Pam Lynn Butler
March 03, 2013
Pam Butler, 45, was surrounded by her family when she passed away peacefully after a brief battle with cancer on Sunday, March 3, 2013 at her home in Ankeny. She was born in Freeman, South Dakota on February 21, 1968, daughter of Loren and Ellen (Olson) Graber. She married the love of her life, Tom Butler, on August 13, 1988. They had three children together.
Pam was a woman of amazing faith and an active member of Cornerstone Church in Ames. She was involved with two Bible study groups and a Ladies Golf League. Pam was a realtor with Iowa Realty and Kimberley Development. She cherished her family and was known as the “Fun Mom.” Her three children were the joy of her life and she was very involved in their many activities.
Pam is survived by her husband of 24 years, Tom; children, Molli Butler, Houston Butler and Aimee Butler; parents, Loren and Ellen Graber; sisters, Pennie (Dennis) Carroll, and Paula (Steve) Jones; as well as many nieces, nephews, and dear friends. She was preceded in death by her paternal grandparents, Waldo “Slim” and Annie Graber; maternal grandparents, Merrill and Gladys Olson; and her niece, Elise Butler.
Funeral services will be held at 7 p.m., Thursday, March 7, 2013 at Grace Church, 4200 E. 25th Street in Des Moines. The family will receive visitors from 5 to 7 p.m., prior to funeral services. A private burial will occur on Friday, March 8, 2013.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be given to the family for the future education of her children.
Online condolences may be made to:
www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
Jen, Luke, & Mia Hubbard
03/07/2013
While we only had the priveledge of meeting Pam a few times just recently, we are deeply saddened at the news of her passing. Tom, we are praying for you, your kids, and the rest of the family.
What always struck me personally was that you two were such a beautiful, wonderful, loving couple. I know our life has been enriched by Pam in the just few moments we got to spend with her. God bless her and God bless you all.
Sheryl (Johnson) Carman
03/07/2013
My deepest condolences to Pam's family and all the families. Pam's smile and essence just sparkled. There's no telling how many people she affected and touched, and her life she lived and love she shared will carry on. She was truly a beautiful person inside and out.
Sean Martin
03/07/2013
My heart goes out to Pam's family on news of her passing. I've known Pam, Paula, and Pennie for over thirty years and there are no finer friends and sisters so I know it must have been hard for you all. Pam has enriched all of our lives and she will never be forgotten.
Betsy Haas-Reineck
03/07/2013
Pam will be missed so much, she was a very bubbly, happy and caring woman, her walk with God begins and my prayers are with her family who's loss is so tremendous, thanks, Pam for being a friend and great co worker..
Anthony Bonanno
03/07/2013
Tom, I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of Pam. We all met as neighbors so many years ago and I will always remember her smile and positive energy. My prayers go out to you and your family.
Dan, Lilian, and Gabriel Swedberg
03/07/2013
Tom, your children, and the Grabers, may the peace of God that surpasses all understanding fill your hearts and minds at this time. I have deap appreciation for you all, and am thankful for the time I spent with you all in preparation to be a missionary in Brazil. God bless.
Ryan, Renee and Emerson Miller
03/06/2013
Our hearts break for your family. While we only met Pam in passing, through Pennie, we know how special she was and how many people's lives she touched. May God's presence be felt by your family as you naviagate this difficult path and may you find peace through the memories you share of Pam. Our thoughts and prayers will be with all of you. God Bless your family and God bless Pam as she finds her new place with the Lord.
Gary & Gloria (Hofer) Stahl
03/06/2013
To Pam's Family....
Our hearts go out to you during this time of loss. We will lift you up to the Father for comfort that only He can give. May you find peace in the days ahead knowing that she is with Jesus. Heaven is nearer and dearer when our loved ones are there waiting for us.
Ellen McCulloch-Cooper
03/06/2013
I am sorry to hear of your loss. I remember Pam and her sisters at Grandview Church. They were fun and loving. They were special.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
James & Fonda Wettestad
03/06/2013
Tom, we are so sorry for your loss! Even though we met through business, Pam always made us feel we were truly friends. She was such a special
person and will be missed. You and your children are in our prayers.
Scott Cole; Ellicott City, MD
03/06/2013
Tom, so sorry for your loss. Pam was one in a million and will be truly missed. Your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Wes and Keri Morris
03/06/2013
Tom, we are so sad to see this. I had just thought about Pam today. We have such fond memories of Pam. Our hearts mourn for you and your family.
Emily Garlock Dickenson
03/06/2013
Tom , Pennie and Family, I am so very sorry for your loss. Hold on to your memories they will live on forever with you and your family. Pam was a super person and I am so grateful to have known her. Pam was a very thoughtful and caring lady! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Jomarie Tucci
03/06/2013
Tom & Family,
I send my heartfelt sympathy to your entire family. I had the pleasure of meeting Pam while working on the Iowa Realty Show. Without question she was one of the most fun realtors to work with. I loved the excitement she had when talking about her children and family. Her laugh was infectiousshe made me laugh every time we met. Pam left a lasting impression of happiness, joy and fun with me. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this painful time.
Jamie Morawski
03/06/2013
I am so sorry for your loss. Pam was such a sweet person. It's obvious that she will be missed greatly. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.