Callahan Middle School, Perfection Form Co., and delivery driver and owner/operator of Db Productions for twenty years. His most recent accomplishment was becoming a published author of Animal Campaign “How We Beat The Beltway.”
Those left behind to celebrate Bob’s life are the mother of his children, Carmen Dow; siblings, Tim (Penny) and Nancie (Tom); children, Chris and Brian Dow; and grandson, Alex.
Family will greet friends from 10:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m., on Friday, June 14, 2013, at Hamilton’s Southtown Funeral Home, 5400 SW 9th Street. A memorial service will begin at the funeral home at 12 noon.
In honor of Bob the family requests you come dressed in Cubs, Hawks, Bears, or Lincoln High School attire, and prepared to share a famous “Bob story.” We will not be discussing Elvis, the Tea Party, or the Yankees the day of his service.
Memorial contributions may be directed to the family in loving memory of Bob.
Condolences may be expressed at:
www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com
Michael (Not Gretchen)
06/14/2013
Errrrrr.............ERRATA! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
So much for the Evelyn Wood Speed Reading course I took at the U of I. . . . . . . . . . .1. Place the "and" where it belongs in the second sentence, to now read "thoughts and stories." . . . . . . . .2. Sorry, Nancie and Penny. Seems I had a brain bubble and substituted the name "Penny" for "Nancie" as the little sister retired who early with her parents, allowing the bad boys to run amok in the Edgemont Attic many a late Arctic night. Vic, the professional proof reader, Arlene the dry witted critic, and Bob, who was always looking for a reason, are chuckling from above, this moment, at my speed writing/proof reading error (well, probably at least two out of the three are looking down from above). My only defense is the truth. Your names are almost interchangeable, as you, respectively, have or had Dow as a surname; you're both cute, bright, witty, mature, and level headed; and I'd surely never confuse either of you with Bob or Tim.
Michael & Gretchen
06/13/2013
Condolences to all. Sorry we can't make it to share time with others in remembrance of Bob. We'll be there in spirit, as I'm sure Bob will be, too! . . . . .
Since we can't be there to share thoughts stories directly, these come to mind, in loose order of appearance, along the journey of our lives: . . . . .
1. My short experience with the Boy Scouts, under Vic's guidance, and looking up to you, Bob, the Eagle Scout. What was I thinking?!?! . . . . .
2. Hanging out at the old homestead with Tim et. al., during those long winter, snow filled, weekend nights, while we were in high school. Six Pack Bob would be back from the U of I, occasionally, assisting us in our productively passing the time away (long after Vic, Arlene, and Penny blew out the candles). . . . . .
3. Crazy nights doing odd stuff, like hitting the Haunted Farmhouse, led by "Hudgill." Tim's going to elaborate on that.
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4. The "bachelor pad" Bob and I shared my first year at the U of I. Bob didn't like to awaken before noon, or so. Carmen - remember the morning we pranked him? You kissed him, and asked him if he liked it - yes, he mumbled - you did it again, and quickly hid, and I jumped in beside him. As he slowly awakened with a smile, it soon turned to to wonderment, then a flush face full confusion and confabulation, for about a minute, until Carmen and I couldn't hold off our laughter. Priceless! . . . . .
5. Bob's delight (and Carmen's disdain) when I had the distinct privilege of teaching Chris his first word, as a toddler. . . . . .
6. The times Bob and I spent together, and as a tag team (including Gretchen) with Hudgill during his times of crisis. Bob's caring and compassion was remarkable, and omnipresent.
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7. The breakfast nook! (only for those of you who know!!!).
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8. Bob painting my car for the wedding - Adam chasing Eve ala fig leaves (It's the photo in Bob's book, the one where he's wearing the pirate hat). Gretchen's parent's weren't sure about me to begin with, and the Wakonda Club wasn't sure about the vowel at the end of my name. Needless to say, the car was a big hit parked at the entrance of the Club that night! As often was the case, I took the flack for Bob's improprieties.
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9. Our wedding present - a charcoal of Gretchen and me, and old auto. Gretchen's in the driver's seat. Gretchen, our children, and grandchildren acknowledge and appreciate Bob's clairvoyance!. . . . . .
10. The football weekends and rock concerts at the U of I, and the Dylan concert in Chicago! A true party animal, was Bob! . . . . .
11. Bob's help with my father's campaign. Thanks again, Bob! . . . . .
12. Bob's unconditional friendship and loyalty. . . . . .
Bob, you were woven into the fabric of the lives of many, including mine and Gretchen's. You will be missed, and you will be celebrated! . . . . .
P.S. Give our regards to Hudgill, Vic & Arlene, Lou & Anita, and Roy & Gwen! Don't be dismayed when you hear from Anita and Gwen that I blamed you for my bad habits!
Daryle Tholl
06/13/2013
My heart goes out to Bob's family and friends. He was a good friend to me when I needed one. Plus -- and this is big -- he was the first person to ever take a picture of me that made me happy because it looked far too good to look like me.
David Pulliam
06/13/2013
Chris:
Sorry to hear about your dad. Gone too soon.
Una Hull-Smith
06/13/2013
With my deepest sympathies, I write of a man who made me laugh, always supported me in doing the best I could with everything. There are many memories of DP Productions and all the time Doyle & I spent with Bob, Carmen and boys when they were little. Many fun time at Holiday Lake, the studio, and at their home and ours. Very big hugs to all of you.
Mary Ann Kenneally McCoy
06/12/2013
Dear Tim & Nancie,
My sincere sympathy to you & Bob's family. Your parents were always so good to us and we remember Bob in our prayers and thoughts. Mary Ann
leslie wenger weigand
06/12/2013
My love and heart goes out to my family and friends of Bob. I wish I could come to the funeral but I have a bad back and am having surgery next week. but my thoughts and prayers will be with you . I shall always remember his wonderful smile, his artistry and how much fun we had as children when we would visit ! Love Leslie
Joni F
06/12/2013
My sincerest sympathy goes out to the friends and family of Bob. Losing a loved one is such a difficult thing to deal with. As time goes by, you will begin to realize that as you think of his smiles, his love of his family, his laughter, the pain will have diminished a bit and you'll find yourself smiling again. I didn't know him personally but, having lost someone dear to me, I can empathize with the pain you are experiencing. What comfort such scriptures as John 5:28,29 brought me! You will read there about the promise Jesus gave of resurrecting our loved ones back to life. When he resurrected His friend Lazarus back to life ( John 11:38-44 ) He showed his ability and desire to fulfill that promise. Can you just imagine the joy Lazarus' sisters felt when they held him in their arms once again? This joy we too will feel in the very near future. Until that day comes, we have the promise that God will draw close to those whose hearts have been broken ( Psalms 34:18 ) I truly hope these few scriptures have helped lessen the pain you feel as they had mine.