Beryl "Sue" Bullard-Fisher
May 05, 2013
Susan “Aunt Sue” passed away peacefully at home on Sunday, May 5, 2013, after losing her battle with lung disease. During her last two years of life, as she struggled with health issues, she continued her work of loving and guiding disadvantaged young people into becoming responsible adults through her “tough love” approach. It was this approach that defined a most successful career for close to 40 years with the Department of Corrections, 5th Judicial District, as a Parole/Probation Officer.
Susan was born in Des Moines on the 20th of May, 1948, to Orrie and Meta Fisher. After graduating from Des Moines Technical High School, she attended Drake University to prepare herself for a career in criminal justice.
Throughout her life, Susan loved and cherished her many animals including dogs, cats, and raising chickens. She considered herself an amateur historian with a special interest in the Civil War, which took her to many Civil War battlefields. Her most favorite vacation spot was her beloved Ocracoke Island, in the Outer Banks of North Carolina. That is where her fondest memories of the biggest fish she was ever to catch came to life.
Susan was always an avid angler, but salt water fishing at Ocracoke brought tremendous joy to her life. Other travels took her to our nation’s capitol many times where she became a student of Washington, D.C., history. Susan especially had a special fondness for Arlington National Cemetery steeped in the American history she loved.
Among her other passions, Susan became a master vegetable gardener and loved taking her camper out for a few days of R&R with family and friends. She enjoyed cooking her famous barbeque ribs, canning her mom’s pickled beets, but most importantly were her famous holiday favorites “Aunt Sue’s little weenies” for which she was published.
Susan was preceded in death by her mom and dad; brother, Raymond Fisher; first wife, Marsha; and her brother-in-law, Wesley Bullard. She is survived by her wife, Carol; sisters, Patti (Carl) Little and Judy Fisher; sister-in-law, Raye Fisher; longtime roommate, Agnes Curran; many nieces, nephews, great-nieces and great-nephews; three great-great-nieces; and her mother-in-law, Bobbie Bass.
Many thanks from the family and friends of Susan’s go to Mercy Hospice who comforted us and guided us through this most difficult time.
Visitation for Susan will be held Wednesday, May 8, 2013, from 5 to 7 p.m., at Hamilton’s Funeral Home, 605 Lyon Street, with a Memorial Celebration Prayer of Susan’s life at 7 p.m. Funeral services will be held at 12 p.m., Thursday, at Bloomfield United Methodist Church, 5930 Indianola Avenue in Des Moines, followed by burial at Sunset Memorial Gardens Cemetery. A potluck will be held at the church following the burial.
Memorial contributions may be made to JoAnne Milby’s Animal Sanctuary, (515) 989-3591, P.O. Box 246, Carlisle, Iowa 50047 or Mercy Hospice of Des Moines.
Condolences may be expressed at:
www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com
Laurena Hunter
05/09/2013
I knew Sue for many years when her and Marsha were together. I used to go there for thanksgiving and we played Trivial Pursuit. Never forget when we went to the Anne Murray concert and had seats in the 3rd row. I had been thinking about her, because Marsha's birthday was May 4th Rest in peace Sue
Catherine Campbell-Dunn
05/09/2013
The last time I saw Susan was the first time I saw her in 30 years. She was the same person I came to love and respect when I was a teen. I thought we would have plenty of time to catch up on our lives but God saw differently. Susan lovingly guided me out of a life of drugs and kept me on the straight and narrow.Forever would have not been enough time for her to be on this earth.So many things I still had to say to her. I know she will still hear me. My condolences to the love of her life Carol and her family which she loved dearly.Thank you Susan,for the beautiful person you will always be.My prayers go out to Carol and all who crossed her path. We are all better people because of Susan. God bless.
Karen Jaggard
05/09/2013
I worked with Sue at ADAPT in the 70's, learning so many life lessons from her in those years. I still picture her leaning back in her chair with her cowboy boots up on the desk, helping me deal with so many issues as a young counselor. She was an important mentor at the beginning of my 32 year career in human services. I send love & thanks to Sue, her family & friends.
Season Ford
05/08/2013
For Aunt Sue -
I was with you for a period of time through your last few weeks of life. During this time I shed many tears, told many stories, and made sure to give you what I could for love. In my 34 years of life you have always been there. I will always cherish the fact that blood or no blood you were always my Aunt Sue!
It saddens me that I will not be able to attend your services. I have been battling my own demons from the loss of my mother and you and I were on the same path after losing our most cherished loved ones. I now understand your state of mind in 2002. I love you with all my heart, hope you are smoking that cigarette and drinking that beer up in heaven, and I hope that you will give my mom a giant hug and kiss for me and tell her that I love her to the moon and back! I'll be seeing you in the future. Don't forget to save me a place!
All my love,
Season
Diane Manser
05/08/2013
My condolences to the family and all of Sue's lifelong friends. Sue was a true mentor for me as a co-worker in the Fifth Judicial District. She did not teach me just about work, she taught me how to push through life even when faced with tough times. She was a strong but sensitive person who had a intrinsic talent for helping others especially in the mental health field. She was old school (great school) when it came to Presentence Investigations. I learned from her it was not just an "interview" it was true dirt digging and discovery. Sue stood her ground and was not afraid to speak up when the situation at hand became difficult to stay the course and do what was right. I will miss Sue and everything she so generously gave to those who came within her midst. My memories of Sue are the best....even the famous canned beets of which I was initially apprehensive to try!! Goodbye friend you will truly be missed.
Mary Belieu
05/07/2013
Carol and family,
Sue was a wonderful person and a good friend. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.