Pam Lynn Butler
March 03, 2013
Pam Butler, 45, was surrounded by her family when she passed away peacefully after a brief battle with cancer on Sunday, March 3, 2013 at her home in Ankeny. She was born in Freeman, South Dakota on February 21, 1968, daughter of Loren and Ellen (Olson) Graber. She married the love of her life, Tom Butler, on August 13, 1988. They had three children together.
Pam was a woman of amazing faith and an active member of Cornerstone Church in Ames. She was involved with two Bible study groups and a Ladies Golf League. Pam was a realtor with Iowa Realty and Kimberley Development. She cherished her family and was known as the “Fun Mom.” Her three children were the joy of her life and she was very involved in their many activities.
Pam is survived by her husband of 24 years, Tom; children, Molli Butler, Houston Butler and Aimee Butler; parents, Loren and Ellen Graber; sisters, Pennie (Dennis) Carroll, and Paula (Steve) Jones; as well as many nieces, nephews, and dear friends. She was preceded in death by her paternal grandparents, Waldo “Slim” and Annie Graber; maternal grandparents, Merrill and Gladys Olson; and her niece, Elise Butler.
Funeral services will be held at 7 p.m., Thursday, March 7, 2013 at Grace Church, 4200 E. 25th Street in Des Moines. The family will receive visitors from 5 to 7 p.m., prior to funeral services. A private burial will occur on Friday, March 8, 2013.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be given to the family for the future education of her children.
Online condolences may be made to:
www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
Karen Johnson
10/09/2013
Hi Tom, You and the children have continued to be on the minds of Vern and me. It is a year now since we met you and Pam at Mayo. I have prayed for you so often. I pray that you are beginning to heal. We can only imagine the pain that you have experienced. I continue to do well with my cancer and treatment. I have completed chemo and radiation and will do hormonal therapy for five years. I pray for ongoing healing, and know that only Jesus and The Helper know the whole history of us all! I read a wonderful book by Catherine Marshall this summer, The Helper. The power of the Holy Spirit can sustain us, even when we wonder how we shall go on. We will continue to pray for you and your children for all of our lives Tom. We look forward to meeting with you and Pam in Glory. Thank you! Karen Johnson, South Range, WI
Todd and Wendy Harker
03/11/2013
We are saddened by the news of Pam's death but we rejoice in the truth she is with her precious Savior. We have been praying for you and your family since we heard the news. I know she will be missed dearly. We are praying for God's comfort during this time in your life.
Jeff & Linda Dvorak
03/08/2013
We are so very sorry to hear this sad news. We relocated to Des Moines last summer and Pam was our first contact in the area. She worked so very hard, always with a smile, to help two strangers find the perfect home. She even greeted our family with a batch of cookies knowing it would be a long day of house hunting!! Clearly that was just the kind of person she was. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Mel & Peggy Walker
03/08/2013
Tom & Family, just wanted you to know that we are praying much for you. We know His grace will be sufficient.
Alyce and Bob Burnett
03/07/2013
We were deeply touched by her testimony and her impact on so many lives. Bob remembers taking her and the kids up for an airlplane ride.......moments to remember. How she loved to make memories......
Julie Lefler
03/07/2013
I was saddened to hear about Pam. I worked with her at Burger King in high school. I also had the opportunity to go to bible camp with her and her sisters. I haven't seen her in years but will never forget how strong she was in her faith! She was beautiful inside and out ! May you find peace knowing she is dancing with our lord and savior!
---- In his grip Julie Thompson - Lefler
Lisa Hostetler
03/07/2013
Penny we are sorry to hear of your loss. We don't always understand but rest assured that God sees the "whole " picture. We will be praying for you and your family.
Dave & Debbie Board
03/07/2013
Tom and family, We grew up with Pam all through our school years at Grandview. We are saddened by her home going but so challenged and grateful for her unwavering testimony of faith as reflected in her blog. We pray that you will sense God's comfort today and in the days to come. Dave & Debbie - Phnom Penh, Cambodia
Tom & Carol Renda
03/07/2013
Pennie sorry to hear about your sister i will keep you and pams family in my prayers
Rob, Tina and Kayla McCaffery
03/07/2013
Tom and children, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Our condolences go to you and you family.
Jeff & Jane Eagan, neighbors of Tracey & Chris Boo
03/07/2013
Our hearts go out to Pam's family. God bless you during this difficult time. Keep the memories close - they will always be there. May our Father in heaven hold you tightly in his arms and give you comfort.
Gene Bucholtz
03/07/2013
Our deepest condolences to all of Pam's family and loved ones. I remember Pam so well in 8th grade, and in 9th grade at Grandview. I remember smiles and more smiles! Pam had such an excellent and sweet spirit. Her smiles and personality always lit up the room, reflecting her excellent family life and upbringing, and most of all, her Savior. We greatly look forward, with tears of sorrow, and with tears of joy, to seeing Pam again someday where we will be with her again in the presence of our Lord! Our prayers are with all of Pam's family and loved ones.
Gene & Tami Bucholtz
Bill HAMILTON
03/07/2013
TOM & FAMILY:
I AM SO VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. PAM HAS BEEN A GOOD FRIEND. I REALLY ENJOYED WORKING FOR HER IN THE OPEN HOUSES. MAY GODS BLESSINGS BE WITH YOU.
Tracy Zobel Pellegrino
03/07/2013
God Bless you and your family during this very challenging time. My prayers are with you!
Sue Deaton Bergsieker GPBS 81
03/07/2013
So sorry for your family's loss. I hope you are comforted by the knowledge that she rests in the arms of Jesus - what joy unspeakable!